Sex Chat for Christian Wives

This week's quickie is from J. Parker about setting goals for healthy, God-designed sexuality in 2026 and beyond. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Related post: My One Word for 2026 & Other Ways to Set Goals - Hot, Holy & Humorous

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As usual, we're wrapping up the year with our annual Christmas gift guide. We're joined by friend and supporter Linda Thwing (pronounced twing) as we share ideas that can deepen your intimacy in four areas: physical, intellectual/creative, emotional, and spiritual.

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From the Bible

Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. 1...

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with tips on how to de-stress the holidays for your own sake and for your marriage. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

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Today, we're tackling some tough listener questions. We're joined by Tara Buchanan, good friend and cohost of the Behind Our Smiles podcast.

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From the Bible

The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that...

What a treat today! Gaye Christmus, our former cohost, shares five practical ways to feel more sensual. Be sure to check out her Healthy Life Toolbox website and shop.

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Strong Wives - Bonny Burn...

Today, we're highlighting one of our favorite episodes ever! Featuring the OG gang, we address that sex is for wives too and how to embrace it!

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From the Bible

Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you— if you find my beloved, what will you tell him? Tell him I am faint with love. Song of Songs 5:18

Come, my...

This week's quickie is from J. Parker about how to kiss more often in your marriage and improve the experience!  

Resources

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Today we're diving into how our personal stories shape our sexuality and our experiences with sex. Joining Bonny and J for this important conversation is Kate Aldrich, a marriage coach and mentor with an emphasis on Story Work.

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From the Bible

For you created my inmost being;
    you knit me together in my mother's womb.
I praise you becaus...

This week's quickie is from J. Parker about the benefits of kissing to both you and your marriage. 

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Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J...

Jess Seitz, occupational therapist and vaginismus recovery specialist, of Pain-Free Intimacy joins us to talk about how wives can address sexual pain they currently have or may have in the future.

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From the Bible

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all...

This week's quickie is from J. Parker about how to start praying about the sexual intimacy in your marriage. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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With J out, Chris and Bonny tackle what they wish they'd known about their own sexuality long ago. Learn from their hard-earned insights!

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From the Bible

The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge,
    for the ears of the wise seek it out.
Proverbs 18:15

Resources

This week's quickie is from J Parker about The Golden Trio (hint: it's about helping women have orgasms, or better orgasms!)

Here are a couple additional resources for you:

Its Choicest Fruits | The Forgiven Wife
Of Garden, Fragrance, and Fruit | The Forgiven Wife

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Tara Buchanan of the Behind Our Smiles marriage podcast joins us to talk about the impact of childhood trauma—big T and little t—on sex in marriage and how to help your husband heal.

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From the Bible

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18

Though my father and mother forsake me, the Lord will...

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From the Bible

We can make our plans, but the Lord determines our steps. Proverbs 16:9 (NLT)

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We tackle listener questions today from a wife who doesn't even want to want sex, a woman wanting to know how to prepare for her wedding night and marriage, and a wife who can't seem to get all the way there with orgasm.

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From the Bible

That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is...

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about measuring sexual growth.

Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

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Today, we talk about how social media influences our view of sex, both good and bad, and how to be more intentional with our engagement.

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From the Bible

You say, 'I have the right to do anything.' But not everything is helpful. Again you say, 'I have the right to do anything...

This week's quickie is from J Parker about choosing a lubricant for sexual intimacy.

A few lube recommendations:

Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned f...

We welcome back former cohost and fan favorite Gaye Christmus to talk about fostering intimacy in your marriage during the summer months—both the challenges and the opportunities.

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From the Bible

It was you who set all the boundaries of the earth; you made both summer and winter. Psalm 74:17

Re...

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about decorating yourself for sex.

Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

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On this podcast, we're not focused on just having sex. We want wives to experience great sex. But how do we define that? Today, we're diving into what makes for great sex in marriage and how to get there.

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This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with the last of her kegels series about connecting with your body after trauma.

You can find the first two quickies of the series here:

Episode 215: Kegels and Sexual Pleasure (Quickie)

Episode 219: Kegels and Climax (Quickie)

Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

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Sex can feel weird for many wives. We talk about why and how to get past the awkward to better sexual intimacy.

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From the Bible

Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 1:17

Resources

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about the sexual benefits of exercise.

Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

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We welcome Francie Winslow of Heaven in Your Home to talk about why and how to integrate body and soul for better sexual pleasure and intimacy.

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This week's quickie is from J Parker about how to find support and wisdom to help your sex life.

Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We tackle some tough listener questions today, with a biblical perspective and authenticity. Learn what we have to say about a lack of desire postpartum, a husband who wants to engage sexually through Facetime, and maintaining intimacy when chronic illness makes it difficult.

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This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about whether it's okay to use vibrators—and why it might be worth looking into.

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Jenn Schmidt from Intimate Covenant joins us to talk about overcoming sexual abuse and building a healthy, intimate sex life with your husband.

NOTE: J totally got the episode number wrong! Not the first time she's been wrong. ~wink~

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From the Bible

Praise the Lord, my soul, and forget not all his benefits— who forgives all your sins and heals all yo...

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about using kegel exercises to enhance your climax.

Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

It's the OG gang today talking about taking care of your sexual self—particularly the physical aspect of our female sexuality. Take a listen!

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From the Bible

Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for yo...

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about how initiating sex.

Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

On her book's launch day, J. Parker hosts three fellow higher desire wives—Tara Buchanan, Julie Sibert, and Tammy Hopkins—for a special roundtable on when she wants sex more than he does.

NOTE: Please forgive the not-so-great audio at times in this episode. We did our best without the usual professional equipment.

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From the Bible

I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me. Song of Songs 7:10

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about how kegel exercises help your sexual pleasure.

Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Phylicia Masonheimer joins us to discuss what a theology of sex is, why we struggle with it, and how to develop a better theology.

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From the Bible

But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things! Galatians 5:22–23 (NLT)

The husband should fulfill his marital duty to hi...

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about using baby wipes in the bedroom. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Today, we tackle the sensitive subject of masturbation. What does the Bible say about it? Why do Christians differ on their opinions? And how can we discern what's right for us?

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From the Bible

But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful...

This week's quickie is from J Parker about celebrating Valentine's Day. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We've been talking about sexual experience for many years now, and we figured it was time to discuss why sex even matters in marriage? What's the point?

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As we embark on a new year, we talk about the goal of sexual growth, how to pursue it, and what you can expect along the way.

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From the Bible

In the same way, you wives, be subject to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, th...

This week's quickie is from J Parker about the many ways you can give your husband oral sex. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

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What is "celebration sex"? You might think of it as sex on a special occasion like a birthday, anniversary, Valentine's Day, or some other holiday. But we believe it can and should be a true celebration of marital intimacy, so today we tackle the what, why, and how of planning for celebration sex. 

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From the Bible

I belong to my beloved,
    and his desire is for me.
Com...

This week's quickie is from J Parker about focusing on intimacy during the holidays. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

If you're looking for Christmas ideas for you and your sweetie, check out our 2025 Christmas gift episode!

It's our annual holiday gift guide for wives! We've got great gift ideas to enhance intimacy in every room of your house: kitchen, living room, bathroom, and bedroom.

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From the Bible

Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 1:17

Resources

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor with four ways to be fully present during sex. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

When it comes to making time for sexual intimacy during the holiday rush, it can be wonderfully stressful or wonderfully playful or anything in between. We discuss how to navigate the busy-ness and stress of the holidays so that you can create a time of playfulness with your spouse and give you some ideas to build playfulness in your relationship and sex life.

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What do women want to know about sex when we're face to faced with them? While we have regular listener question episodes, we wanted to address FAQs we get when speaking to a group or working with individuals or small groups. So get ready for six common questions and our answers.

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This week's quickie is from Bonny Logsdon Burns about how to have a conversation about mismatched sex drives. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

This week's quickie is from Bonny Logsdon Burns about things to consider when you and your spouse have mismatched sex drives. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Chris and J answer listener questions about sex after a vasectomy, competing with his phone for attention, plus-sized lovemaking, and how to use lube without losing the mood.

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From the Bible

Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance. Proverbs 1:5 (ESV)

Resources

This week's quickie is from J Parker about the importance of prioritizing sexual intimacy in your marriage. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We welcome Christian sex therapist Karissa Curtis to discuss talking to kids—our own and others in our church—about sex.

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From the Bible

I have given them your word and the world has hated them, for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world. My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am...

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about adding fun to your marriage using items commonly found in autumn. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We discuss how a wife's sexual response differs from her husband's, and how she can explain her female sexuality to him.

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From the Bible

You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body
  and knit me together in my mother's womb.
Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Duration: 00:28:20

This week's quickie is from J Parker about using creative timing to maintain or increase your sexual frequency. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Let's talk about the five senses—touch, sight, hearing, smell, and taste—and how to make the most of them to increase your sexual interest and enhance your lovemaking experience.

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From the Bible

For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. Psalm 139:13–14

My dove in the clefts of the ro...

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about what to remember when making sexual changes. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

What is sexual betrayal? Have you experienced it? Today, we address the sensitive topic of sexual betrayal with honesty and compassion, relying quite a bit on our in-house expert, Bonny Burns.

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From the Bible

"But I...

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about the power of words to foster friendship and overflow into your bedroom. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

The gang's all together again! Gaye Christmus joins us to talk about myths about sex, where they come from, and what truths wives need to embrace instead.

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From the Bible

I slept but my heart was awake. Listen! My beloved is knocking: "Open to me, my sister, my darling, my dove, my flawless one. My head is drenched with dew, my hair with the dampness of the night." I have taken off my robe— must I put it on again? I have...

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor and is specifically for wives who have been sexually reluctant and are ready to work on improving their sexual engagement with their husbands.

Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

In this episode, we tackle listener questions—specifically how to feel more confident in the bedroom by choosing something positive to wear, how to find a therapist in your area or online, and how to mentally shift from seeing oral sex as "dirty" to something married couples can (if they both want) do.

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From the Bible

Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my beloved among the young men. I delight to s...

This week's quickie is from J Parker about the importance of speaking up about what you need to experience sexual pleasure. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Juli Slattery & Joy Skarka join us today for a candid conversation about women and their struggle with porn. If you struggle, this episode will help. But if you don't, listen anyway so that you can be there to support fellow women trying to break free. And be sure to check out the new resource, Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out Of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy, cowritten by Dr. Juli Slattery and Dr. Joy Skarka

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In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, guest Julie Sibert talks about the benefits of showering. Yes, showering! Stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage.

Resources

For many Christians, it can be difficult to think about God and sex at the same time. How present is God in our bedrooms? And how does knowing that He knows make us feel? We dive deep into what God has to do with our sex lives and how to think about and embrace His involvement.

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From the Bible

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In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, Bonny Burns talks about praying for your sex life. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We welcome guest Dr. Carol Tanksley, who is an author, speaker, podcaster, licensed OB-Gyn, and a trained and ordained minister. She joins us to talk about how your sexual story shaped you and how to pursue sexual wholeness as God intended.

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From the Bible

John 4:1-42 (Jesus and...

In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, J Parker talks about the bad messages we hear about sex.

Many of us face obstacles to playfulness around sexuality and sexual experience. Today, we discuss ways to foster light hearts on a sometimes serious subject.

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From the Bible

Song of Songs - the whole book!

A cheerful heart is good medicine,
    but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.
Proverbs 17:22

Resources

This week's sex tip quickie comes from Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage: self touch.

Did you know that 3 out of 4 women at some point experience pain during intercourse? Today, we're joined by Debby Wade, a licensed therapist and expert in the area of women's sexual pain.

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From the Bible

Lord my God...

J explains why it's a great idea to have a euphemism for sex.

Earlier on in our podcast, we had an episode in which we gave advice to our newlywed selves. Today we want to revisit that topic a bit, but rather than talking to ourselves, we want to share the wisdom we've gained with young wives.

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From the Bible

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking...

In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, Chris gives you four tips on dealing with a gag reflex during oral sex.

When we talk about romantic attraction, we think of personal charm, visual appeal, and that spark of chemistry when a certain person is near. But for today's episode, consider this scientific one from Merriam-Webster, defining attraction as "a force acting mutually between particles of matter, tending to draw them together, and resisting their separation."

We're not just particles, but we want to be drawn toward our husband and to resist separation from him (and vice versa). But attraction doesn't stay the same over the whole of our marriage. Today, we talk about how...

This week's quickie sex tip encourages you to learn about your husband's body.

You've probably heard that sex is good for your husband or good for your marriage, but what about you? We share our thoughts on what's so great about sex for WIVES. Listen in!

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From the Bible

So I commended enjoyment, because a man has nothing better under the sun than to eat, drink, and be merry; for this will remain with him in his labor all the days of his life which God gives him...

In this week's sex tip, Chris talks about undressing for your husband as a sort of foreplay that helps both of you.

Today, we tackle listener questions about whether low sex drive might be genetic, as well as how to address lack of desire; dealing with a husband's erectile problems; and what to do about a husband who disrupts a wife's sleep for sex.

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From the Bible

Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. Song of Songs 2:7, 3:5, 8:4

This week's Sex Chat Quickie is about learning about your own body.

What does it mean to prioritize sex? What does that look like in a real-life marriage, especially in a real-life marriage and when there are obstacles to sexual intimacy?

From the Bible

Do not deprive one another—except when you agree for a time, to devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again; otherwise, Satan may tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 1 Corinthians 7:5 (CSB)

Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates ar...

We're launching a new feature of the Sex Chat for Christian Wives podcast—Sex Chat Quickies! On the weeks between our full-length episodes, one of our hosts will bring you a quick sex tip.

This week's tip is what to ask your husband.

It's hard to believe that we started this podcast seven years ago! Today, we're giving updates about our endeavors, talking about lessons learned, and announcing a few changes, including one big announcement.

From the Bible

Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart, and the pleasantness of a friend springs from their heartfelt advice. Proverbs 27:9

Resources

Psalm 34:18 says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." We are mindful of this promise as we share sad news about the unexpected death of Chris Taylor's husband. Please listen and consider how you can help.

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We carry on our annual tradition of sharing Christmas season gift ideas with stocking stuffers that are sweet, surprising, sensual, and sexy! Happy holidays, everyone.

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One of our earliest episodes addressed sex toys, but we haven't talked about it in a while. And yet, it's one of the most often asked questions. Are they okay? How to use them? How not to use them? We cover that ground and more.

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From the Bible

"I have the right to do anything," you say—but not everything is beneficial. "I have the right to do anything"—but...

Once again, we're answering your questions! Today, we'll cover three topics: what does "deprivation" really mean (1 Corinthians 7:3-5), dealing with the messiness of sex, and when sex cannot happen.

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Recorded while still on our retreat in Nashville, Tennessee, we're playing a game and invite you to play along! Inspired by a board game in the Airbnb where we stayed, Chris and J present trivia questions about sex and test how much we "sexperts" really know. 

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We have often shared tips of things you can do to enjoy sex more, but today we're going to talk about things not to do. In this episode, we address 6 things not to do during sex.

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From the Bible

My dove in the clefts of the rock,
    in the hiding places on the mountainside,
show me your face,
    let me hear your voice;
for your voice is sweet,
    and your face is lovely.
Song of Songs 2:14 Duration: 00:22:50

You've probably heard of love languages, or maybe you haven't. But when minister Gary Chapman noted that spouses often communicated love past one another, he realized that we express love in different ways. So, he proposed that there are five love languages—and his book of the same name became a bestseller and perennial favorite. Today, we'll talk about those languages and what they mean when it comes to our favorite topic: sex.

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The term "emotional labor" has come to mean the emotional cost of outwardly acting with composure when inwardly we are feeling something different. Rose Hackman, an expert on emotional labor describes is at the editing work of emotions that someone would do in order to have an effects on the emotions of someone else. Today, we want to talk about emotional labor and how it can negatively affect sexual interest.

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We're recording before the American Independence Day, but this episode will air on July 4th—a time when fireworks displays can be found all over the country. But what about the explosive power of lovemaking? How can you create fireworks in the bedroom?

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Today we're talking about the penis. What exactly is it? How does your husband feel about it? How do you feel about it? And how can you get comfortable and have fun with it?

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From the Bible

So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27

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Today's episode focuses on a group of women who often struggle to enjoy sex or prioritize sex in their marriages – busy moms. This group includes women across a wide range of ages and life stages 0151from those caring for infants and toddlers at home to those juggling all of the activities, demands, and worries involved in raising teenagers. We talk about some of the things that get in the way of busy moms enjoying sex in their marriages and share some ideas for creating a more enjoyable sex life.

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Today, we're discussing pornography and erotica, and you can probably guess where our collective opinions land. But we want to explore this topic just a little further to solidify where your values land.

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From the Bible

So God created human beings in his own image. In the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27 (NLT)

I will conduct the affairs of my house with a blameless heart. I will not...

About this episode

One of the most frequent questions we hear is how can we more easily achieve the ultimate moment with our husbands in the bedroom. So today, we are talking about practical tips to reach orgasm.

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From the Bible

Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth—
for your love is more delightful tha...

While some Christian leaders and churches address the topic of sex well, too many either mishandle it or ignore it altogether. We here at the virtual kitchen table have heard the stories, good and bad. And we're bringing our collective wisdom today to share what we wish more churches knew about sex and how to encourage church leaders to talk more biblically, authentically, and respectfully about it.

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In this episode, we tackle listener questions, including where Christian wives can find sex tips and techniques, fantasizing during lovemaking, when it's okay to refuse sex, and how to grab hold of an elusive orgasm.

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