Unbox Yourself: Sexual Identity and Coming Out Later in Life with Samantha Fox®
By: Samantha Fox
Language: en
Categories: Society, Culture, Relationships, Health, Fitness, Sexuality
Unbox Yourself: Sexual Identity and Coming Out Later in Life with Samantha Fox®A podcast about sexual identity, coming out later in life, and breaking free from compulsory heterosexuality. Unbox Yourself with Samantha Fox® is your weekly dose of real, raw conversations to help you break free from heteronormative limitations and step into a life of full authenticity.Each episode navigates real life stories of self-discovery—especially those who have come out later in life or are questioning their sexuality after believing they were straight or bisexual. From struggles with shame, people-pleasing, and religious conditioning, to breaking free from compulsory hete...
Episodes
Uncertainty: The Only Certainty in Coming Out Later
Jan 11, 2026Are you suddenly questioning everything you thought you knew about yourself-especially your sexuality, your relationships, or your identity later in life?
You're not alone.
In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Sam Fox explores the real fears and surprising freedom that come with embracing uncertainty after years (or decades) of “certain” living.
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Hear true stories of women rocked by unexpected connection. Dig into why our brains crave certainty, why “playing it safe” isn’t always safe, and how the roots of shame, traumatic aloneness, and regret can haunt (and heal) us.
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When "Normal"Breaks You: Grieving the Years You Weren't Yourself
Jan 04, 2026Summary
Kicking off 2026 with raw honesty and heart, Samantha Fox reflects on a year of grief, transformation, and coming home to herself. Inspired by lessons from her parents (especially her father’s unusual embrace of being different), Samantha explores the bittersweet aftermath of coming out and unboxing one’s true self especially for queer women breaking free from expectations and “normal.” With empathy and realness, this solo episode looks at grief (yes, it’s part of the journey!), the myth of normalcy, reclaiming your power, and how honoring your difference is a radical gift. Samantha shares her own experi...
Duration: 00:28:21Unboxing the Male Gaze: Reclaiming Style, Self and Joy with Heidi Savell
Dec 28, 2025Ever look in your closet and wonder: who am I actually dressing for? In this episode, Samantha Fox and polyamory coach Heidi Savell get radically honest about ditching “the male gaze” and rediscovering style as true self-expression. From family scripts to femme fatigue, queer visibility to creative play, Sam and Heidi share their journeys—awkward moments, aha’s, and joy included. If you’re ready to trade ‘flattering’ for authentic and wear what lights you up (especially this holiday season), hit play. Your closet—and your soul—may never look the same.
Show Notes
... Duration: 00:31:33The Grass Isn't Greener - It's Realer
Dec 21, 2025Keywords
authenticity, relationships, sexuality, self-discovery, societal expectations, women's struggles, personal growth, therapy, literature, self-love
In this episode of “The Grass Isn’t Greener-It’s Realer,” Samantha Fox explores authenticity, self-discovery, women’s empowerment, and breaking free from societal and sexual expectations. She shares real stories from the Bi Life community and her Unbox Your Sexuality program, helping women transform relationships, overcome fear of being alone, and reclaim pleasure and personal growth.
Samantha shares how common it is for women to feel trapped in lives they didn’t consciously choose and why the solution...
Duration: 00:21:05The Intersection of Trauma and Sexual Fluidity
Dec 14, 2025TRIGGER WARNING*** SA and CSA***TRIGGER WARNING
keywords: trauma, sexuality, sexual fluidity, relationships, healing, women, desire, attraction, LGBTQ+
summary: In this conversation, Samantha Fox explores the complex relationship between trauma and sexuality, particularly focusing on how traumatic experiences can influence women's understanding of their sexual identities. She discusses the societal conditioning that affects women's perceptions of pleasure and desire, and how healing from trauma can lead to a deeper understanding of one's sexual fluidity. Through personal anecdotes and insights from other women, Fox emphasizes the...
Duration: 00:20:52Why Following the Rules Won't Set You Free
Dec 07, 2025Keywords:
LGBTQ, Coming out later in life, Societal expectations, Good woman myth, self-sacrifice vs. Self-Care, Permission to change, Guilt and shame, Female liberation, Reclaiming desire, Self-worth, Breaking rules, Authenticity, Women’s empowerment, Women's liberation, Unpacking and Unlearning, Healing from oppression, Marital Duty, Self-betrayal, Grace, Self-compassion, Hetero Patriarchy
Summary:
In this honest, soul-baring episode, Samantha Fox unpacks the deep, often-unspoken burdens that women carry when it comes to living “the right way.” Drawing from candid conversations with clients and her own journey, Samantha shines a light on how societ...
Duration: 00:19:40"I'm not broken...I'm just gay": A sexuality healing and ENM journey
Nov 30, 2025TRIGGER WARNING*
Keywords
identity, self-acceptance, LGBTQ+, CSA, Ethical Non-monogamy, ENM, Polyamorous, Coming out later in life, Later in life lesbian
Summary
In this conversation, Nikki shares her brave, painful and beautiful journey of healing, self-discovery and acceptance as a lesbian later in life while married to her best friend, a man. Learn about the transformative moments that led her to embrace her identity as a gay woman and how she was able to navigate stepping into a non-traditional relationship style, ENM, by finding joint core...
Duration: 00:48:25I Was Reborn... As Gay
Nov 23, 2025Keywords
gender identity, gender transformation, self-perception, gender presentation, coming out later in life, leaving the church, later in life lesbian, deconstructing, self-acceptance
Summary:
In this episode Samantha and Buffy explore how transforming ones gender presentation can open up identities that have been repressed for years. Join in the conversation as Buffy shares her journey where one decision to cut her hair leads her down a path of discovering her authentic Self.
Looking for a safe, supportive community where you can explore...
Duration: 00:50:40Unboxing Patriarchal BS with MJ Eldridge
Nov 16, 2025Keywords
relationships, identity, personal growth, LGBTQ+ experiences, same-sex attraction, internalized misogyny, Gen X women, internalized homophobia, patriarchal conditioning, WLW attraction, bisexual, sex parties
Summary
In this conversation, MJ shares her personal journey of marriage, divorce, and early in life experimentation with same-sex encounters. Calling herself an oportunistic hedonist, she asks Samantha to help her unbox what it is that keeps her from being able to see that a woman could also be a life partner. fears of what her family members would all say about her...
Duration: 01:10:35Coming Out of the Church Together
Nov 09, 2025Stuck in feelings of shame about your sexuality? Unbox Your Queer Phobic Conditioning- A Self-led Program is now available. Learn more here
Keywords
Purity culture, female sexuality, religious expectations, desire, sexuality, beauty, gender norms, deconstructing evangelical christianity, exvangelical
Summary
The conversation delves into the complexities of Christian purity culture and its impact on female sexuality. Alyssa shares her experiences of navigating religious expectations around beauty and desire, highlighting the contradictions faced by women in expressing their sexuality. The discussion reveals how these rel...
Duration: 00:58:09Navigating Relationship Choices with Trish
Nov 02, 2025Keywords
lgbtq, late in life lesbians, LAT, relationship anarchy, personal growth, learning by doing, societal expectations, lesbian relationships, lesbian dating, healthy communication
Summary
In this conversation, Samantha Fox and Trish discuss the complexities of expectation, how its energy can be distancing and the idea that communicating wants and needs to those you are intimate, with whether that be family members or a partner, cultivates more vulnerablity and closeness.
Takeaways
We are often pressured by society to make one ri...
Duration: 01:07:08Lesbian Dating with Sophia Spallino: The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker
Oct 26, 2025Keywords
lesbian matchmaking, queer dating, monogamy, LGBTQ+, dating apps for lesbians, love stories, personal growth, authenticity, lesbian dating, lesbian relationships
Summary
In this engaging conversation, Samantha Fox reconnects with Sophia Spallino, a luxury lesbian matchmaker, to discuss her journey of self-discovery, the challenges of dating in the LGBTQ+ community, and the unique services offered by the Queer Country Club. They explore themes of monogamy, the importance of self-work in relationships, and the elusive nature of attraction and love. Sophia shares her insights on helping women find...
Duration: 01:01:13The Impact of the Male Gaze
Oct 19, 2025** ***TRIGGER WARNING-CSA*****
Are you ready to claim your power and Unbox Your Sexuality®? This Self-led program will help you peel back early learning and belief systems that no long align with you today. CLICK HERE to learn more ✨
Are you tired of doubting your feelings of same-sex attraction and wish you had a safe space to talk about what is coming up? The Bi Life Community is for women exploring all stages of their sexuality whether its Bi, Pan or Lesbian. Join this lively group and feel seen and supported by like mind...
Duration: 00:25:31When Comphet Says "This is What You Do!"
Oct 12, 2025Are you realizing you are bisexual or gay and asking yourself "Now What?🤷♀️"
LOOK NO FURTHER! ⬇️
Unbox Your Sexuality®: A Sexuality Liberation Program will break everything down for you so step by step and help you access the authentic you that is underneath all of the conditioning.
Looking for a like-minded community with women who are curious, questioning and/or coming out as bi or gay? Come join the guided exploration and community in The Bi Life!
Keywords
compulsory heterosexuality, comphet, self-discovery, relationsh...
Duration: 00:54:01"I Always Bounced Back to Men"- Mandy's Story
Oct 05, 2025Keywords:
LGBTQ, compulsory heterosexuality, self-discovery, relationships, coming out, authenticity, personal journey, comphet, societal conditioning, internalized misogyny
Summary:
In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Samantha Fox interviews Mandy, who shares her journey of self-discovery and acceptance as a member of the LGBTQ community. Mandy discusses her early experiences with attraction to women, her relationships with men, and the challenges of navigating her identity in a society that often promotes compulsory heterosexuality. She reflects on her marriage, the turning point that led her to embrace her true self, and her excitement ab...
Duration: 00:41:37Gaining and Losing: The Coming Out Late Journey
Sep 28, 2025Are you ready to lean into exploration in a supportive community? Join us for the next round of The Bi Life HERE If you'd like to chat with me about where you are on your journey, set up your 15 minute FREE call HERE Keywords: bisexuality, community, identity, relationships, LGBTQ+, self-discovery, support, safe space, societal norms, exploration, coming out later, queer, Summary: In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Samantha Fox discusses the launch of her community, The Bi Life, aimed at supporting women who identify as bisexual or are looking for a safe space to explore their sexuality later in life. She sh...
Duration: 00:17:08The Significance of Two Years
Sep 21, 2025THE BI LIFE ⬇️
Looking for a safe supportive community where you can explore what is coming up for you as you are 'coming out'?
Check out THE BI LIFE, a community for folks in all stages of exploring their sexuality.
Keywords:
coming out, sexuality, healing, relationships, LGBTQ+, self-discovery, support, community, personal growth, parenting, time to heal
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In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Samantha Fox discusses the complexities of coming out later in life, the healing process that follows, and the importance of taking time before making si... Duration: 00:19:34The First Time I Was a Single Lesbian in the World...
Sep 14, 2025In today's episode of Unbox Yourself™ with Samantha Fox® I share my early experiences of dating as a later in life lesbian when the partnership that I exited my marriage with came to a sudden end. For any of you out there that are trying to figure out how to start dating and who you might be attracted to, this episode is for you. Looking for support on any leg of your later in life journey? I'd love to hear from you! Book a 15 minute exploratory conversation with me for FREE HERE Keywords: Late blooming lesbian, lesbian dating, LGBTQ+, coming out, relati...
Duration: 00:20:20Am I Bisexual or Am I Lesbian?
Sep 07, 2025Keywords
sexual identity, bisexuality, lesbian, queer, self-discovery, relationships, sexual desire, community, LGBTQ, personal growth, same-sex desire, sexuality coach, questioning
Summary
In this conversation, Samantha Fox delves into the complexities of sexual identity, particularly focusing on the experiences of women questioning their sexuality. She discusses the societal pressures and rigid definitions surrounding labels like 'lesbian' and 'bisexual,' emphasizing the importance of personal exploration and self-acceptance. Through her work, she encourages individuals to connect with their true selves and find community support in their journeys of self...
Duration: 00:21:55"And then she got strapped!"
Aug 31, 2025Keywords: sexuality, bisexuality, self-discovery, women's empowerment, relationships, emotional connection, sexual attraction, same sex attraction, societal norms, intimacy, LGBTQ+, strap-on-sex Summary: In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Samantha Fox explores the complexities of sexuality, particularly bisexuality, through a personal story about her daughter's friend, Sarah. The conversation delves into societal expectations, the importance of emotional connections, and the multifaceted nature of women's identities beyond just their sexual experiences. Samantha encourages listeners to reflect on their perceptions of women and the deeper qualities that make them attractive, urging a shift away from the male gaze and towards a more holistic understanding of fem...
Duration: 00:22:41When an Out Lesbian Befriends a Straight Woman
Aug 24, 2025Keywords
loss, friendship, sexuality, identity, relationships, self-acceptance, attraction, societal norms, personal growth, authenticity
Takeaways
Samantha discusses the impact of losing her father and the journey of self-discovery that followed. Charlotte shares her experience of navigating friendships with different sexual orientations. The conversation highlights the importance of open communication in friendships. Both speakers reflect on the complexities of identity and societal expectations. Samantha emphasizes the significance of self-acceptance in personal growth. Charlotte discusses the challenges of being a straight woman in a friendship with a lesbian. The speakers explore the nuances of attraction and desire... Duration: 00:54:02From Purity to Pleasure with Heather
Aug 17, 2025queerphobia, internalized homophobia, religious conditioning, coming out, sexuality, sobriety, relationships, shame, self-acceptance, LGBTQ+
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In this conversation, Samantha Fox and Heather Rosendahl explore the complexities of queerphobic conditioning, internalized homophobia, and the impact of religious upbringing on sexual identity. Heather shares her personal journey of coming out, navigating relationships, and the challenges of sobriety, while discussing the shame often associated with sexuality. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and the healing process in reclaiming one's identity and pleasure.
Takeaways
Internalized homophobia can stem from religious conditioning. Sobriety can complicate the exploration... Duration: 00:49:09I Haven't Told Anyone
Aug 10, 2025Keywords
sexual identity, self-discovery, bisexuality, relationships, trauma, health challenges, communication, community, authenticity, fluidity
Takeaways
Curiosity about one's sexuality can emerge at any age. Health challenges can significantly impact sexual identity and relationships. Feeling safe is important when coming out. Fear of rejection can hinder self-acceptance and honesty in relationships. Exploring one's identity is a gradual and personal journey. Coming out feels vulnerable and scary when you are fully dependent on the person you are coming out to. Supportive communities can provide validation and understanding. Labels can be helpful but are not necessary for self-identity. ... Duration: 01:02:59Coming Out of Evangelical Christianity and Into Queer Truth
Aug 03, 2025Keywords:
evangelical christianity, religion, trauma, identity, purity culture, sexuality, coming out, LGBTQ, self-discovery, relationships, personal growth
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In this conversation, Emily Rich shares her journey of self-discovery, navigating the complexities of growing up in a conservative Christian environment. In this environment her emotional system created protective parts that worked to keep her from knowing herself and her truth by self-gaslighting. Emily's diligent work through her trauma and ability to over time soften these gaslighing parts helped her to ultimately embrace her true identity as a queer woman. She discusses the impact o...
Duration: 01:10:25Trish's Big Gay Solo Adventure- Part Two
Jul 27, 2025Keywords
LGBTQ, internalized homophobia, pride, community, self-acceptance, family dynamics, visibility, authenticity, personal growth, conversations
Summary
In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Samantha Fox and Trish delve into Trish's transformative journey during her big gay solo adventure. They explore themes of internalized homophobia, the importance of community, and the challenges of visibility and vulnerability. Trish shares her experiences at a Pride event, her interactions with supportive individuals, and her reflections on family dynamics and acceptance. The conversation emphasizes the significance of embracing authenticity and the ongoing journey of self-acceptance, highlighting the healing power of...
Duration: 00:41:25Trish's Big Gay Solo Adventure- Part One
Jul 20, 2025Keywords: self-discovery, LGBTQ+, community, healing, identity, belonging, personal growth, relationships, empowerment, travel Summary: In this conversation, Trish shares her transformative journey of self-discovery and empowerment as she navigates her identity as a lesbian. Through her experiences at the Out in Wild festival and her subsequent solo travels, she reflects on the importance of community, connection, and embracing one's true self. The discussion highlights the healing power of relationships, the challenges of internalized beliefs, and the joy of finding belonging in a supportive environment. Takeaways: The journey of self-discovery is ongoing and requires vulnerability. Building relationships is essential for personal growth. Comm...
Duration: 01:03:36Unboxing Late Blooming Dating with Kids
Jul 13, 2025Keywords: coming out, self-acceptance, relationships, parenting, blended families, LGBTQ+, dating, expectations, communication, friendship Summary: In this episode of 'Unbox Yourself,' Samantha Fox and her friend Kim discuss their journeys of coming out later in life, the complexities of relationships and parenting, and the importance of self-acceptance. They share personal stories about navigating love, expectations, and the challenges of blended families, emphasizing the need for open communication and understanding in relationships. Their candid conversation highlights the significance of friendship and support in the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Takeaways: Coming out is a personal journey that varies for everyone. Self-acceptance is c...
Duration: 00:36:20Unboxing Gender with El
Jul 06, 2025Keywords: gender identity, gender expression, personal growth, femininity, queer experiences, self-discovery, societal expectations, emotional healing, LGBTQ+, genderqueer, non-binary, gender-fluid Summary: In this episode, Samantha Fox and El Murray engage in a deep conversation about gender identity, personal experiences, and the journey of self-discovery. They explore the complexities of gender expression, societal expectations, and the emotional landscape surrounding these topics. El shares their personal journey of navigating gender, the impact of family and societal pressures, and the joy of embracing their authentic self. The discussion highlights the importance of compassion, healing, and the celebration of individuality in the context of gender ide...
Duration: 11:46:00A Life-Long Lesbian's Journey to Self Love with Michele Flamer-Powell
Jun 29, 2025Keywords:
relationships, identity, breakups, motherhood, family dynamics, love, healing, self-discovery, validation, twin flames
Summary:
In this conversation, Michele shares her journey of self-discovery, relationships, and the complexities of love and motherhood. From coming out and navigating breakups to the challenges of starting a family, Michele reflects on her experiences and the lessons learned along the way. The discussion also touches on the importance of validation in friendships and the spiritual journey of finding true love and connection.
Takeaways:
Michele realized her sexual identity through experiences with her college softball team. ... Duration: 01:14:59Celebrating Bisexuality with Heidi Savell
Jun 22, 2025Keywords: bisexuality, polyamory, relationships, identity, community, internalized homophobia, queer, support, self-discovery, belonging Summary: In this conversation, Samantha Fox and Heidi Savell explore the complexities of bisexuality, relationships, and identity. They discuss their personal experiences with internalized homophobia, the journey of self-discovery, and the challenges of navigating relationships in a heteronormative society. The conversation highlights the importance of community, support, and celebrating one's identity, especially for those who identify as bisexual and are in monogamous relationships. They also touch on the significance of professional guidance when opening up relationships and the need for spaces where bisexual individuals can feel accepted and und...
Duration: 00:49:13Unboxing 'Expectation'
Jun 15, 2025Keywords: expectations, self-acceptance, relationships, communication, personal growth, societal norms, parental influence, intimacy, self-exploration, emotional landscape Summary: In this conversation, Samantha Fox explores the concept of expectations, particularly how they shape our identities and relationships. She shares her personal journey of grappling with parental expectations and societal norms, leading to an 'allergic reaction' to expectations. The discussion emphasizes the importance of communication in relationships, highlighting how unspoken expectations can create distance and disappointment. Fox encourages listeners to engage in self-exploration and to express their needs and desires openly, rather than imposing expectations on others. Takeaways: Expectation can create a burden that weig...
Duration: 00:23:25The Grass IS Greener on the Other Side
Jun 08, 2025Keywords: sexuality, self-acceptance, LGBTQ, coming out, therapy, relationships, authenticity, personal growth, visibility, community Summary: In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Samantha Fox interviews Wendy Faith, a former participant in Unbox Your Sexuality®: A 12-week Sexuality Liberation Program. Wendy shares her transformative journey of self-discovery after coming out later in life. Wendy discusses her experiences with betrayal, therapy, and the importance of embracing authenticity. She reflects on the challenges of navigating fears as a late bloomer about new relationships, the healing power of community, and the significance of visibility in both personal and professional realms. Wendy's story serves as an inspiring remind...
Duration: 00:59:25Unboxing Pleasure Toys
Jun 01, 2025*************EXPLICT**********TRIGGER WARNING***********
Welcome to Season 2 of Unbox Yourself with Samantha Fox®
Keywords sexuality, self-discovery, pleasure, intimacy, sex toys, queer identity, relationships, vulnerability, double-sided dildo, self-acceptance Summary In this episode of 'Unbox Yourself,' Samantha Fox delves into the journey of self-discovery and sexuality, exploring the importance of pleasure, intimacy, and the use of sex toys. She shares personal stories about her experiences with sexual exploration, the significance of breaking down societal norms, and the complexities of navigating queer identities. The conversation emphasizes the importance of vulnerability in intimacy and encourages listeners to emb... Duration: 00:30:57
Embracing Regrets:Parenting and Coming Out Later with Sogol
May 25, 2025Keywords: regrets, identity, coming out, relationships, self-discovery, co-parenting, emotional labor, healing, motherhood, sexuality Summary: This conversation explores the complexities of identity, relationships, and the journey of self-discovery, particularly for those who come out later in life. Sogol shares her experiences growing up in Iran, navigating her sexuality, and the challenges of co-parenting while embracing her identity as a lesbian. The discussion highlights the importance of acknowledging regrets, the emotional labor involved in relationships, and the necessity of creating space for grief and healing. Takeaways: Living life fully often comes with regrets. Cultural background can shape one's understanding of identity. Coming out is...
Duration: 03:18:00Unboxing "Committed" Relationships Later in Life
May 18, 2025Keywords self-discovery, relationships, sexuality, coming out, community, marriage, emotional intimacy, living together apart, personal growth, LGBTQ+ Summary In this episode of 'Unbox Yourself,' Samantha Fox and Trish engage in a deep conversation about self-discovery, relationships, and the journey of coming out later in life. They explore the complexities of navigating relationships, the importance of being intentional about what one wants, and the challenges of emotional intimacy. Trish shares her personal journey of healing and growth after her first relationship with a woman, while Samantha reflects on her experiences with marriage and the concept of living apart together (LAT). The dis...
Duration: 01:09:33When Your Exes Become Chosen Family
May 10, 2025Keywords: self-acceptance, coming out, relationships, late bloomers, long-distance love, personal growth, LGBTQ+ community, friendship, communication, emotional support Summary: In this episode of 'Unbox Yourself,' Samantha Fox and her friend and ex partner Stephanie discuss their experiences as late bloomers coming out later in life. They explore the complexities of navigating relationships, especially as parents, and the challenges of long-distance love. The conversation delves into personal growth, the importance of communication, and maintaining friendships with exes, emphasizing the need for honesty and self-reflection in relationships. Takeaways: Society often dictates how we should live and love. Coming out later in life can...
Duration: 00:59:57Navigating Open and Polyamorous Relationships with Honesty with Guest Heidi Savell
May 04, 2025Keywords polyamory, non-monogamy, open relationships, communication, self-discovery, relationship dynamics, ethical non-monogamy, honesty, transparency, emotional landscape Summary In this conversation, Samantha Fox and polyamory coach Heidi Savell explore the complexities of polyamory and non-monogamous relationships. They discuss the importance of communication, honesty, and navigating the emotional landscape of opening relationships, especially for individuals discovering their sexuality later in life. The conversation emphasizes the need for transparency and the potential challenges that arise when partners have differing desires regarding relationship structures. Heidi shares insights on how to approach these discussions and the significance of understanding one's own needs and desires in the con...
Duration: 00:43:02Am I Queer Enough?
Apr 27, 2025*****TRIGGER WARNING-SEXUALLY EXPLICIT CONTENT*******
In Episode 8 of Unbox Yourself with Samantha Fox®, Robin Jennings from the Fuck Yeah Podcast and Sapphoir Faire Candles joins me for an in depth conversation about their early experiences and how these shaped their sexuality as they grew into their adulthood. Learn more Robin Jennings in the links below.
Keywords sexuality, identity, self-discovery, relationships, vulnerability, community, belonging, pleasure, desire, acceptance Summary In this conversation, Samantha Fox and Robin explore the complexities of sexuality, identity, and relationships. Robin shares their journey of self-discovery, including their struggles with compulsory heterosexuality, childhood influences, and the im... Duration: 01:14:14What I Learned Through Kink
Apr 19, 2025sexuality, self-acceptance, relationships, kink, emotional depth, identity, authenticity, partnership, trauma, empowerment Summary: In this episode of 'Unbox Yourself,' Samantha Fox and Joelle explore the complexities of identity, sexuality, and relationships. Joelle shares her journey of self-discovery, including her experiences within the kink community and her evolving understanding of her sexual orientation. The conversation delves into the dynamics of power in relationships, the importance of emotional depth, and the significance of recognizing one's desires beyond societal expectations. Through honest dialogue, they highlight the importance of self-acceptance and the ongoing journey of understanding one's true self. Takeaways: The journey to self-acceptance is...
Duration: 00:24:29The Answer? Grieving
Apr 13, 2025Keywords: grief, identity, coming out, relationships, self-acceptance, LGBTQ+, emotional landscape, loss, survival mode, personal growth Summary: In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Samantha Fox delves into the complex emotions surrounding grief, particularly in the context of coming out later in life. She shares her personal journey of navigating identity, loss, and the challenges of relationships while emphasizing the importance of embracing feelings and allowing oneself to grieve. The conversation highlights the societal discomfort with grief and the necessity of processing these emotions to foster personal growth and authenticity. Takeaways: Grief is a natural part of life and identity changes. Coming out...
Duration: 00:24:01SA and Sexual Identity: What if I am not really gay?
Apr 05, 2025*******************TRIGGER WARNING***********************
This episode explores the impacts of SA on Sexuality. Please use caution if choosing to listen.
identity, sexuality, trauma, self-acceptance, consent, queerness, LGBTQ+, personal growth, empowerment, societal expectations Summary: In this episode of 'Unbox Yourself,' Samantha Fox explores the complexities of identity, sexuality, and the impact of childhood trauma. She discusses how societal expectations shape our understanding of ourselves and the importance of consent in relationships. Through personal anecdotes and conversations, she emphasizes the journey to self-acceptance and the validity of diverse experiences, particularly for those who have faced sexual trauma. Takea... Duration: 00:17:42
When Your Truth Wins
Mar 30, 2025n this conversation, Angie shares her profound journey of self-discovery after enduring conversion therapy and living a life that felt inauthentic for decades. She discusses the guilt and shame stemming from her past, the impact of societal and religious pressures, and her desire to embrace her true self and sexuality. The dialogue explores the complexities of relationships, community, and the challenges of aging, while emphasizing the importance of self-love and pleasure. Ultimately, Angie expresses hope for a future where she can fully embrace her identity and desires. Takeaways Angie's experience with conversion therapy was brutal and life-altering. She lived a l...
Duration: 00:58:46"I never learned how to be curious" - Katy's Story
Mar 23, 2025In this conversation, Katy shares her journey of self-acceptance and the challenges she faced regarding her sexual identity within a religious context. She discusses her experience in therapy, where she confronted her feelings for women and the societal pressures that made her feel wrong for those feelings. The conversation highlights the importance of finding acceptance and love, both for oneself and from others, and the transformative power of therapy in breaking free from restrictive beliefs.
Duration: 01:06:56No Pressure Just Pleasure- Molly's Story
Mar 15, 2025Trigger Warning- Some content in this episode may cause distress. Exercise caution if listening. In this conversation, Molly shares her profound journey of self-discovery, navigating her bisexuality, and the challenges of coming out later in life. She discusses the importance of community, the complexities of relationships, and the impact of societal expectations on her identity. The dialogue explores themes of empowerment, intimacy, and the ongoing process of healing and growth, emphasizing the significance of self-care and reparenting in her journey. Takeaways Molly's journey of self-discovery began in her late 20s. Community played a crucial role in Molly's acceptance of her b...
Duration: 00:52:53Welcome to Unbox Yourself™ with Samantha Fox®
Mar 07, 2025In this inaugural episode of the Unbox Yourself™ podcast, Samantha Fox pays tribute to her father, reflecting on the complexities of their relationship and the impact of societal expectations on personal identity. She shares her journey of self-discovery, including her struggles with family dynamics, the pressure to conform, and her eventual coming out as gay. Samantha emphasizes the importance of unboxing oneself from societal norms and encourages listeners to embrace their true selves. The episode also touches on her spiritual journey following the loss of her father and her desire to support others in their own journeys of self-acceptance an...
Duration: 00:23:04