Spill the Tea with Will & Maria

FRIENDSHIP • RELATIONSHIPS • HONESTY • RED FLAGS • COMMUNICATION • BOUNDARIES

This week on Spill the Tea, Will and Maria dive into the complicated space where friendships and romantic relationships collide.

From navigating holiday preferences to handling honesty that feels uncomfortable, this episode explores how friendships can influence dating choices, perceptions of partners, and personal growth.

They unpack how to spot red flags, when to speak up (and when not to), how to support friends without crossing boundaries, and why communication matters just as much in friendships as it does in romantic r...

PODCAST • THIS OR THAT • RELATIONSHIPS • HUMOR • PERSONALITY • CONNECTION

Join Will and Maria for a fast-paced, unfiltered This or That episode where quick choices turn into real talk. From relationship dynamics to personal quirks, this one is full of laughs, surprises, and moments that reveal more than expected.

It’s playful, honest, and just the right mix of humor and heart—perfect if you love light episodes that still give you insight into how people think, love, and connect.

Expect hot takes, unexpected answers, and plenty of chemistry as Will and Maria spill the tea one choice...

PODCAST • HOLIDAY • GIFT GIVING • RELATIONSHIPS • FAMILY DYNAMICS • CHRISTMAS

This week on Spill the Tea, Maria and Will dive into the chaos, comedy, and emotional landmines of holiday gift giving. From the pressure of Christmas traditions to the deeper meaning behind romantic gifts, they explore why thoughtful gifts matter, why bad gifts sting, and how family dynamics shape the way we give and receive.

They unpack personal stories, cringe-worthy gift moments, social media pressures, and the truth about how gifts can reveal compatibility, emotional connection, and unmet needs in relationships. Whether you love the holidays or dread the...

HOLIDAYS • FAMILY • BOUNDARIES • NO CONTACT • MENTAL HEALTH • SELF-CARE

This week on Spill the Tea, Will and Maria unpack the emotional chaos of the holiday season—the pressure, the expectations, and the family dynamics that can leave you drained instead of joyful. From navigating obligations to recognizing when no contact is the healthiest choice, we dive deep into how relationships shape our emotional well-being during this time of year.

We explore why boundaries matter, how therapy can help you process family patterns, and the importance of building a support network when you’re dealing with toxic or unhealthy f...

WICKED • MUSICAL • MOVIE • ELPHABA • GLINDA • FRIENDSHIP • EMPOWERMENT • LGBTQ+

This week on Spill the Tea, Will and Maria take you down the Yellow Brick Road: straight into the heart of Wicked.

From the spellbinding musical vs. movie experience to the emotional depth of Elphaba and Glinda’s friendship, we’re unpacking everything: character development, betrayal, empowerment, female relationships, and why this story hits so deeply for the LGBTQ+ community.

We dig into Wicked’s darker themes, its cultural and political commentary, the illusion of crushes and relationships, and the way this iconic story challenges what it means to be...

INTIMACY • RELATIONSHIPS • SEX THERAPY • SINGLEHOOD

This week on Spill the Tea, we dive deep into the raw reality of intimacy and the stats might shock you. From why some couples have never seen each other naked, to how lighting, clothing, and communication shape connection behind closed doors, we’re breaking down the myths that fuel society’s biggest misconceptions about sex, single-hood, and modern relationships.

Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this episode uncovers how perceptions, expectations, and societal norms shape our understanding of desire, closeness, and emotional safety. As always, we bring the sex th...

In this conversation, Maria Orrego and Will Nash discuss the complexities of intimacy and consent in relationships.

They explore the of feeling being pressured into changing sexual boundaries, leading to feelings of discomfort and the perception of sex as a negotiation rather than an intimate act.

They emphasize the importance of mutual respect and the need for clear boundaries in any relationship, highlighting that a partner's disregard for consent is a significant warning sign.

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In this conversation, Wish Nash and Maria Orrego discuss the complexities of introducing the idea of threesomes into a relationship, emphasizing the importance of communication, consent, and understanding boundaries.

They explore how to approach the topic with a partner who may not have prior experience, and the role of trust in navigating open relationships.

The discussion highlights that exploring new experiences together can enhance intimacy, provided that both partners are comfortable and consenting.

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In this engaging conversation, Will Nash and Maria Orrego explore the themes of Halloween, personal experiences with costumes, and the significance of role play in relationships.

They discuss their own Halloween memories, preferences between Halloween and Christmas, and the importance of communication when it comes to intimacy and role play.

The conversation is light-hearted yet insightful, touching on nostalgia, personal anecdotes, and the dynamics of relationships.

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In this episode of "Spill the Tea," Will Nash and Maria Orrego tackle a listener's question about dating apps and exclusivity. They explore the red flags and the importance of having clear conversations in relationships. With personal stories and professional insights, they delve into the dynamics of modern love and the assumptions that can lead to misunderstandings. Join them for an honest and engaging discussion that might just change how you view your own relationships.

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In this episode of Spill the Tea, hosts Will Nash and Maria Orrego reflect on their summer experiences, discussing personal growth, concert outings, and the importance of self-awareness. They delve into the complexities of toxic relationships, the significance of self-value, and the feelings of loneliness that can arise even in committed partnerships.

The conversation emphasizes the need for introspection and the courage to prioritize one's mental health and well-being.

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In this episode of the Spill the Tea Podcast, Will Nash and Maria Orrego delve into Will's journey of coming out over the past 15 years.

They discuss the evolution of his identity, the challenges faced in a public career, and the importance of sharing personal stories within the LGBTQ+ community.

The conversation also touches on the political climate of the past and present, the complexities of dating as a queer individual, and the significance of vulnerability and pride. Ultimately, the episode emphasizes the message that life gets better with...

In this follow-up episode, Will & Maria dive deeper into the often-overlooked part of the coming out journey: coming out to yourself. Before the conversations with friends, family, or the world—there’s a quieter, more personal moment when you first acknowledge your truth to you.

We unpack the emotional layers of self-acceptance, explore what internalized fear or shame can look like, and share personal reflections and listener stories about that pivotal turning point. Whether your journey was a slow realization or a lightning-bolt moment, this episode is a reminder that coming out doesn’t start with others—it starts...

New Episode: “It Was Giving Gay... and I Finally Said It”

This week, we are getting personal. Like, heart-on-the-mic personal. I’m sharing my coming out story — the fear, the freedom, the family, and yes... the tears.It’s Will Nash’s story — raw, real, and unapologetically queer.Whether you’ve come out, are thinking about it, or just want to understand someone else’s journey, this one’s for you. Hit play, grab a tissue (or a cocktail), and let’s spill the realest tea yet!

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In this conversation, Will & Maria explore the complexities of privacy, trust, and communication in relationships, particularly focusing on the sharing of passwords and location.

They discuss the implications of these actions on personal boundaries and the importance of mutual trust.

The conversation also addresses a listener's dilemma about sharing location with a partner early in their relationship, emphasizing the need for open communication and respect for personal boundaries.

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In this engaging conversation, Will & Maria discuss the complexities of sexual education, the challenges parents face in having the sex talk with their children, and the impact of past generations on current attitudes towards sexuality.

They share personal anecdotes about their own experiences with sex education, the influence of media, and the importance of open conversations about sexuality.

The discussion emphasizes the need for parents to create safe spaces for dialogue and to approach the topic with curiosity rather than judgment, ultimately aiming to foster a healthier understanding of sexuality for future...

In this conversation, Will and Maria explore the complexities of navigating friendships that evolve into romantic relationships. They discuss the emotional attachments that can develop, the challenges of friends with benefits situations, and the societal stigmas surrounding cross-sex friendships. The episode emphasizes the importance of communication and self-awareness when considering the transition from friendship to romance, as well as the potential risks involved.

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In this episode, Will and Maria discuss the impact of political events on mental health, particularly in the context of the federal election.

They explore the stress and anxiety that arise from divisive political discourse, the importance of credible information, and the challenges of navigating family dynamics during politically charged conversations.

The conversation emphasizes the significance of values in relationships, the need for self-care, and the role of music and support in coping with stress. They also provide resources for those seeking help and encourage listeners to stay curious...

In this episode, Will & Maria explore the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing that love alone is not sufficient for a successful partnership.

They discuss the importance of compatibility, shared values, and effective communication, while also addressing the potential for personal growth and the recognition of toxic dynamics.

The episode highlights the necessity of mutual respect and understanding in fostering healthy relationships.

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Will and Maria explore the complexities of family dynamics during holiday gatherings, discussing the stress and anxiety that can arise from family expectations, awkward conversations, and the pressure to conform to societal norms. They emphasize the importance of setting boundaries, communicating effectively, and the concept of chosen family as a supportive alternative. The discussion also touches on the significance of self-care and the right to prioritize one's own mental health during family functions.

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In this episode, Will & Maria explore the complexities of being friend zoned in modern relationships, discussing personal experiences, the impact of communication, and the role of age in romantic interests.

They emphasize the importance of understanding relationship dynamics and the potential consequences of taking risks in love and friendship.

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In this episode, Will & Maria explore various scenarios in relationships, categorizing them as red flags or green flags. They discuss the implications of social media behavior, communication styles, intimacy preferences, and the importance of trust and emotional connections. They raise their GREEN or RED FLAGS, emphasizing the need for open communication and understanding in navigating relationships, while also addressing the complexities of sexual preferences and societal expectations.

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This conversation explores the dynamics of relationships during vacations, particularly focusing on destination weddings and the allure of intimacy in exotic settings. The hosts discuss the importance of guest selection for weddings, the potential dangers of vacation flings, and the motivations behind infidelity.

They emphasize the need for communication and understanding in relationships, especially when navigating the complexities of vacation behavior. The discussion culminates in a reflection on love versus commitment and the importance of self-awareness in romantic relationships.

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In this conversation, Maria and Will Nash explore the concept of lavender marriages, where individuals enter into a marriage for societal acceptance while hiding their true sexual identity. They discuss personal experiences, societal pressures, and the emotional toll of living a life that is not authentic.

The conversation highlights the historical context of lavender marriages, the importance of community support, and the need for individuals to live their true selves despite societal expectations.

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In this conversation, Will & Maria explore the themes of truth, honesty, and the complexities of keeping secrets in relationships. They discuss the importance of transparency, the impact of past relationships, and the weight of guilt that comes with holding onto secrets.

The dialogue also delves into the nuances of communication in dating, the significance of understanding relationship histories, and the challenges of navigating infidelity. Ultimately, they emphasize the need for open dialogue and vulnerability to foster healthy relationships.

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In this conversation Will & Maria explore the evolving perceptions of bisexuality across generations, the challenges of coming out, and the importance of community and support systems.

Will & Maria discuss their personal experiences with bisexuality, the societal assumptions surrounding it, and the complexities of navigating relationships as a bisexual individual.

They emphasize the need for self-acceptance and the significance of being true to oneself in the journey of understanding one's identity.

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In this conversation, Maria and Will explore the complexities of online dating, discussing the nuances of dating apps, the challenges of communication, and the importance of understanding red flags and green flags.

They delve into the differences between flirting and friendliness, the emotional healing process after breakups, and provide practical advice for navigating the online dating landscape.

The discussion emphasizes the need for clear communication and self-awareness in relationships, highlighting the unique challenges faced by individuals in the digital dating world.

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In this conversation, Maria and Will delve into the complexities of sexuality, the pressures of societal labels, and the importance of self-discovery.

They discuss the fluid nature of sexual identity, the challenges faced by individuals in exploring their sexuality, and the societal expectations that often accompany public personas.

The dialogue emphasizes the significance of personal acceptance and the freedom to explore one's identity without the constraints of labels.

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In this Valentine's Day special episode, Will and Maria discuss various dating scenarios, share awkward date stories, and provide relationship advice.

They explore what not to do on Valentine's Day, how to navigate expectations in budding relationships, and suggest ways to spice things up.

The conversation also touches on the complexities of confessing feelings to friends and ends with a light-hearted discussion about creating a Valentine's playlist.

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In this Valentine's Day special episode, hosts Will and Maria discuss their personal experiences with Valentine's Day, including worst date stories and the pressures that come with the holiday.

They explore the differences in expectations between heterosexual and queer relationships, the impact of celebrity culture on Valentine's Day, and the importance of communication in relationships.

The episode also touches on navigating intimacy and fantasies, as well as how to enjoy Valentine's Day whether single or in a relationship.

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In this conversation, Will and Maria delve into the complexities of open relationships and ethical non-monogamy.

We discuss the misconceptions surrounding these relationship styles, the importance of communication and contracts, and how jealousy can be navigated as a tool for connection rather than conflict. The conversation also touches on the societal perceptions of open relationships, particularly in the context of celebrity culture, and emphasizes the need for individual comfort and understanding in relationship dynamics.

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What happens when you give a media personality and a sex therapist a podcast? You get Spill The Tea, a bold, unfiltered space where no topic is off-limits.

In our very first episode, we introduce ourselves and dive into the world of DMs: who’s sliding in, what’s getting left on read, and the fine line between flirting and crossing a boundary.

From personal stories to expert insights, we’re spilling all the tea on digital connections, unspoken rules, and what really goes down in the DMs.

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