NVR: the Podcast

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In this episode, Dr Peter Jakob, Mary-Jo Land and Kerry Shoesmith talk plainly about how Non-Violent Resistance can support children and parents through separation and divorce. They explore what actually helps hold boundaries and break patterns of escalation and submission.

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 Welcome to the NVR Podcast with Peter Jakob, Mary-Jo Land and Kerry Shoesmith. Today we’re naming something many are weary of: the steady drip of misogyny that shows up in homes, schools and services. We’ll look at how NVR helps us call it out without escalation, stand alongside those affected, and build relationships grounded in dignity rather than dominance. Let’s begin the conversation...

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 n this episode of our NVR podcast, Dr Peter Jakob, Mary-Jo Land, and Kerry Shoesmith explore the idea of play as a relational gesture in Non-Violent Resistance. They look at how playfulness can open space for connection .

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 In this episode, Dr Peter Jakob and Kerry Shoesmith talk about humanising residential childcare, what it really means to bring humanity, respect and connection into the everyday life of a children’s home. 

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Kerry Shoesmith and Dr Peter Jakob discuss how Non Violent Resistance, first developed to support families and communities, can be applied to improve workplace performance. They explain how NVR principles promotes accountability, trust and mutual respect, helping teams move away from conflict and disengagement towards resilience, creativity and shared responsibility. This conversation offers clear, practical insight for leaders who want to build workplaces where people feel valued, empowered and able to perform at their best.

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 In this episode, Dr Peter Jakob and Kerry Shoesmith explore the powerful themes of dismissal, rejection, and diminishing. Drawing on their extensive experience in NVR practice, they unpack how these dynamics play out in relationships and professional settings — and what we can do to respond with strength, clarity, and connection. 

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Welcome to the podcast, and thanks for joining Peter Jakob, Kerry Shoesmith & Mary-Jo Land.

In this episode, we’re taking some time to talk about something that often sits beneath the surface in NVR, the experience of loss and grief. Whether you're a parent, carer, or professional supporting children and young people through difficult times, the journey can bring with it deep feelings of mourning for what was hoped for or expected.

We’ll be exploring how grief shows up in the NVR process, not just for parents and care...

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A recording of the first half of Haim Omer's book launch event hosted by CNTP's community of practice forum in May, 26, 2025.  Haim was interviewed by Dan Dulberger and answered questions from the audience.

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https://www.routledge.com/Non-Violent-Resistance-in-Trauma-Focused-Practice-A-Systemic-Approach-to-Therapy-and-Social-Care/Jakob/p/book/9781032697390 

In this episode of our NVR podcast, Peter Jakob, Mary-Jo Land, and Kerry Shoesmith discuss Peter’s new book, Nonviolent Resistance in Trauma-Focused Practice: A Systemic Approach to Therapy and Social Care (published 17 December 2024). Together, they explore why this book is essential reading and delve into key themes around NVR and trauma, as well as the application of NVR within wider systems.

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Dan Dulberger interviews Dr. Maude Champagne, NVR practitioner and award winning neuroscientist and therapist, about her research and practice with parents of children with neurodevelopmental disabilities, who harm. We discuss Maude new book - Decoding Aggression: Complex Behaviors and Brain Based Disabilities, the role of NVR in her clinical work with parents, and a recent outcome study measuring parent-reported parental and child well being following an intervention comprising polyvagal and NVR work.  

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 In this episode, Dr Peter Jakob and Kerry Shoesmith discuss how Non-Violent Resistance (NVR) is used outside of parenting. The conversation focuses on how professionals can apply NVR principles when working directly with young people, their parents and caregivers — supporting them to build resistance to harmful influences and pressures. 

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 In this episode, Combining NVR with Other Therapies, Dr Peter Jakob, Mary-Jo Land, and Kerry Shoesmith explore how Non-Violent Resistance can be effectively integrated with other therapeutic approaches. Drawing on their clinical experience, they share practical insights and reflections on building coherence across models to better support families and young people. 

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Welcome to Rethinking Care, where we explore fresh ideas in parenting and support through Non-Violent Resistance.

In this episode, Dr Peter Jakob and Kerry Shoesmith talk about blocked care — what it means, how the concept impacts parents and caregivers, and how we can understand care differently within NVR.

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 In this powerful new episode, Kerry Shoesmith sits down with Mary-Jo Land, an adoptive parent, to explore the deep complexities of adoption. Together, they discuss the real challenges families can face and how NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) can offer vital support to those navigating difficult times. 

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Welcome to NVR The Podcast. this episode explores Nonviolent Resistance (NVR) in residential childcare. Hosted by Mary-Jo Land, Dr. Peter Jakob, and Kerry Shoesmith, who examine the shift from behavioural approaches to trauma-informed and therapeutic practice. 

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Peter Jakob of Connective Strength (UK) and Mary-Jo Land of the Centre for Non-Violent Resistance Therapy and Practice (Canada) discuss the Anchoring Function of Attachment. How does NVR incorporate attachment theory and practice? Initially,  Peter didn’t feel “connected” to attachment theory whereas Mary-Jo was completely taken with it. As such they come together from different places for this discussion. 

Trust is a key aspect of attachment security. How do we build trust, or re-establish trust when trust has been compromised and the parent-child relationships have become imbued with distrust, fear, and ange...

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Welcome to this episode, where we delve into the fascinating world of Nonviolent Resistance (NVR) with leading experts Mary-Jo Land, Dr. Peter Jakob, and Kerry Shoesmith. Today, we explore the concept of Harmonising Too Soon—what happens when families, caregivers, or professionals rush to restore harmony before they have acknowledged the hurt.

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 Join Mary-Jo Land, Dr Peter Jakob, and Kerry Shoesmith as they explore the transformative power of Non-Violent Resistance (NVR). This episode delves into how protest can serve as both an act of resistance and reconciliation, standing with children and young people against their harmful and destructive behaviour. 

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In this engaging episode, Dr Peter Jakob and Kerry Shoesmith explore the heart of Non-Violent Resistance (NVR) – standing against harm together. They discuss the courage it takes to face challenges, the importance of acknowledging and taking risks, and how recognising struggle can lead to profound transformation. Presented by Connective Strength and NVR Therapy & Practice (CNTP)