You’re Probably Right

You’re Probably Right

By: Murray Ed

Language: en

Categories: Science, Social

In this Society anything you do is bad if your actions do not line up with the popular narrative. This podcast Goes against popular narratives. The intention of the speaker and “His” Podcast is to provoke thought and for entertainment purposes only. Please be aware that some content may be emotionally triggering and of a sensitive nature. Therefore Listener discretion is advised.

Episodes

The Difference Between Being Chosen and Being Kept - Episode 301
Jan 11, 2026

Episode 301
The Difference Between Being Chosen and Being KeptThere is a quiet kind of heartbreak people rarely talk about.It is not rejection.
It is not betrayal.
It is staying in someone’s life while nothing actually moves forward.In this episode, I unpack the difference between being chosen and being kept, and why that distinction changes everything about how a relationship feels in your body, not just in your head.Being chosen creates clarity, momentum, and emotional safety over time.
Being kept creates closeness without direction, intimacy without commitment, and hope without resolution.Many people ar...

Duration: 00:29:07
Episode 300 From Heartbreak to Healing, A Monologue for the Overlooked
Jan 03, 2026

This is Episode 300 of You’re Probably Right, and it is a pause, not a celebration.This episode is for the people who gave their love, time, energy, and loyalty, only to feel drained, overlooked, or quietly discarded. It is for anyone who stayed too long, over gave, or tried harder when the relationship was already slipping away. Not because they were weak, but because they cared.In this monologue, MCM speaks directly to the experience of being used, emotionally neglected, or taken for granted, and the damage that does to self worth. It explores how one sided love erodes co...

Duration: 00:44:28
Episode 299 Not Everyone Comes Back When You Finally Realize Their Value
Jan 03, 2026

Episode 299
Not Everyone Comes Back When You Finally Realize Their ValueA single sentence went viral and exposed something many people are not prepared to face, realizing someone’s value does not guarantee their return.This episode examines what people reveal about themselves after loss removes denial. It unpacks regret that arrives too late, the rewriting of personal narratives, the misuse of boundary language, and the uncomfortable difference between missing a person and missing what they provided. It also challenges the popular belief that awareness, apologies, or closure automatically earn second chances.Rather than assigning blame, this conversation focuses on ac...

Duration: 00:21:34
Episode 298: The Harsh Realities of Dating, Truths We Need to Stop Ignoring Edited version
Dec 30, 2025

Dating does not usually hurt people because of betrayal.
It hurts people because of soft warnings they chose to translate into hope.In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, I break down twenty harsh but necessary truths about modern dating, the kind that do not show up as big dramatic moments, but as small comments, delayed replies, vague language, and mixed signals that slowly drain your energy.This is not motivation content.
This is clarity.We talk about what phrases like “I’m not ready for a relationship,” “let’s just vibe,” “I need space,” and “I don’t like labels”...

Duration: 00:52:17
Episode 297 – How Do I Find Them?
Dec 30, 2025

Episode 297 – How Do I Find Them?In a world where proximity doesn’t guarantee connection, how do we actually find someone worth building with? In this solo episode, MCM breaks down the quiet realities behind modern relationships—what “high-value” really means, whether settling is weakness or wisdom, and how changing roles and income gaps are reshaping who ends up with whom.From workplace crushes to partner standards, this is the kind of talk that might challenge your views—or help you finally make sense of them.Real, grounded, no hype. Just a conversation that might stick with you.

Duration: 01:13:22
Episode 296 – Why Being the Good One Costs You Everything
Dec 29, 2025

Some connections never become relationships, but they still manage to take everything out of you.This episode is a long form, story driven monologue about how certain modern connections form through repeated proximity, familiarity, and access, not clear intention or commitment, and why they so often leave one person steady and intact while the other is left depleted and confused.This is not a conversation about villains, manipulation, or blame. It is an examination of emotional imbalance, over giving, and what happens when one person quietly becomes the stabilizer in a connection that was never designed to sustain two people...

Duration: 00:50:58
The Questions You Answer When Nobody Is Listening, Episode 295
Dec 28, 2025

There are relationship questions people do not answer out loud. Not because they are dishonest, but because the answers are uncomfortable, complicated, and would force real decisions.This special Q and A episode is built around twenty questions that expose unhealthy attachment, mixed signals, people pleasing, and the quiet ways people shrink themselves to keep access, peace, or hope alive. These are not surface level questions. They are the ones you answer privately, when nobody is listening, and when you finally stop negotiating with yourself.If you have ever felt stuck, undervalued, confused, or like you were walking on eggshells...

Duration: 01:02:18
Unplayable, Why Men Shrink Themselves and Attraction Dies, Episode 294
Dec 26, 2025


Unplayable,Why Men Shrink Themselves and Attraction Dies, Episode 294
A lot of men do not lose their relationship all at once, they lose themselvesfirst.Inthis episode, I break down a pattern that shows up in heterosexualrelationships everywhere. A man starts out confident, funny, grounded, andattractive, then once he gets attached he starts editing himself to keep peaceand keep access. He over gives. He over explains. He swallows conflict. Hebecomes agreeable instead of authentic. And slowly, attraction dies.Wealso talk about the uncomfortable piece people avoid. In some relationships,warmth, distance, and intimacy become a steering wheel. Not always...

Duration: 00:59:26
Mixed Signals Explained, Patterns vs Hope Episode 293
Dec 25, 2025

Ever ask yourself what are they really in my life for?Most people are not confused because relationships are unknowable, they are confused because they keep trying to understand behaviour through hope.Episode 293 is for anyone dealing with mixed signals, hot and cold behaviour, situationships, and anxious attachment. I break down what is happening with three diagnostic lists that force you to look at behaviour side by side, instead of romanticizing, guessing, or replaying messages.Nothing here is a hard rule. People are complex, context matters, timing matters, and there are always grey areas. But patterns still have a shape...

Duration: 01:48:57
Episode 292 – “I Don’t Want to Lose What I’ve Got” | Why Men Lose Themselves in Relationships
Dec 23, 2025

Episode 292 – I Don’t Want to Lose What I’ve GotIn this one hour monologue, MCM explores a truth many men struggle to admit out loud, the fear of losing what they have often turns them into someone they were never meant to be.This episode breaks down why men are often most attractive when nothing is on the line, and how relationships change once there is something to lose. From shrinking personalities, managing behaviour, and avoiding conflict, to sex fading and respect quietly eroding, this is a grounded look at what happens when men organise their lives around keeping a rela...

Duration: 01:10:53
Standards, Settling, and the New Dating Reality - Episode 291
Dec 22, 2025

In Episode 291 of You’re Probably Right, MCM takes a grounded look at how people make sense of their lives when certainty is gone. This episode sits in the quiet space between who we thought we would be and where we actually are, examining how expectations, relationships, and personal responsibility collide over time.Rather than offering quick answers or loud opinions, this episode slows things down. It explores how people adapt when old frameworks stop working, how internal narratives shape decision making, and why clarity often comes from reflection instead of reaction.This is a reflective, experience based monologue meant fo...

Duration: 00:35:05
The Unspoken Contract of Giving -Episode 290
Dec 19, 2025

Episode 290The Unspoken Contract of GivingWhat really happens when you give and receive nothing back, not rejection, not conflict, just silence.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we unpack the psychology of giving in adult relationships and why unacknowledged effort can feel more painful than being told no. This is not about holidays, birthdays, or special occasions. It is about the everyday reality of giving that happens all year long in dating, marriage, friendships, situationships, and long term connections.We explore why people give in the first place, including clean generosity, anxious giving, guilt driven giving, image based gi...

Duration: 01:13:02
Presence Is What People Are Actually Looking For -EPISODE 291
Dec 14, 2025

In a world of dating apps and endless checklists, are we missing the one thing that truly creates lasting attraction? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive into why presence—not looks, not checkboxes—matters most in finding a lifelong partner.Join us as we explore how the constant search for the perfect match can overshadow the real key to connection: the ability to be genuinely present. We’ll discuss why modern dating often erodes presence and how focusing on understanding and attention can transform the way we connect.If you’ve ever felt that dating is just a num...

Duration: 00:25:44
30 Things People Say When They Secretly Like You - Adult Social Skills - Episode# 289
Dec 06, 2025

You ever notice how grown adults will talk in full circles just to avoid saying, “Hey, I like you”?
People will write whole essays through subtext, emojis, half-sentences, and late-night “accidental” messages, acting like they’re sending government-classified codes instead of admitting they’re interested.In this episode, we’re breaking down the 30 ambiguous things people say when they want you… but they’re scared to show their hand.
You know the lines:“I don’t usually open up to people.”
“You’re different.”
“We should hang out… sometime.”
“Lol you’re trouble.”Every one of them is a breadcrumb, a little test, a...

Duration: 00:46:05
Episode 288 — The Calm They Come Back To
Nov 30, 2025

Why do avoidant partners pull away when things feel close, yet return to the one person who stays steady, grounded, and emotionally light? In this episode of You are Probably Right, MCM breaks down the psychology behind avoidant attachment and the power of relief and controlled presence.You will learn:• why avoidants retreat when emotions rise
• why calm confidence creates emotional safety
• how relief lowers their defences and pulls them closer
• what controlled presence looks like in real relationships
• what avoidants respond to and what pushes them away
• how to stay centred without chasing or overgivingTh...

Duration: 00:44:16
It Is Not Them, It Is Actually Episode 287 | You’re Probably Right with MCM
Nov 28, 2025

There comes a point where you have to stop asking, “Why are they doing this to me?” and start asking, “Why do I keep allowing it?”In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM speaks straight to the ones who have given more to one person than they ever have to anyone else – more money, more time, more patience, more emotional support – and got the least in return. You showed up as the best version of yourself, and they responded with crumbs, confusion, and bare minimum effort.This is not about calling you weak. It is about understanding why you overgive...

Duration: 00:48:09
Episode 285 — When You Know It’s Time to Go but You Don’t Want to Leave
Nov 25, 2025

In this powerful episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down one of the most difficult emotional crossroads we face — knowing it’s time to walk away while every part of you still wants to stay. This conversation explores why we hold on, why the heart resists change, and how fear, attachment, hope, and history keep us stuck in places we’ve already outgrown.You’ll hear a deep, honest look at:
• why your intuition recognises the truth long before your heart accepts it
• how emotional memory and attachment create “false hope loops”
• the difference between love and emotional r...

Duration: 00:36:27
Living with a Loving Jealous Man -Episode 285
Nov 15, 2025

Why does a good man, a man who loves you deeply, still get jealous?
Why does a man who loves you so deeply still get jealous?
This episode explains the quiet insecurity that wakes up in a loving man when you step into situations that make him feel unsure, even when he trusts you. We break down how fear, comparison, and past relationships shape his reactions, and why he sometimes pulls back or watches you more closely. This is an honest, relatable conversation for women who love a good man but still see jealousy show up in unexpected...

Duration: 01:12:12
Why Love Pulls Away When You Show Up Strong -Episode 284
Nov 15, 2025

A reflective deep dive into why people distance themselves when you offer consistency, honesty, and emotional presence. This episode explores fear of intimacy, avoidant attachment, nervous system overwhelm, and why some people retreat when love gets real. If you've ever felt someone pull away just as you were ready to love them well, this one is for you.relationships, attachment, jealousy, fear of intimacy, emotional intelligence, self-worth, dating, avoidant partner, consistency, secure loveEpisode Tags (Optional but Suggested for Spotify SEO)

Duration: 00:43:28
I Want to Know What Love Is | 50 Ways Women Show Love & 50 Ways Men Show Love Compared Side by Side - 2 - Episode 283
Nov 12, 2025

What does real love actually look like — not the movie version, but the human version?
In this two-part episode of You’re Probably Right, M.C.M. breaks down 100 powerful ways men and women express love, loyalty, protection, and vulnerability — side by side.This isn’t just a relationship checklist. It’s a deep dive into the emotional blueprints that shape how we love, what we need, and how we sometimes miss each other even when we care deeply.Whether you’re trying to understand your partner, heal from love that hurt, or simply learn how men and women connect diff...

Duration: 00:48:33
I Want to Know What Love Is | 50 Ways Women Show Love & 50 Ways Men Show Love Compared Side by Side - 1 - Episode 282
Nov 12, 2025

What does real love actually look like — not the movie version, but the human version?
In this two-part episode of You’re Probably Right, M.C.M. breaks down 100 powerful ways men and women express love, loyalty, protection, and vulnerability — side by side.This isn’t just a relationship checklist. It’s a deep dive into the emotional blueprints that shape how we love, what we need, and how we sometimes miss each other even when we care deeply.Whether you’re trying to understand your partner, heal from love that hurt, or simply learn how men and women connect diff...

Duration: 01:17:29
Speak to My Heart — When the Armor Starts to Feel Heavy - Episode 281
Nov 11, 2025

Speak to My Heart — When the Armor Starts to Feel Heavy
📝 Episode Description (SEO-optimized for Spotify, Apple, and YouTube)There comes a moment when silence stops protecting you and startssuffocating you.
This episode of You’re Probably Right isn’t a diagnosis, it’s a mirror —a quiet conversation with the part of you that’s tired of pretending you don’tcare.In Speak to My Heart, MCM reaches beneath the surface to talk tothe guarded soul — the one that keeps busy to outrun pain, the one that hidesbehind strength but quietly craves safety.
This is not about fixing yourse...

Duration: 00:33:34
Episode 280 – The Mirror Theory: When Love Starts Running
Nov 11, 2025

When love turns into a mirror, it stops being romance and starts being revelation.
In this raw, cinematic episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores the heartbreak of chasing someone who keeps running — not from you, but from themselves.This talk unpacks:Why avoidant partners pull away when love feels realHow emotional distance becomes a form of controlWhy anxious and avoidant types mirror each other’s fearsWhat “closure” really means when words can’t fix what silence already hasAnd how peace feels when you finally stop chasing and start healingThis one isn’t about revenge or regret — it’s about release. Duration: 01:05:28

No Strings attached - Episode 279
Nov 09, 2025

In this deep, psychological episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down the hidden world of the dismissive-avoidant attachment style — the people who want connection, but only on their terms.Through real-life examples and quiet honesty, this episode explores how avoidant partners use politeness, physical distance, and “sorry” messages to regulate emotional closeness, why they appear calm when relationships end, and how their need for control quietly sabotages intimacy.Whether you’re the one who pulls away or the one left wondering what went wrong, this episode will help you understand the emotional blueprint beneath the phrase “No Strings Attached.”🎙️...

Duration: 00:31:14
Episode 278 — Why Men Cheat and the Intimacy “Bait and Switch”: A Male Perspective
Nov 09, 2025

Men who love their partners still cheat sometimes, and not every “onetime” cheater becomes a lifelong liar. In this straight talk from a maleperspective, MCM unpacks why good men make bad choices, why intimacy can changeafter commitment, and how mismatched desire, silence, and resentment pushcouples toward betrayal. We cover unmet needs, opportunity, thrill seeking, thepsychology of the “bait and switch” in the bedroom, double standards aboutcheating, and what most men actually want in long term love. This is not anexcuse for infidelity, it is an honest look at how it happens and how to stoprepeating the same patterns.🎧 You’re Probably Righ...

Duration: 00:35:13
Where Their Heart Grows Feet — When Love Walks Away Before They Do Episode 277 - You're Probably Right
Nov 01, 2025

Sometimes, love doesn’t end with a fight — it ends in silence.
In this deeply human episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores what happens when someone’s heart quietly walks out of a relationship long before their body follows.We talk about:The subtle signs someone’s heart is leaving before they say it.Why people emotionally withdraw and stop showing up.The psychology of detachment, disinterest, and emotional fatigue.How to stop performing for love and start protecting your peace.The difference between someone leaving to escape… and you leaving to evolve.If you’ve ever been devalued...

Duration: 00:32:03
Episode 276: “Unspoken Truths: What We Hide and Why It Matters.”
Oct 31, 2025

We all carry secrets — some small, some soul-deep. In this powerful, intimate episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores the hidden parts of our lives we rarely talk about: the things we bury, the emotions we mute, the truths we fear will change how others see us.From the psychology of secrecy and the silent cost of repression to the gendered ways we hide emotion, the quiet battles with mental health, intrusive thoughts, and even private desires we’re too ashamed to name — this episode dives into what it really means to be human beneath the surface.This isn’t about co...

Duration: 00:23:26
Episode 276 — 10 Things I Learned the Hard Way (So You Don’t Have To)
Oct 31, 2025

I did things in love that felt right at the time — and I paid for them.In this episode I walk through the ten mistakes that cost me time, dignity, andpeace: caring past reason, mistaking intensity for connection, trying to earnlove by fixing problems, over-explaining, reading mixed signals as hope, andmore. For each one I explain why it felt sensible, why it hurt, when it mightmake sense, and the practical swap that actually protects your heart.If you want less drama and more clarity in dating and relationships, thisis your playbook.Keywords: relationship advice, heartbreak recovery, breadcrumbing, emotionalintelligence, dating red fl...

Duration: 00:43:07
Love’s Code: Green Flags, Red Flags, and the Psychology of Real Connection Ep. 274
Oct 30, 2025

Why do we keep chasing the wrong people — and overlooking the right ones?
In this long-form, heartfelt episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down the science and soul of modern relationships — the green flags that signal safety, trust, and emotional maturity… and the red flags that quietly unravel love from the inside out.You’ll learn:Why your brain confuses chaos with chemistryHow to spot calm, consistent love (and stop mistaking it for “boring”)What real emotional safety feels likeThe ten Universal Green Flags that define healthy partnershipThe ten Universal Red Flags that warn when to walk awayHow to hea...

Duration: 01:14:54
Episode 274: “They Knew I Loved Them, But Let Me Fall Anyway – Healing When You’re Led On and Heartbroken.”
Oct 30, 2025

🎧 Episode Title (final SEO version)They Knew I Loved Them, But Let Me Fall Anyway — Healing After Being Led OnHave you ever loved someone who knew exactly how much you cared — and still let you keep falling, even when they had no intention of catching you? This episode is for the ones left holding the pieces after being led on, breadcrumbed, and emotionally drained by someone who claimed they “didn’t want to hurt you.”In this 90-minute deep talk, MCM breaks down the quiet cruelty of breadcrumbing and emotional manipulation — when affection feels real but commitment never arrives. From the psychology...

Duration: 00:47:25
Episode 273 — “Breadcrumbing 101: When You’re Just the Option, Not the Choice”
Oct 25, 2025

Ever felt like you were almost loved — but never chosen? In this specialepisode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down one of the mostpainful emotional games in modern relationships: breadcrumbing.From the “maybe later” messages to the hot-and-cold attention loops, thisepisode exposes how emotional rationing works, why people do it, and how tostop falling for it.Learn how to:This one’s part truth-bomb, part healing session. If you’ve ever beenkept waiting for love that never fully arrives, Breadcrumbing 101 willgive you the clarity (and closure) you’ve been missing.🎧 Listen, reflect, and finally stop mistaking crumbs for connection.SEO Keywords & Ph...

Duration: 00:36:10
“20 Questions About Love You Were Too Tired to Ask” (with MCM — You’re Probably Right)
Oct 23, 2025

What happens when you stop chasing answers from other people and start asking the right questions about love, boundaries, and healing?In this raw and reflective episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM sits down to answer 20 of the hardest questions about relationships — the kind that keep you awake at night. From emotional patience vs. self-betrayal, to why silence hurts more than words, to learning when love has stopped being love, this episode pulls no punches.These aren’t easy questions. They’re the ones that help you grow up emotionally.MCM unpacks how to:Recognize when “patience” becomes self-abandonment.Stop confusi...

Duration: 00:38:43
Episode 271 — Why Empaths Keep Loving Avoidants (and How to Finally Let Go)
Oct 19, 2025


In this powerful new episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM unpacks one of the most painful and misunderstood relationship dynamics: why deeply feeling empaths are often drawn to emotionally avoidant partners — and how to finally break free from the cycle.Through raw storytelling and emotional insight, MCM explores:The emotional chemistry between empaths and avoidants.Why love feels like both home and heartbreak.How self-betrayal happens in the name of “patience.”The hidden addiction to emotional inconsistency.What real healing and emotional sobriety look like.If you’ve ever felt unseen, over-giving, or trapped in the push-pull of someone wh...

Duration: 01:25:10
Episode 270 — The Attention Trap | You’re Probably Right
Oct 18, 2025

In a world where likes, swipes, and text replies are traded like currency, MCM breaks down how romantic attention became love’s new economy.
This special long-form episode explores how attention — the rarest commodity of the digital age — can make or break modern relationships.From ghosting and breadcrumbing to anxious attachment and quiet self-sacrifice, MCM exposes how couples confuse attention with affection, validation with love, and scarcity with power.
He explains why being “seen” feels like being loved, why silence hurts like punishment, and how to reclaim your emotional balance when the person you care about controls the flow of th...

Duration: 00:44:15
Episode 269 — “Why Do Men Want Women Anyway?”
Oct 11, 2025

In this long-form special, MCM asks the question few men ever say outloud but most women secretly wonder about — Why do men even want womenanyway?From independence to intimacy, from respect to peace, this 90-minute talkpulls back the curtain on how men really think about love, loyalty, andconnection. It’s not about clichés or magazine advice — it’s about what happensbeneath the armor, behind the quiet, and inside the heart of a man who’s tiredof noise but still craves meaning.MCM breaks down ten honest truths — the need for emotional safety, thepower of admiration, the craving for peace, and the real...

Duration: 00:46:07
Episode 268 — Unwritten
Oct 11, 2025

In this raw and reflective episode, MCM speaks about the parts of life that don’t make it into the highlight reels — the quiet work, the loss, the moments when truth costs you more than a lie ever could. Unwritten explores what it means to live with integrity in a world that rewards the performance of happiness.Drawing from personal experiences — a father’s discipline, a sister’s silence, and the lessons hidden in everyday struggles — MCM invites you to think about the pages of your own story that are still blank. This isn’t just another motivational talk; it’s an intimate re...

Duration: 00:46:13
Episode 267 — Respect
Oct 04, 2025

This episode is about value—how you signal it, how others read it, and how those signals shift attraction, leverage, and relationship dynamics. Drawing on research you provided, we unpack:Social proof (pre-selection/mate-choice copying): why people rate you higher when they see others do the same, and how to show real belonging even without a big following.Scarcity (healthy selectiveness): why being slightly less available increases perceived worth—and why chasing lowers it.“Prize” mindset: carrying yourself with inner confidence and options, instead of pedestalizing anyone who undervalues you.Style & first impressions: how presentation boosts your confidence and shapes percepti...

Duration: 01:01:45
Episode 266 — Flipping the Script: Reclaiming Your Heart’s Autonomy
Sep 27, 2025

Sometimes, losing yourself in love isn’t loud — it’s quiet.
It’s the text you never send. The joke you laugh at even though it cuts deep. The plans you cancel just to keep someone else happy.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores how self-abandonment creeps into relationships and what it takes to reclaim your autonomy. From the psychological roots of anxious attachment to the societal pressures of money, looks, and social media, this conversation exposes the hidden costs of giving away your power.But more importantly, it shows you how to flip the script — t...

Duration: 00:50:35
Episode 265 — Micro-Betrayals
Sep 21, 2025

Betrayal isn’t always dramatic. Sometimes it whispers.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores micro-betrayals — the subtle lies, secrets, and dismissals that eat away at trust over time. From flirting under the guise of friendship to venting to others instead of your partner, these quiet cracks in the foundation can do as much damage as full-blown affairs.MCM breaks down why micro-betrayals happen, how to recognise them, and what it takes to repair trust before small fractures turn into collapse. Through practical insights and real-world examples, this episode offers a roadmap to protect intimacy and strengthen connec...

Duration: 00:22:39
Episode 264 — Not Evergreen: The Current State of Black America (Sept 15, 2025)
Sep 16, 2025

This special edition of You’re Probably Right breaks from the usual timeless reflections and leans directly into the moment. Recorded on Monday, September 15th, 2025, MCM takes a raw look at the state of Canada, the United States, and the Black community today.From Shedeur Sanders’ rise in football to the National Guard deployment in Memphis, to the voices of Charlie Kirk and others shaping headlines, this episode is a candid snapshot of culture, politics, race, and faith in North America.It’s not evergreen — and that’s the point. This is about right now. The climate, the conversations, the conflicts...

Duration: 00:31:07
Episode 256 — You Already Know
Sep 14, 2025

n this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM unpacks the lies we’re told from childhood and carried into the workplace: “you can be anything” and “prove yourself again and again.” Both create shame, frustration, and disillusionment. But the truth is simpler: you don’t need to be everything to be valuable.Through stories, real-world examples, and honest reflection, MCM explores why limitless potential is a myth, how corporate interviews are performance theatre, and why proven loyalty too often goes unseen. This episode challenges both leaders and everyday listeners to rethink success, respect, and recognition.You’ll leave with a fresh perspect...

Duration: 01:06:52
True colours Episode 263
Sep 14, 2025

In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores the importance of showing up as yourself—not as a mirror of what others expect, but as the truest version of who you are. Too often, people hide their real selves behind safe reflections, hoping to be accepted. But living that way drains your energy and leaves no room for genuine connection.Through real talk, personal reflection, and practical insight, this episode explains why mirrors don’t build intimacy, why setting the culture early matters, and why “fit” is more important than proving who’s right or wrong. You’ll learn how to l...

Duration: 01:06:52
More Than You Think – Part 4 Episode 262 | You're Probably Right
Sep 06, 2025

Julian has always been the kind of man who listens—but what happens when listening becomes its own kind of deception? In this fourth installment of More Than You Think, the story deepens. We explore the emotional terrain between honesty and performance, love and attention, intention and impact.Eva is waking up to a painful truth. Julian isn’t cruel. But he’s not really present either. And that might be worse. As the illusion begins to crumble, new faces and buried patterns resurface. Through elegant storytelling, sharp introspection, and a haunting narrative tone, Part 4 Weak peels back what it really...

Duration: 00:51:24
Episode 261 – Complicated
Sep 03, 2025

Episode 261 of It’s You’re Probably Right takes Avril Lavigne’s question—“Why you have to go and make things so complicated?”—and answers it with 20 universal truths for relationships.

00:01:06 – Theme of the Episode
Why do we make relationships so complicated? From riddles and crumbs to silence and excuses—love isn’t meant to be this messy.00:01:51 – The Promise
20 universal points you can use in any situation with anyone. Each one is simple, practical, and designed to cut through confusion.00:02:41 – Welcome & Housekeeping
00:03:32 – Point 1: Boundaries Matter More Than Intentions
Intentions without respect mean nothing. Boundaries protect you—enf...

Duration: 00:54:12
Show Me Love (Part 3: Points 24–30)Episode 260
Aug 31, 2025

In the final part of Show Me Love, MCM walks through points 24–30, showing you how to state what you want clearly, protect your energy, and stop measuring your worth by reply speed. You’ll also learn how to weigh happiness vs. money in opportunities, make love a choice instead of a lifeline, and heal old wounds before building new connections.




🔑 Keywords: dating podcast, relationship advice, show me love series, emotional healing, stop chasing relationships, self-love, alignment in relationships, modern dating podcast, healing before love

Duration: 00:26:40
Show Me Love (Part 2: Points 12–23) Episode 259
Aug 31, 2025

In Part 2 of Show Me Love, MCM continues with points 12–23, unpacking how to stop tolerating disrespect, why you shouldn’t interpret distance as a challenge, and how to protect your energy. This section dives into authenticity, stability over drama, using solitude for growth, keeping your schedule intact, and leveling the power in your relationships.




🔑 Keywords: relationship boundaries, stop disrespect, dating confidence, authenticity, personal growth podcast, self-care, emotional health, dating advice podcast, modern relationships

Duration: 00:44:56
Show Me Love (Part 1: Points 1–11)Episode 258
Aug 31, 2025

Description:
In Part 1 of Show Me Love, MCM breaks down the first 11 shifts that can transform your approach to relationships. Learn why chasing love pushes it away, how to stop outsourcing your worth to others, and how to set standards that protect your time and energy. This episode covers self-worth, boundaries, intimacy vs. intensity, approval-seeking, rejection as alignment, and more.



🔑 Keywords: relationship podcast, stop chasing love, self-worth, boundaries, dating advice, intimacy vs intensity, rejection, self-love, mental health podcast, personal growth

Duration: 01:06:31
Rolling Too Deep – Episode 257
Aug 30, 2025

In this episode of It’s You’re Probably Right by MCM, we talk about the weight of life when it feels like you may never “arrive.” Bills don’t stop, responsibilities pile up, and even when you take a break, the stress follows.MCM reflects on:Why “rest” isn’t always restful when paychecks stop.How to position yourself to succeed when you’re single or creative.Negotiating your value at work — and in life.Protecting yourself from people who only come for what they can take.Building inner stability through discipline and self-care.Moving forward even without guarantees of money, relationsh...

Duration: 00:46:51
More Than You Think – Part 3: The Gig Episode 255 | You're Probably Right
Aug 28, 2025

In this charged continuation of the More Than You Thinkseries, we finally meet Marcus—the man Eva once married, the artist who’s beenliving in the shadows of her life. Now broke and barely holding on, Marcus getsa shot at redemption: a San Francisco performance that could change everything.All he needs is $700 and a reason to believe in himself again.But asking Eva for help? That comes with a cost.Tensions rise, truths surface, and the collision course between Marcus andJulian reaches its breaking point—on stage, in front of everyone. This isn’tjust about music. It’s about identity...

Duration: 00:38:51
More Than You Think – Part 2 You're Probably right (Fiction Episode)Episode 254
Aug 24, 2025

She’s not what he said. She’s more.In Part 2 of More Than You Think, we hear Eva’s side—the backstory, the baggage, the men who never left, and the one who might’ve stayed too long. This is a slow unraveling, told in Eva’s own voice, from behind the makeup, the money, and the mistakes.It’s not an explanation. It’s not an apology. It’s just what happened.If you’ve ever kept someone in your life because they made you feel safe…
If you’ve ever shut someone out because they saw too much…
If you’ve...

Duration: 00:30:46
More Than You Think A You’re Probably Right Fiction Special
Aug 24, 2025

Welcome to a special episode of You Are Probably Right. I’m M C M.What you’re about to hear is different. This isn’t commentary. It’s not a conversation. It’s a story.But it’s the kind of story that tells the truth in a way advice never can.It’s for anyone who’s ever waited a little too long. For anyone who’s ever felt like they were almost chosen—but never quite enough. For anyone who’s felt the ache of wanting someone who doesn’t know what to do with something real.So sit down. Get quiet...

Duration: 00:35:54
Chosen, Not Convenient: How Strong Couples Actually Work | Episode 252
Aug 24, 2025

A clear, practical talk on building a strong relationship. We cover sharedmission, respectful communication that maintains trust, a simple reset plan forpast issues, real-world rules for money and phones, desire and boundarieswithout games, and a clean repair script for conflict. You'll leave with aweekly check-in you can run tomorrow plus three commitments to keep you honest.SEO Keywords
strong relationship, couples communication, trust reset, conflict repair,intimacy, money rules for couples, phone privacy agreement, weekly check-inTimestamps
00:00 Opening and promise
03:30 Shared mission, team first
10:30 Talk that keeps respect
19:30 Trust and the reset plan
28:30 Attraction, jealousy...

Duration: 00:50:20
Episode 251 – Five Questions That Can Wreck (or Rescue) Your Relationship
Aug 21, 2025


A viral 45-second clip asked five “deep” relationship questions—but are theyreally deep, or dangerously shallow? In this episode of You’re ProbablyRight, we unpack each question in full—what it gets right, what it misses,and why microwaved counseling can quietly poison your marriage. With vividstorytelling, real-world scenarios, and hard-earned wisdom, this 90-minuteconversation dives into:If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re with the right person—or feltrattled by quick-fire relationship “tests” online—this episode is for you.Show Notes:Listener Reflection Questions (SEO-rich prompts):Keywords / Tags for Search:
relationships, marriage, dating advice, fulfillment, intimacy, toxic cycles,love questions...

Duration: 00:40:11
Every Little Thing She Does Isn’t Magic: When Love Feels One-Sided| Epd - 250
Aug 21, 2025

In this raw and unfiltered episode of You’re Probably Right, we go straight into the heart of marriage and long-term relationships — when love feels one-sided. Drawing on real stories, timeless truths, and unspoken frustrations, this episode exposes why so many men and women feel disconnected under the same roof. We’ll talk about silence, intimacy, negotiation, influence, and the lies modern culture feeds us about love. And along the way, we’ll unpack how different men — Beta, Sigma, and Alpha — experience these struggles uniquely, and what it takes to bridge the gap before silence wins. This is not about blame. This...

Duration: 00:41:27
Time After Time: Why We Keep Choosing the Wrong People | Ep 249
Aug 20, 2025

Why do we keep circling back to the same kinds of partners, the same heartbreaks, the same endings — time after time?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we explore why good people often fall into bad love. Through vivid storytelling and real-life scenarios, we uncover the hidden patterns that keep us hooked on the wrong relationships. You’ll hear about the illusion of change, why familiarity feels safer than growth, and how to finally break the cycle for good.This isn’t just another “relationship talk.” This is an invitation to pause, reflect, and begin choosing differently — time after time.The...

Duration: 00:20:45
Every Breath You Take: Was He Really the One Who Got Away? | Ep 248
Aug 20, 2025

This episode borrows its title from one of the most famous songs of the ’80s — a track so haunting and unforgettable it became a global anthem of longing. Years later, it was reimagined by The Notorious B.I.G., introducing a whole new generation to its power.But here’s the question: Why does a song like that still resonate? Because we all know the feeling of watching, waiting, and wondering about someone who slipped out of our lives. Was he the one who got away, or just the one who broke you?In Episode 248 of You’re Probably Right, we go be...

Duration: 00:20:19
EP247 – The 10 Signs He’s Just Not Into You
Aug 20, 2025

📄 Description (for Spotify)In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive deep into the truth every woman needs to face in dating: knowing when a man simply isn’t serious about you.Over 10 vivid, real-world signs, we explore the ways men reveal their lack of commitment—whether it’s late-night “what are you doing?” texts, endless future promises that never happen, or avoiding defining the relationship altogether.This is not about shame. It’s about clarity. Because the sooner you see the truth, the sooner you can stop wasting time on men who don’t value you, and start saving your h...

Duration: 00:29:39
EP246 – The 7 Signs She’s Just Not Into You
Aug 20, 2025

In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive deep into one of the toughest truths men face in dating: knowing when she’s just not interested.For 44 minutes, I walk you through the signs most guys miss—signs that end up wasting months or even years of their lives. From canceled plans to cold body language, from endless “I’m busy” excuses to watching her flirt with someone else right in front of you, these are the red flags you can’t afford to ignore.If you’ve ever found yourself chasing, over-explaining, or settling for scraps of attention, this...

Duration: 00:44:56
How to Fight Fair: 7 Conflict Rules That Can Save a Marriage | You’re Probably Right (Ep. 245)
Aug 19, 2025

Conflict is inevitable — but unfair conflict can destroy love. In Episode 245 of You’re Probably Right, we unpack 7 battle-tested rules that help couples argue without tearing each other apart. From learning to pause before reacting, to avoiding low blows, to repairing with “touch gloves,” these principles transform fights into opportunities for connection.Whether you’re married, dating, or simply want healthier communication, this episode gives you a blueprint for fighting fair — so your relationship grows stronger instead of weaker.00:00 – Intro | Why fighting fair matters in love & marriage01:57 – The truth about conflict | It’s not the fight, it’s how you fight06:11 – Rule 1...

Duration: 00:31:44
Episode 244 - Pulling Back Isn’t Power
Aug 19, 2025

Everyone says it: “Pull back your energy. Let them miss you. Stay silent and they’ll value you more.” It’s the advice plastered across TikTok, Instagram, and dating podcasts. But what if that’s not power — what if it’s avoidance?In this episode of You’re Probably Right with MCM, I challenge the popular mantra of withdrawing your presence as a strategy in relationships. If you feel like a backup option, you don’t need silence or games — you need communication. Real confidence isn’t disappearing to test someone; it’s speaking honestly, even if your voice shakes.We break down why emotio...

Duration: 00:33:33
Episode 243: 20 Questions Men Wish You’d Never Ask
Aug 19, 2025

What happens when a man answers the questions he's never supposed to answer? In this bold, raw episode of You're Probably Right, host M.C.M. takes on 20 deeply uncomfortable questions about masculinity, relationships, vulnerability, and how it really feels to be a man in today's shifting culture.From emotional labour to outdated expectations, weaponized incompetence to quiet grief—nothing is off-limits. Whether you're a husband, father, boyfriend, or woman trying to understand the emotional maze of modern men, this episode will challenge you to listen differently.🎧 Why listen?Get a rare unfiltered male perspective on love, pressure, loneliness, and legac...

Duration: 00:49:22
Episode 242 - Why Women Say They Want Vulnerable Men, But Don’t Always Choose Them
Aug 18, 2025

In this episode of You’re Probably Right, host MCM breaks down one of the most confusing parts of modern dating: why men are told to open up, but often penalized when they do. We explore the science of first impressions, the psychology of attraction, men’s mental health stigma, and why timing and framing make vulnerability either magnetic or off-putting.Through storytelling, research, and real-world examples, you’ll learn:Why women’s desire in men balances confidence with emotional intimacyHow psychology explains dating double standardsThe three dials of male vulnerability: timing, framing, and doseGuidance for both men and women on build...

Duration: 00:30:44
15 Signs Your Partner Doesn’t Actually Love You – Part 3 | You're Probably Right Podcast
Aug 15, 2025

In the final part of this three-part series, we uncover signs 11–15 that your partner might not truly love you. From open contempt to constantly bringing up their ex, these red flags can help you spot when the relationship isn’t what it seems. We talk blunt truths, real-life examples, and why you deserve respect and genuine affection. If you missed Parts 1 and 2, check them out first.Show Notes & Time Stamps00:00 – Welcome to You’re Probably Right Podcast – no fluff, no filters
00:50 – Intro to Part 3 and quick recap of Part 2
02:22 – Reminder: This is entertainment first, not absolute advice
02:46 – Sign 11: They te...

Duration: 00:34:20
15 Signs Your Partner Doesn’t Actually Love You – Part 2 | Probably Right Podcast
Aug 15, 2025

In Part 2 of this 3-part series, we dive into signs 6–10 that your partner may not love you the way you deserve. From secrecy around phones and finances to double standards, public embarrassment, and dismissing your opinions—these behaviours chip away at respect and connection. You’ll hear examples, the emotional impact, and why these patterns matter. Remember, it’s about honesty, respect, and protecting your own well-being.00:00 – Introduction
Quick welcome and reminder of what the Probably Right Podcast is all about—straight talk, no fluff. Recap of Part 1 and setup for today’s discussion on signs 6–10.02:22 – Sign 6: They’re very protective of t...

Duration: 00:27:20
15 Signs Your Partner Doesn’t Actually Love You (Part 1)
Aug 15, 2025

In this first part of the three-part series, we break down the first five signs that your partner may not truly love you.
From avoiding quality time to speaking to you like a friend instead of a lover, these subtle behaviours can reveal a lot about the state of your relationship.Each sign is explored with real-world examples, psychological insights, and practical advice, helping you recognise patterns that could be harming your connection.
Whether you’re dating, engaged, or married, these insights can help you see clearly, have honest conversations, and make informed choices about your future.00:00 – Introduction Duration: 00:52:17

Episode 239 - Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship – Part 3
Aug 14, 2025

In Part 3 of Being Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship, we explore the deeper emotional and psychological traps that kindness can create when it’s given too fast, too soon. MCM breaks down the subtle ways over-giving can shift power, expectations, and attraction in relationships. This episode unpacks how to balance generosity with self-respect, how to avoid getting trapped in an unbalanced dynamic, and how to protect your energy while still being genuine.If you’ve ever wondered why being “too nice” hasn’t gotten you the love or respect you deserve, this conversation might change how you approach connection...

Duration: 00:41:02
Episode 239 – Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship Part 2
Aug 14, 2025

In Part 2 of Being Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship, I explore the hidden dangers of moving too fast when showing kindness and generosity in the early stages of dating. This episode continues the deep dive from Part 1, focusing on why overinvesting too soon can lead to imbalance, resentment, and even emotional disconnection.
Whether you’ve been told you’re “too nice” or you’ve experienced a partner pulling away after you gave too much too soon, this conversation will give you the clarity to protect your energy and keep your self-worth intact.🎧 Listen to Part 1 here: Episode 239 – Part 100:00 – O...

Duration: 01:10:38
Episode 239 - Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship Part 1
Aug 14, 2025

In Part 1 of this three-part deep dive, we explore why being “too nice” too quickly can backfire—especially when dealing with avoidant partners. Drawing from eight key reflections, this first segment covers shifts 1 through 3, unpacking the subtle behaviours that can unintentionally erode attraction and respect.We’ll look at how over-giving, rushing emotional intimacy, and neglecting personal boundaries can create imbalance, and why these patterns are often misunderstood as kindness. This episode challenges you to rethink the way you show care in relationships, helping you set a foundation for genuine connection without losing yourself.0:00 – Opening monologue & episode overview
2:15 – Introduction to “too nice...

Duration: 00:57:16
Episode 238 – From Losing Yourself to Loving Yourself: Rebuilding Self-Respect After a One-Sided Relationship
Aug 12, 2025

In this powerful episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down the one thing that can make or break every relationship: self-respect.From spotting the subtle ways you lose yourself in love, to understanding why constant giving never earns lasting affection, this conversation is raw, practical, and eye-opening. You’ll learn how to identify unhealthy patterns, set non-negotiable boundaries, and rebuild the confidence that makes you magnetic.We cover:The hidden signs you’ve been trading self-respect for loveWhy “transactional caregiving” leaves you empty and resentfulStep-by-step actions to reclaim your independence without dramaHow to spot a partner who values you over w...

Duration: 00:53:59
Episode 237 – 25 Questions Women Want to Ask Men (But Don’t)
Aug 11, 2025

In this unfiltered episode of You’re Probably Right, I take on 25 straight-to-the-point questions from women about men, dating, and relationships. From why “great guys” are still single to the truth about commitment and attraction, nothing’s off-limits.These aren’t scripted answers — they’re raw, real, and from the heart.Timestamps:
00:00 – Intro
00:47 – Why this episode is different: 25 real questions from women
04:20 – Q1: Why are “great guys” still single?
06:36 – Q2: Are some men too picky?
10:26 – Q3: What do men want in a partner they haven’t found yet?
16:10 – Q4: Are men too focused on looks?
21:43 – Q5: Do men h...

Duration: 01:19:59
Ep 236 – What Silence Heard: An Hour-Long Letter from the Avoidant | You're Probably Right Podcast
Aug 09, 2025

You thought I didn’t care. The truth is, I cared so much it scared me.”
In this intimate, hour-long monologue, MCM steps into the mind of the avoidant — the partner who pulls away, stays silent, and leaves questions unanswered. This is not an apology, not a plea, and not a rebuttal. It’s a rare, unflinching look at what the avoidant carries, what they fear, and what they can’t always say out loud.
Whether you’ve been left by an avoidant, loved one, or lived with distance in your relationships, this is a letter you won’t forget.🎧 Lis...

Duration: 00:31:15
Why Hiding Who You Are Will Cost You Everything
Aug 07, 2025

In this solo monologue, M.C.M. drops the filter and speaks truthfully about why we lie at the start of relationships
🕰️ Timestamped Show Notes:00:00 – Introduction
Welcome to Episode 235. A different format today: a full monologue, read from a personal essay with spontaneous thoughts interspersed.02:16 – Why It’s So Hard to Tell the Truth at the Start
Explores the discomfort and fear people feel when entering new relationships, and why vulnerability feels dangerous even though it's necessary.04:31 – The Role of Self-Worth
How desperation vs. confidence impacts our willingness to be honest. When you don't value yourself, you're more l...

Duration: 01:01:41
EPISODE 234 — Is She the Woman and Doesn’t Even Know It?
Aug 04, 2025

EPISODE 234 — Is She the Woman and Doesn’t Even Know It?
🎙️ You're Probably Right Podcast with Amsterdam
📧 YPRpodcast@gmail.com
🎧 Listen on Spotify | Listen on AppleShe might not show off. She might not know her own value. But real men notice. In Episode 234, Amsterdam lays out 5 traits of a traditional, high-value woman — the kind the world overlooks but every good man prays for. Emotional control, inner confidence, nurturing strength, and grace under pressure. This one’s not about being trendy. It’s about being timeless.00:00 – Opening & Intent:
Amsterdam sets the tone — this one’s for women and for men who want to rec...

Duration: 00:21:02
EPISODE 233 — Is He the Man and You Don’t Even Know It?
Aug 04, 2025

EPISODE 233 — Is He the Man and You Don’t Even Know It?
🎙️ You're Probably Right Podcast with M.C.M
📧 YPRpodcast@gmail.com
🎧 Listen on Spotify | Listen on AppleSome men walk like lions but never roar. In this episode, MCM breaks down six markers of quiet strength that show a man might be “the one” without even knowing it. He shares stories, real-life imagery, and raw insights on what makes men magnetic without chasing attention. This one’s for the women trying to figure him out—and the men who need to be reminded who they are.00:00 – Intro:
MCM sets the...

Duration: 00:32:37
Episode 232 — Love Where You Work? Dating in Workplaces, Schools, and Churches
Aug 04, 2025

Episode 232 — Love Where You Work? Dating in Workplaces, Schools, and ChurchesDate: August 4, 2025
🔗 Listen on Spotify
🔗 Listen on Apple PodcastsIn this episode, MCM gets real about something most people deal with but rarely admit: catching feelings where you work, study, or worship. Can you find love where you spend your days—and not wreck your career or your faith life? Episode 232 breaks down the myths, the risks, the psychology, and the rules. If you’ve ever had a “work wife,” a crush in Bible study, or been tempted to shoot your shot with someone on campus—this one’s for you.Why “don’t d...

Duration: 00:50:37
what time is are you read to commit Episode #231
Aug 04, 2025

A grounded, direct talk for men on how to know you're truly ready for a serious relationship—and the traits in a woman worth betting your long-term happiness on. No fluff. Just real talk
relationship readiness · when to commit · choosing a life partner · healthy relationship · marriage advice for menI

Duration: 00:43:13
Episode 230: You're Probably Right – What If That Is Love?
Jul 30, 2025


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Duration: 00:40:50
What Silence Said You're Probably Right – Episode 229
Jul 23, 2025

Ever wanted to say something to the one who let you bend until you broke? In this episode of You're Probably Right, MCM delivers the words many never get to say out loud. It’s not a rant. It’s not revenge. It’s clarity. This is a message to the emotionally distant, the ones who took and disappeared, thinking the door would always stay open.Through sharp truths and raw reflection, this episode explores the aftermath of one-sided love, the power of silence, and what happens when you finally stop explaining yourself.Keywords: emotional detachment, ghosting, self-worth, one-sided relationships, emotio...

Duration: 01:01:37
The CASA Framework™ — A New Way to Understand Personality, Attachment, and Emotional Compatibility Episode #227
Jul 22, 2025

This episode marks the official introduction of the CASA Framework™, a 4-part personality model created and coined by MCM, host of the You're Probably Right podcast.CASA stands for:Cognitive – how you think (verbal, visual, kinesthetic)Attachment – how you bond (secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganized)Social – how you interact (introvert or extravert)Agreeableness – how you relate (empathetic or assertive)This framework unlocks 48 possible personality types and provides a deeper understanding of how we love, clash, communicate, and connect.In this Season 9 opener, MCM walks listeners through:The psychological history behind CASAHow it compares to MBTI, Enneagram, and the Big FiveReal-life examples across dat...

Duration: 00:27:48
Top 10 Signs He’s Quietly Leaving You #226
Jul 22, 2025

Top 10 Signs He’s Quietly Leaving You
(1060 by You’re Probably Right)Spotify Description:
He’s not mad. He’s not cheating.
But he’s slipping away — and you can feel it.
Some men don’t storm out — they disappear one habit at a time.
Here are ten signs he’s quietly leaving, and you’re not crazy for noticing.
This is Ten Sixty — by You’re Probably Right with your host and friend, MCM.
Full-length podcast episodes available now on Spotify and Apple.#WomensIntuition #LoveGoneCold #ToxicLove #DatingTruths #EmotionalDistance #QuietBreakups #YoureProbablyRight #1060byYPR

Duration: 00:01:32
Top 10 Signs She’s About to Leave You #225
Jul 22, 2025


(1060 by You’re Probably Right)Spotify Description:
She’s still there — but not really.
She’s smiling — but it’s not the same.
If you’ve been wondering whether your girl is halfway out the door, here are ten signs you’re not imagining it.
This is Ten Sixty — by You’re Probably Right with your host and friend, MCM.
Hit follow to catch more raw truths in sixty seconds.
📲 Full episodes available on Spotify and Apple.#Relationships #Breakups #DatingAdvice #ModernLove #RedFlags #MensMentalHealth #YoureProbablyRight #1060byYPR

Duration: 00:01:43
Episode 224: 30 Brutally Honest Questions Men Rarely Answer
Jul 21, 2025

Episode 224: “30 Brutally Honest Questions Men Rarely Answer”Ever wondered what men really think—but rarely say out loud? In this bold, revealing episode, MCM dives into 30 raw and uncomfortable questions men usually avoid answering—because the truth isn’t always flattering, and women won’t always like the answers. This episode is not about excuses. It’s about truth.From emotional detachment to loyalty tests, emotional shutdowns, unspoken regrets, and silent exits—this is the male mind, unfiltered. Whether you’re in a relationship, recovering from one, or trying to understand men better, this one’s for you.🎧 Listen if you’ve ever asked:“Why...

Duration: 00:51:58
Episode 223: Discarded – The Emotional Cost of Being Thrown Away
Jul 18, 2025

Title: Discarded: The Emotional Cost of Being Thrown Away
Description:
In Episode 223 of You're Probably Right, MCM takes an unfiltered look at what it means to be emotionally discarded in a relationship. This isn't about dramatic breakups—it’s about the quiet, painful fade-outs. It’s when a partner keeps you around physically but emotionally leaves the room.This episode breaks down the psychological toll of being thrown away, how it manifests in everyday behaviour, and why so many men stay silent through it all. From being used as a placeholder to dealing with gaslighting and emotional distance, we unc...

Duration: 00:49:29
Episode 222: What Men Really Want (But Rarely Say Out Loud)
Jul 17, 2025

🎧 Episode 222: What Men Really Want (But Rarely Say Out Loud)
Podcast: You’re Probably Right with MCMIn this honest and grounded episode, MCM pulls back the curtain on what everyday men actually want, need, and value—but rarely say out loud. Forget the clichés and alpha-male stereotypes. This is about the quiet men, the consistent men, the men who don’t perform for social media but hold it down in real life.From emotional pressure and relationship misunderstandings to outside interference from so-called “guy friends,” this episode gets to the core of how men experience love, loyalty, and modern partner...

Duration: 00:49:01
Inside the Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic: Real-Life Answers to Questions You Didn't Know to Ask Episode #221 (Part 3)
Jul 16, 2025

In this raw and revealing episode of You're Probably Right with MCM, we go way beyond the usual therapy talk and take you deep into the real-life experience of living with anxious attachment—and navigating relationships with avoidant or dismissive partners. If you've ever felt like you're holding the relationship together on your own, overthinking every message, or chasing someone who keeps pulling away... this episode is for you.MCM doesn't just repeat the textbook definitions. He answers the real questions no one else is asking, drawn from personal highs, lows, patterns, and breakthroughs. This isn’t recycled psychology—this is fir...

Duration: 00:34:51
Inside the Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic: Real-Life Answers to Questions You Didn't Know to Ask Episode #221 (Part 2)
Jul 16, 2025

In this raw and revealing episode of You're Probably Right with MCM, we go way beyond the usual therapy talk and take you deep into the real-life experience of living with anxious attachment—and navigating relationships with avoidant or dismissive partners. If you've ever felt like you're holding the relationship together on your own, overthinking every message, or chasing someone who keeps pulling away... this episode is for you.MCM doesn't just repeat the textbook definitions. He answers the real questions no one else is asking, drawn from personal highs, lows, patterns, and breakthroughs. This isn’t recycled psychology—this is fir...

Duration: 00:53:22
Inside the Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic: Real-Life Answers to Questions You Didn't Know to Ask Episode #221 (Part 1)
Jul 16, 2025

In this raw and revealing episode of You're Probably Right with MCM, we go way beyond the usual therapy talk and take you deep into the real-life experience of living with anxious attachment—and navigating relationships with avoidant or dismissive partners. If you've ever felt like you're holding the relationship together on your own, overthinking every message, or chasing someone who keeps pulling away... this episode is for you.MCM doesn't just repeat the textbook definitions. He answers the real questions no one else is asking, drawn from personal highs, lows, patterns, and breakthroughs. This isn’t recycled psychology—this is fir...

Duration: 00:42:41
Episode 220: Athletic & Academic Steroids – How the System Is Leaving Raw Talent Behind
Jul 16, 2025

Is the playing field really level anymore? In this episode, we expose how tutoring programs like Kumon and elite sports systems like AAU and Mamba Academy are giving kids an artificial edge—pushing raw talent from underprivileged communities to the sidelines. From elementary school to post-secondary, we explore how academic and athletic “enhancements” are quietly widening the gap, favouring those with access while dismissing those who rely solely on public systems.🎧 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/ypr_podcast
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🌐 Blog + More: https://www.yprpodcast.com

Duration: 00:53:02
Knowing Your Value: Stop Settling for Less in Work, Love, and Life #218
Jul 14, 2025

Are you being undervalued at work, in your relationship, or by the people closest to you? In Episode 218 of You're Probably Right, MCM unpacks how self-worth shapes everything from your job to your love life. This hard-hitting episode explores key warning signs that you're settling for less than you deserve, how to recognize when you're being taken for granted, and why comparison isn’t always a bad thing when it reveals what you’ve truly earned.Using real-life experiences and grounded perspective, MCM walks listeners through how to assess their value, stop tolerating disrespect, and move forward with clarity and conf...

Duration: 00:56:26
Episode 217: When Talent Isn’t Enough: The Hidden Advantage in Education| You're Probably Right
Jul 11, 2025

Keywords: academic inequality, shadow education, tutoring gap, private coaching, educational access, gifted vs trained, extracurricular advantage, student performance, education equity, public school systemIn this episode, MCM explores the unseen divide growing inside our schools—where natural talent is being quietly outpaced by access to private coaching, tutoring, and elite extracurriculars. Why do some students excel while others—just as smart—fall behind? It's not about effort or intelligence. It's about exposure.Drawing on over a decade of experience working with youth in education, MCM breaks down the impact of shadow education, the role of wealth in perceived achievement, and how privat...

Duration: 00:37:24
Breaking the Anxious-Avoidant Loop: Your Essential How To Guide to Emotional Freedom
Jul 10, 2025

In episode 216 of 'You're Probably Right,' dive deep into the Anxious–Avoidant relationship pattern. This practical and emotionally intelligent guide provides clear steps for both anxious and avoidant individuals to recognize, navigate, and ultimately break free from toxic relational loops. Learn how to detach gracefully without bitterness or desperation, set healthy boundaries, and regain your emotional balance. Plus, discover insightful ways to redirect attachment energy into fulfilling areas of your life.Avoidant behaviour often shows up as pulling away when things feel too close, emotionally distancing, or avoiding vulnerability out of fear of being overwhelmed. Anxious behaviour looks like ov...

Duration: 00:40:24
Why You Stay in the Wrong Relationship (And Keep a Job You Hate)
Jul 01, 2025

In this straight-up, no-frills episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM takes a hard look at why so many people stay stuck—in the wrong relationships and in jobs that slowly wear them down.Are you with someone out of love or out of fear? Is that job really “secure” or just slowly killing your drive?Whether you're single, married, divorced, or just showing up to work to collect a cheque, this episode will make you question your patterns, your choices, and the lies you’ve been telling yourself to stay comfortable.MCM breaks down:Why we stay in relationships that don’t...

Duration: 00:56:03
Episode 214 – Three Months of Connection and Distance: Navigating a Push-Pull Relationship
May 23, 2025

In this deeply reflective episode, I explore the emotional journey of a three-month relationship marked by intense connection, growing intimacy, and the heartbreak of avoidant behavior. Through the eyes of a secure man falling for an avoidant woman, this story traces the highs of mutual attraction, the confusion of emotional distancing, and the pain of repeated cycles of closeness followed by withdrawal.Whether you've been the one who gave your all or the one who pulled away, this episode shines a light on attachment styles, emotional pacing, and how real love sometimes hurts in silence. I also offer insights for...

Duration: 00:52:22
The problem of being a Diamond - Bonus ft MCM -Nothing rough about this Diamond
May 17, 2025

Nothing rough about this Diamond 
This episode is a spoken-word monologue called Nothing Rough About This Diamond. It's about unseen worth, quiet brilliance, and the tragedy of not recognizing your own value. If you've ever doubted your light—or watched someone powerful forget who they are—this one is for you. A poetic reflection on self-worth, perception, and silent strength.Keywords: self-worth, hidden brilliance, poetic monologue, personal growth, emotional intelligence, confidence, identity, silent strength, empowering reflection, self-esteem

Duration: 00:05:22
Episode 212 – Running From the Warmth: Understanding the Inner World of Avoidant Attachment
May 03, 2025

Why do some people pull away just when love starts to feel real?In this deep and reflective episode, MCM explores the hidden emotional world of those with avoidant attachment styles—the ones who crave connection but run from it the moment things get serious. Through 11 revealing insights, you'll hear why love often triggers withdrawal, how emotional closeness can feel unsafe, and why avoidants might test, push, or even sabotage the very connection they long for.This episode is for anyone trying to understand confusing relationship patterns, heal from emotional distance, or learn how to set boundaries with someone who se...

Duration: 00:42:17
Episode 211: Knowing Your Worth in LoveLife, and Career Part 1
Apr 27, 2025

Over the next few segments, we’ll explore how knowing your worth plays out in different areas of life and why it matters universally. We’ll start with love and relationships – recognizing when you might be settling for less than you deserve and how to set healthy boundaries. Then we’ll move into personal growth, looking at how self-worth affects your mental health, goal-setting, and resilience after failure. After that, we’ll talk career and ambitions – advocating for yourself at work, recognizing your talents, and avoiding toxic environments that drag you down. We’ll also highlight some clear signs that you truly know...

Duration: 00:33:22
Episode 210: How a Bad Relationship Can Change Your Life – For Better or Worse
Mar 15, 2025

🔥 The Aftermath of Love – A Five-Part Reflection🎙 "Now that we’ve looked at the damage and the growth, let’s break down the emotional journey that comes after."🎤 1️⃣ The Wreckage – When You Finally See the Damage
🎤 2️⃣ The Crash – Reality Hits Hard
🎤 3️⃣ The Awakening – The First Glimpse of Freedom
🎤 4️⃣ The Lesson – What You Take With You
🎤 5️⃣ The Rebirth – You’re Not Just Moving On, You’re Moving Forward🎙 "By the time you reach the other side, you’ll realize something: That version of you—the one who settled, the one who doubted, the one who accepted less than they deserved—is gone. And what comes next? That’s entirely up...

Duration: 00:55:36
Podcast Episode 209: Are You an Option or a Priority? The Signs You Can’t Ignore
Mar 14, 2025

Are you a real priority in your partner’s life—or just an option they keep on standby? In this episode, we break down 10 clear signs that reveal whether someone truly values you or is just keeping you around for convenience. From inconsistent communication to avoiding commitment, flirting with others, and putting in minimal effort, these red flags are easy to spot once you know what to look for.If you’ve ever questioned where you stand in someone’s life, this episode is for you. You deserve a relationship where your presence is cherished, not one where you’re an afterth...

Duration: 00:36:42
Episode 207: Wifey Material – The 15 Things That Make a Man Stay
Mar 06, 2025

What do men really look for in a woman? It’s not just about looks. In this episode, I break down the key traits that make a man commit for the long haul—kindness, loyalty, emotional stability, intelligence, supportiveness, and more. If you’ve ever wondered why some women hold a man’s attention for years while others become just a memory, this episode is for you. Tune in to uncover the unspoken truths about attraction, love, and what makes a woman irreplaceable in a man’s life."
What men want in a woman How to be attractive beyond looks Rela...

Duration: 00:51:01
Episode 205 – The Unspoken Game: How Two People Know There’s Something There
Mar 06, 2025

🔥 Ever felt a spark with someone, even when no words were exchanged? In Episode 205 of "You're Probably Right," we’re diving deep into the unspoken game of attraction—how two people can sense something without ever saying it outright.👀 Do they feel it too? We’ll break down:
✔️ The subtle tests people use to gauge interest
✔️ How casual interactions turn into something meaningful
✔️ The blurred line between playful flirting and real chemistry
✔️ How to read body language, social cues, and timingIf you've ever caught someone's eye and just knew there was something there—or if you're questioning whether it’s all i...

Duration: 01:20:00