The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast
By: Love Atiya
Language: en-us
Categories: Education, Self Improvement, Health, Fitness, Sexuality, Society, Culture
Welcome to The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast ✨ Formally known as The Love Atiya Experience ✨ where we talk about all things healing, feeling, softening, and coming home to yourself.Think of this as a safe space for us to unlearn much of what society has taught us about sex, sensuality, intimacy & pleasure & discover exactly who we were born to be.Hosted by the ever-curious, honey-voiced, wild and slightly outrageous Love Atiya, this isn’t your average sexual wellness show. Nope. Here, we dive deep into the juicy realms of self love, sensual healing, self care, feminine power, nervous system healing, and overall...
Episodes
76. Solo Date Ideas & After Care Tips For Sexting
Jan 09, 2026Send us a text
TRIGGER WARNING
Hey beautiful souls, this episode of The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast includes discussion and mention of sexual assault.
These conversations may be activating or emotionally challenging for some listeners.
Please listen with care, honor your boundaries, and pause or step away at any time if needed.
i love you.
In this episode we talk all about:
Stories of Me and my 1st lesbian lover’s second go round & the...
Duration: 01:10:2375. Should We Stop Trying To Connect With Men?
Jan 02, 2026Send us a text
Heyyyyy beautiful souls! So happy to have you here.
This episode is all about:
Me flying in fake first class on JetBlue
My failed attempts trying to connect with men
How New York tried to steal my soul
I just don’t have it to give to the men in my life anymore (a tough pill to swallow)
Being naturally enthusiastic (perfect for energy vampires)
Men are who they are (and they’re ok with...
Duration: 00:34:4874. We Are Not Normal Human Beings | Turning 31 and Giving Less Fucks
Dec 26, 2025Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls!
Welcome to yet another dope ass episode where I talk all about:
Not being a normal human Faux healers & energy leeches Having friends I’m excited to listen toCharging money to people I’m not excited to listen to My thoughts on reciprocity Listening to my friends talk about men & the dumb sh*t they do Turning 31 and giving less fucks Calling out abusive sh*t (to your friend who’s in a relationship with a horrid man)Why do I keep giving strangers my time (no mor... Duration: 00:33:0273. Confession: My Desires For Platonic Intimacy & A Companion?
Dec 19, 2025Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls!
In today's episode I'm talking all about:
Platonic intimacy What if relationships aren’t all bad?Why I don’t need a roster (& taking the pressure off my roster search) Removing the moochers from my life before I could elevate and ascend& SO MUCH MORE
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Duration: 00:43:5614. I Don't Have To Prove My Depression To You & Quitting Only Fans
Dec 10, 2025Send us a text
WARNING: if you are struggling with suicidal ideation the end of this episode may help you or trigger you. The first part of the episode is all about how I am no longer trying to PROVE my depression to the people in my life and tools I’m using to heal my mental health. We’ll practice breathwork before touching on these deep topics & I’ll share some tools that are helping me grow through my journey with my mental health. Listen at your own digression or feel free to come back when y...
Duration: 01:42:4172. Misogyny in Queer Spaces & My Lesbian Updates
Dec 05, 2025Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls!
Todays episode is all about:
Love island games
Men being unintentionally queer
How my ancestors have my back
Lesbianism vs queerness
My strange ass old friend
Having energy that can’t be penetrated
Are there other energies other than masculine and feminine?
Why bi men are looked at as gay and bi women are looked at as straight (hint: it’s misogyny)
The power of l...
Duration: 01:02:4071. PATREON: He Said He Couldn’t Cuddle… Platonic Intimacy & Finding My People
Nov 21, 2025Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls!
I’m so excited for this wonderful Patreon episode that’s all about platonic intimacy! I was going to post it exclusively for my Patreons but I decided to post this as a preview into the type of bonus content you can enjoy on my Patreon! ❤️
In today’s episode I talk all about:
Platonic touch & intimacy
My amazing ass first Reiki session
How it feels like everytime I go outside I’m energe...
Duration: 01:02:53PATREON BONUS: Everything You Want Is On The Other Side Of Fear
Nov 12, 2025Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls!
Today's episode is all about:
Loving every version of myselfMeeting every version of myself and falling in love again and againHaving regrets everytime I go outside Protecting myself from passport brosPracticing no longer caring about what people think How you can’t fail a test if you’re trying your best Peeping patterns of fear How I got a text from an old flame a few weeks agoEnergetic check ins& MORE!
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Duration: 00:26:0270. Creating A Pleasure Plan | Finding Pleasure During Grief
Nov 07, 2025Send us a text
Was everyone in my life using me? LOL
Hey beautiful souls! In today’s episode we talk all about:
Asking for help & grief in your 30’s
Letting go of all the people who aren’t truly aligned (and possibly never were)
Grieving who I used to be and the life I THOUGHT I used to have
Friend Pushers
Energetic cut offs & navigating the world
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Duration: 00:48:0369. Decolonizing Pleasure Pt 2 | Gender & Sexuality Pre-Colonization
Oct 24, 2025Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls,
HAPPY EPISODE 69!
For Episode 69 I wanted to do something HUGE and this episode is probably THE most informative one yet.
We’re talking about:
Gender and sexuality before colonization
How a spanish colonizer strapped a non binary person to a cannon in brazil because they thought they were dominic
How the christian missionaries went into Amazonia and raided their communities teaching them about the “horrors” of same sex marriage
How the language is being...
Duration: 01:27:2268. The Power Of The Indigenous People | Decolonizing Pleasure
Sep 29, 2025Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls,
In today’s episode I talk all about how the white man literally tried to wipe indigenous people off of the earth and dive deep into some research about the world of pleasure before our bodies were colonized.
Enjoy!
First Article: https://www.ualberta.ca/en/folio/2016/02/indigenous-erotica-gives-new-meaning-to-all-my-relations.html
Second Article: https://www.fairobserver.com/region/north_america/for-native-americans-sex-didnt-come-with-guilt-21347/
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Duration: 01:16:17BONUS EPISODE: I Made An Oppsie
Sep 12, 2025Send us a text
If you were one of the 50 people with very fast hands who were able to catch my last accidental upload. Please go back and re-listen because I've officially uploaded the REAL and ACTUAL episode that was supposed to go out last week LMAO
& it has some great info on dual stimulation.
Ok love you byeeeee
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Su...
Duration: 00:02:1667. Dual Stimulation, Energy Maintenance & Mind Blowing Orgasms
Sep 12, 2025Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls!
In today’s amazing episode we talk all about:
The Ethereal Pleasure Camp (an adult summer camp)
Dual Stimulation
My latest experience with penetrating myself (hint: it was a success!)
Explaining why it’s SO IMPORTANT for us to show up exactly as we are
Tryna figure out how much energy to give people
Why I’m making a burn book for the people in my life
Want to join my pleasure...
Duration: 00:49:1066. How To Pleasure Yourself To Your Higher Self | My Penetration Experiment
Aug 26, 2025Send us a text
How To Self Pleasure To Your Higher Self & My Penetration Experiment
IT’S MY MF BIRTHDAAAAAAAAY!!!!!!!
In today’s episode we talk about:
Me & my amazing therapy session
How penetration has been a pain (literally and figuratively)
How living honestly & in solitude triggers others (f*ck them)
How I think I wanna start a podcast book club (maybe)
How people pleasing is lowkey a mix of us trying to avoid making ourselves & others feel uncomfortable
Doin...
Duration: 01:00:27The Root Cause To The Negative Voices In My Head
Aug 15, 2025Send us a text
Get those mf OUTTA HERE!
Who is it? Cause it's not you.
We weren't born hating ourselves, unless that's the energy that was pumped into from the womb and even then, there's hope for you to free yourself but first we have to figure out who's voice we are hearing.
Most things people say about you are a reflection of their projection... move accordingly
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Duration: 00:22:3665. The History & Hidden Truth Behind Porn (Are We Addicted Or Nah?)
Aug 08, 2025Send us a text
Trigger Warning: Mentions Of S*xual Assualt
Hey beautiful babes and babettes! I’m so excited for this episode featuring one of my favorite topics! The history of s*x!
This episode is all about:
Trying not to “be” what people want us to be
Missing intimacy (per usual)
Going off about Jesus
What even is the Middle East? And how are you middle eastern if you’re Egyptian? Are you not AFRICAN?!
+ Learning all about the history of porn & how...
Duration: 01:07:05What If Everything Wasn't a Punishment
Aug 01, 2025Send us a text
Anyone else getting sick of all the "lessons" and "tests" that are showing up in our lives especially once we announce we're dedicated to growing?
Well maybe it's time for a mental reshift...
What if these weren't lessons and instead they were practices.
Let's talk about it!
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Duration: 00:15:42The Root Cause To The Voices In My Head
Jul 25, 2025Send us a text
On today's series of voicenotes we're at the beach & we're bringing some healing & compassion to the mean voices in our heads
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Duration: 00:22:3664. Matriarchal Animals & How I Dating The Wrong Friend
Jul 18, 2025Send us a text
Heyyyy beautiful souls!
Welcome to yet another episode of The Love Atiya Experience. In today’s episode we’ll talk all about:
You Are Perfect, Just As You Are | No Lessons Just Practice
Jul 11, 2025Send us a text
The world may not be punishing us ya'll...
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Duration: 00:15:4263. My Social Experiment | Meeting Partner(s) Who Actually Care About Pleasure
Jul 04, 2025Send us a text
I knew things had to change when I was trying to talk to a guy about a sex dream I had about him and all he focused on was HIS pleasure....
Let's talk about it!
Here's The Application To Bring Pleasure Into My Life: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf5ONie6F277EUWPKkrYZ_LNxG5ZAPIr7ji8VGqPsmP-ay8cA/viewform?usp=header
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Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Duration: 00:54:29
The People Pleaser’s Guide to Losing Yourself (and How I’m Finding Me Again)
Jun 27, 2025Send us a text
“Excuse Me, Am I in Your Way — in Life?” - me LMAO
Okay but…seriously. Why am I saying “sorry” to the chair I just bumped into? Why am I overthinking that text I sent 3 hours ago? Why am I mentally writing 12 versions of a message just to make sure no one’s offended by my breathing pattern??
In this episode of Becoming Wild, I’m diving headfirst (with grace) into the beautiful, burdensome art of being too considerate.
I’m unpacking where it comes from (hi, childhood...
Duration: 00:18:3462. The Arousal Episode Part 2 | Solo Dates & Sexual Temptation
Jun 20, 2025Send us a text
Hey doll face!
Welcome to my world!
In today’s episode we talk all about:
Epiphanies for showing up as my authentic self
Working through my friendship hurt (being open for separate healing)
Talking through my desires
Setting my boundaries for my next sexual encounters
Figuring out my own wants and needs without shame
How to increase your sexual arousal
An academy update & more
ENJOY!
How To Become Yourself | My Sparkly, Slightly Messy New Beginning
Jun 13, 2025Send us a text
Darlings, welcome to the first juicy little bite of my brand-new series, Becoming Wild where I spill the tea, the honey, and maybe a few existential sprinkles about what it really means to unbecome everything you thought you had to be, just to remember who you truly are. (Phew. Yes, that was a sentence. Yes, it’s a journey.)
In this kickoff episode, I’m pulling back the glittery curtain and sharing some real talk: the growing pains, the cosmic giggles, the ego meltdowns, and the tender moments of comi...
Duration: 00:15:06PATREON BONUS: Reconnecting With My First Lesbian Lover & My PMDD Diagnosis
Jun 09, 2025Send us a text
I want to live in a world where we aren't ashamed by our self diagnosis and instead are proud to know that we know our bodies well enough to be able to know when somethings wrong and how to heal it.
Not saying I don't think doctors are needed (in some cases) but my goal to learn my own body was absolutely inspired from the hurt and misinformation I've received from "trusted doctors" when trying to find the answers.
ALSO.... my first lesbian lover from back in the day...
Duration: 00:35:2461. How To Feel More Arousal | Math Dyslexia and Pelvic Floor Dysfunction
Jun 06, 2025Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls!
I’m so excited about today’s episode!
First we’ll be catching up on how I recently learned I had Dyscalculia (a form of math dyslexia) and how it’s affected my life.
Then I chat about my quick meet up with a MAN and how I’m navigating my confused horniness.
Lastly, we chat all about why we sometimes find it hard to get aroused and how to fix that.
10 ways to naturally boost your libid...
Duration: 01:18:5560. PROJECT PLEASURE: I Asked 11 People About Their Pleasure & What An Orgasm Feels Like
May 30, 2025Send us a text
In this raw and revealing episode of The Love Atiya Experience, I'm introducing you to something deeply personal, powerful, and necessary.
Introducing: Project Pleasure!
I sat down with 11 brave, brilliant souls and asked them the questions so many of us wonder about but rarely say out loud: What does an orgasm really feel like? Do you orgasm every time you have sex? Do you orgasm every time you have sex?
This episode kicks off a sensual and thought-provoking journey into the intimate world of your f...
Duration: 00:59:0659. How To Have A Self Pleasure Ceremony | The Friend I Wanna F*ck
May 16, 2025Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls,
HAPPPPY MASTURBATION MAY!
Today’s intention is to help you feel a lot less shame about yourself, your body and your pleasure!
I 10/10 recommend listening to this when you’re home LMAO
We’re gonna look and feel on our Polly Pockets while falling in love with ourselves one touch at a time.
Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy
... Duration: 00:58:0058. How To Feel Less Shame About Self Pleasure
May 02, 2025Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls,
HAPPPPY MASTURBATION MAY!
Today’s intention is to help you feel a lot less shame about yourself, your body and your pleasure!
I 10/10 recommend listening to this episode when you’re home because we’re gonna take a look and a feel on our Polly Pockets, while falling in love with ourselves one touch at a time.
Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy
<...
PATREON BONUS: New Voicenote Series | Self Care & Boundaries
Apr 30, 2025Send us a text
Hey babes!
Welcome to my newest series VOICENOTES BY ATITI where I record the random (divine) sht that happens in my life... IN REAL TIME!
0 edits.. all me LMAO
You can hear the rest of the episode here
My Pleasure Shop: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealx
Xoxo
Love Atiya
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Duration: 00:14:5857. Processing Grief & Finding Pleasure Without Sex
Apr 18, 2025Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls!
I know i’ve been MIA on the socials lately but for those of you who don’t know, my cat Tam transcended a few weeks ago and it rocked me to my core.
On the day I decided to record this podcast I was finally having an experience of being in better spirits although, grief comes in heavy heavy waves, when the waves are calm the waters are easier to wade through.
Anywho in this...
Duration: 01:03:33PATREON BONUS: Friends, How Many Of Us Have Them? Not Me Apparently
Apr 07, 2025Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls!
WELCOME TO MY BONUS PATREON EPISODE!
Today's episode is all about friendships and their disappointments.
How I'm cutting everyone off.
Friends being in new relationships.
& setting boundaries in friendships from here on out.
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Duration: 00:33:2356. I Had Sex With a Hotep | PMDD & Being a Highly Sensitive Person
Apr 04, 2025Send us a text
WELCOME TO YET ANOTHER EPISODE BABES!
Today’s episode is all about:
Some people just wanna complain & that’s ok
Setting boundaries in conversations & asking for consent when giving advice
Pmdd & suicidal ideations (wtf)
Why I think everyone a little autistic
Reflections on my sexual experience with a fauxtep
Why you should never tell men that their s*x is healing LMAO
Making decisions in hornienss
How tf do you get back to being...
Duration: 00:57:4155. Nipple Orgasm Tips, Reparenting & Giving Our Parents Grace
Mar 16, 2025Send us a text
Hi my babies!
In today’s episode we talk all about:
Pervy web developers
PTSD and delayed processing
Are we all God or NAH? (Religion vs belief systems)
Reparentification of myself and my parents
Giving your parents grace (Because none of us really know what the fuck we’re doing)
Learning how to experience your parents as parents and not as humans you have to save or sacrifice your well being for (based on assumptions you’ve made...
Duration: 00:58:3454. The Pleasure Guide | How To Get Your Partner To Please You
Mar 01, 2025Send us a text
Hey beautiful beings!
This episode is so near and dear to my heart because it’s all about PLEASURE.
In today’s episode we’ll talk all about:
Pivoting and randomly changing sh*t up
The proper questions to ask your partner about pleasure
My epiphany on why I didn’t (past tense) allow my partners to solely please ME (and the shame behind it)
Answering questions about pleasure (asked on Tiktok)
Men & their pleasure (or lack the...
Duration: 00:56:04PATREON BONUS CONTENT: My New View Of Relationships In 2025
Feb 14, 2025Send us a text
Join me on patreon to listen to the full clip & hear about all of my epiphanies and fun adventures!
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Duration: 00:13:4453. Me & My P*ssy are TIRED | How To Advocate For Your Vulva To Your OBGYN
Feb 01, 2025Send us a text
Happy February beautiful souls!
Today’s episode is all about:
Choosing self over people pleasing Going from the side character to the main character in my own story Dealing with anxiety & burn out How to cope with and recognize medical coercion How my OBGYN prescribed me pain pills for my vulva pain (wtf)How to advocate for yourself to your vulva doctor& MORE
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Duration: 00:51:2152. It Hurts When I C*m
Jan 01, 2025Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls! So the other day I was masturbating and felt a sharp pain while I orgasmed… wtf
Let’s figure this sh*t out!
ARTICLES SITED:
https://www.health.com/mind-body/what-to-do-if-your-orgasms-are-actually-painful
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/15723-vaginismus
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/12325-dyspareunia-painful-intercourse
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Duration: 00:36:5551. My P*ssy Is Grieving With Kiana Founder Of Souley Gazing
Dec 08, 2024Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls,
Issa ‘nother fire episode and this time we’re joined by the wonderful Kiana founder and creator of souley gazing a digital marketing agency for creators of color (or BIPOC)
50. An Episode For Those Who Are Also Disgusted By Men…
Nov 17, 2024Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls!
In today’s episode we talk about my disdain for men…. That’s it, that’s all
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Duration: 01:09:4149. Bye Bye Hinge, Hello Streets + Autism & Emetophobia Update
Nov 01, 2024Send us a text
HAPPY SEASON 3 MY LOVES!
I am soooooo proud of us, most podcasts don’t last past episode 7 so reaching season 3 is a huge accomplishment and I am so grateful for all of your support!
Today's episode is all about:
My one week on hinge
How I’m navigating my neurodivergence
My disgust with men
Discovering I’m insane
Taking things literally because of my autism but also like… isn’t that norma...
Duration: 01:13:2248. An Orgasm For Your Ears Feat Cornelia From Xounds
Oct 06, 2024Send us a text
Heyyyyy beautiful souls,
If you wanna feel like you’re listening in on two besties chatting then you’ve come to the right place.
In this episode we are featuring the wonderful Cornelia, Co-founder of Xounds, an audio erotica hub focused on consent and pleasure!
In today’s episode we’re gonna talk about:
Our kinkiest fantasies
The pros of audio erotica
Why consent is one of Xounds main focuses
What an “audiofile” is and did we make that up?
Se...
Duration: 01:16:5547. Why I Hate You Hetero Hoes
Sep 22, 2024Send us a text
"I don't give a f*ck if he's a millionaire...he's still a man" - Love Atiya 9/15/2024
In todays episode we talk about:
Why I hate (jk) you hetero hoes
How it's hard hearing stories about men
How unimpressed by men I am
"Friends" & a lack of accountability
How I miss cuddling
My sexuality (am I gay or nah?)
Being Angry at men
& MORE
BONUS CONTENT: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience
S...
Duration: 00:22:07BONUS CONTENT: Creating Safe Spaces For Our Trans Friends With HIGOTECHS
Sep 10, 2024Send us a text
Hey Lovers!
Although this part didn't make the official episode I felt it was SO important and love filled and informative that I HAD to include it in our bonus content for the month.
To Watch The Full Video You Can Head On Over To My Patreon or CLICK HERE
Aurelien’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/honore.97?igsh=Z3hqYTFjOXhvdXhj
Aurelien’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aurelien-honore?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_conte...
Duration: 00:16:4346. Trans Rights, ADHD & Spitting In Mouths with Aurelien & Jess
Sep 09, 2024Send us a text
Hello loveeeee bugs!
In today’s episode we are featuring the amazing Aurelien (Founder of HIGOtech) & Jess calling all the way in from FRANCE!
We’ll be touching on a wholeeee bunch of topics such as:
45. Sex After 2 Years Of Celibacy & Sex Tips For Survivors
Sep 01, 2024Send us a text
It’ssssss my mf birthdayyyy!
Happy happy August 26th my loves!
In today’s MUCH ANTICIPATED episode we talk all about my experience having sex for the first time since reaching two years mark of celibacy.
I’ll share some insight into ways I re-entered the world of sex after healing and recovering from multiple sexual violations within the last two years & conclude the video with some tips that will help me have even more healing sexual experi...
Duration: 01:44:2944. Is This My Voice Or My Ex’s | Healing From Negative Thoughts / Negative Self Talk
Aug 22, 2024Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls!
In todays episode we’re gonna talk all about:
My new sex toy shop!Life as a self diagnosed neurodivergent person My ass… literally The fact that I had sex! Navigating negative self talk Overthinking & OCDLearning to clap for my own damn self How my ex almost fully fcked up my life but unintentionally led me to meeting my higher self How I advocated for myself at the doctor My pol... Duration: 01:14:4243. Planning Your Sex Featuring Crystal Creator Of The Sex Planner
Jul 28, 2024Send us a text
Hello beautiful souls!
I am sooooo excited to share with you the absolutely astounding star of a human Crystal A-Ego creator of The Sex Planner!
In today’s episode we talk all about:
- Sex Holidays
- Planning sex & why it’s an important practice in every relationship
- Electromagnetic Play & The Men Of Onyx
- Finding balance as a parent
- Loving the current you (and letting go of the “you” you used to be)
- How to be a great example...
42. What An Orgasm Feels Like with Polina from Nympho Life
Jul 14, 2024Send us a text
Heyyyy beautiful souls, I am SO HAPPY to be back!
In today’s fabulous episode featuring the very fun. very sexy and absolutely amazing Polina we talk all about:
- Sex outdoors (exhibitionist vs voyerism)
- Polina shows us the coolest sex toy she owns
- How/why vibrators were created (& how doctors used to literally f*nger their clients)
- Leeches & Vulvas
- How Polina discovered her orgasm (after thinking she was literally inorgasmic)
- Strip club dates
- How Polina watched a...
41. Dating With An Open Heart & Falling In Love With Nigel Marcellus Part 2
Jun 03, 2024Send us a text
HEYYYYY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! Welcome to The Love Atiya Experience!
In todays episode we’re diving into part two of catching up with THE Nigel Marcellus and talk about all things LOVE including:
Never being in a relationship & navigating love as an adultHaving healing and supportive friendships Yearning to love in a world where many people are currently protecting their heartsLooking for soulmatesBeing perceived Creating safe spaces for community, friends & loveTeaching yourself how to love... Duration: 01:49:3440. My Mom Brought Me My First Vibrator At 16 | Sex Ed At Home Feat My Mommy
May 25, 2024Send us a text
Ya’ll this is my most cherished episode to DATE. I have wonder woman as a guest. A literal personification of love. The mother to all. The muva to me and the grandmuva to my cat.
This is a one of a kind experience, featuring sacred conversations that many don’t get to witness, I hope you enjoy as much as I did.
It’s so long overdue. Introducing…. My mommy, Mother Earth!
In this episode we talk all about:
Unschooling me (vs homescho... Duration: 01:26:4239. Becoming Besties With My Vagina | More Tips For Vulva Health
Apr 28, 2024Send us a text
Hiiiiii love bugs!
Welcome to episode 39! In this episode we’ll be touching on:
How my family forgot about me How we all have a (lack of) capacity & how I’m learning to be there for myselfHow compassion is the thief of joyCraving a family bond Reconnecting with my yoni Going to an OBGYN in Mexico Getting gaslit by a black woman OBGYN How I wanted to literally ☠️ on birth control Birth control & how they used women in Puerto Rico as guinea pigs (and still are…worldwide)How I prevent BV... Duration: 01:25:2838. Things I’m Doing To Connect With My Vagina | Am I Poly & Is There A Straight Agenda?
Apr 09, 2024Send us a text
“I fell in love with him because he was acting like me” - Atiya 4/8/24
Heyyyyy beautiful souls! I am so excited for yet another solo episode! Today were unpacking:
My secret trip to Atlanta
Everything just seems more beautiful
I’m in school (& working on a final presentation)
Opened my heart to dating again
Dating is showing me how much I’ve healed vs how much I have to heal Duration: 01:13:35
37. Doing Porn & Healing From Sexual Trauma With The Gross Demon Alex Monroe Part 2
Apr 05, 2024Send us a text
WELCOMEEEEE LOVE BUGS!
I am so excited for part two of this magical episode with the absolutely wonderful Gross Demon Alex Monroe! This was such a fun episode to shoot & I am forever grateful for ALL that I learned from them.
TW: the topic of childhood sexual trauma & rape are discussed in this episode. If this is a triggering topic for you please use your own discretion with no judgment at all when choosing to tune in & many thank you’s to The Gross Demon Alex Monroe for th...
36. Cuckholding & Learning How To Squirt With My Favorite Sex Toys
Mar 10, 2024Send us a text
I AM SO EXCITED FOR TO BE BACK WITH A SOLO EPISODEEEEE!
How I've missed you so. Haven’t these guests been amazing?! I am so grateful but I had to take a moment to give y'all all kinds of updates about what’s been going on in my sex positive world.
In this episode we talk all about:
35. F*cking Your Fears & Setting Sacred Sexual Boundaries with Bailey
Feb 28, 2024“You are not responsible for the decisions of a rapist” - Bailey
HEYYY LOVE BUGS! I have been so excited to premiere this episode ever since our interview ended!!!! In this amazing episode with the wonderful Bailey (aka Baay free) we talk all about:
Dating while healing from trauma.Setting boundaries when dating.Learning how to self pleasure.Reconnecting with your body after experiencing trauma.Asking for EXACTLY what you want when dating.Doing what we can to NOT get pregnant.34. Sober Sex & Healthy Dating Tips With Nadine From The Sober Butterfly Podcast
Feb 11, 2024Send us a text
Heyyyy beautiful souls!
Happy LOVE MONTH (although every month is the month of Love in my life)
We’re back with yet another AMAZING guest and in today's episode we have the illustrious Nadine, host of The Sober Butterly Podcast.
In this episode we talk about EVERYTHING including:
33. Dating With An Open Heart & Falling In Love With Nigel Marcellus
Jan 28, 2024Send us a text
HEYYYYY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! Welcome to The Love Atiya Experience!
In todays episode we’re catching up with THE Nigel Marcellus and talk about all things LOVE including:
32. Doing Porn & Healing From Sexual Trauma With The Gross Demon Alex Monroe Part 1
Jan 18, 2024Send us a text
WELCOMEEEEE LOVE BUGS!
I am so excited for this magical episode with the absolutely wonderful Gross Demon Alex Monroe! This was such a fun episode to shoot & I am forever grateful for ALL that I learned from them.
TW: the topic of childhood sexual trauma & rape are discussed in this episode. If this is a triggering topic for you please use your own discretion with no judgment at all when choosing to tune in & many thank you’s to The Gross Demon Alex Monroe for their transparency & vulnerability ❤️
31. Are You Beyonce?! | Navigating Unhealthy Relationships & Adult Friendships
Jan 01, 2024Send us a text
HAPPY NEW YEAR MY BABIES!
Wow I am so happy to end the year with you on this podcast & enter into an even more beautiful season in 2024!
In this episode we talk about:
How to navigate adult friendships & evolving communication styles
The cringe texts I sent to my ex & old fwb’s
An update about my dating life
More on reactive abuse (keke palmer)
And navigating an abusive rel...
Duration: 01:26:56To My Love Bugs: More Bonus Content, Diary Entires & More
Dec 25, 2023Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls!
Join me on PATREON and become a member of THE LOVE CLUB!
On Patreon you can have access to:
Diary Entries
Love Notes
A Safe Space To Ask Advice
Piping Hot TEA!
The Opportunity To Meet A Community Of Beautiful People
& More
JOIN THE LOVE CLUB: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience
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Duration: 00:01:4830: I’m Horny But I’m Not | Anal Tips With Atiti | Tips For "Hypersexuality"
Dec 17, 2023Send us a text
Happpppppy almost new years beautiful souls!
In today’s episode we talk all about:
Tips for anal play
How to make anal feel more pleasurable
HELP for people who may not be able to control sexual impulses/hypersexual activity
Tips for Surviving SAD this winter (seasonal affective depression)
People invalidating my self diagnosis (and how they can kiss my ass)
Dolphins an...
Duration: 01:28:4829. If Your Boo Doesn’t Turn Your Body On | What Is Reactive Abuse | Celibacy Tips
Dec 03, 2023Send us a text
HIIIII MY LOVES! Welcome to episode 29 of THE LOVE ATIYA EXPERIENCE!
This episode we talk about:
An update for Project Pleasure!
How my first time attending a sexual assault support group was amazing.
How “tapping” helps me when I’m triggered.
What is REACTIVE ABUSE and how did learning about this contribute to my healing!
Article: https://www.verywellmind.com/reactive-abuse-signs-impact-and-tips-to-break-the-cycle-7567483
Advice for a Lovebug...
Duration: 01:26:3628. The Time I Had a Condom Stuck Inside Me | Demonic Sperm | FAQ About Sex
Nov 19, 2023Send us a text
Happy November babesssss! This episode is a wild one and we’ll be discussing A LOT including:
Fake brother and sister relationshipsPeriods .. we don’t just bleed, our uterus basically falls out (the lining)Shoutout to my uterus My toxic ex Demonic spermThe time I got a condom stuck inside of me9 most frequently asked questions about sex6 Emails from a stalker? Lesbian virginity vs hetero virginity Is drake racist... Duration: 01:26:0427. Vomit Phobias & Hot Semen | 70 Sex Questions For Your Lover (Or Yourself)
Nov 06, 2023Send us a text
Welcome to episode 27 of the podcast, I’m so excited. In todays episode we talk all about:
My phobias and fears (vomit, caterpillars and ketchup)
Why is semen so hot?
How to get out of your head during sex
70 sex questions you should ask your partner
We learn some more about non goal oriented touch
My problem with different textures (like semen)
And more!
70 sex questions:https://metro.co.uk/2019/09/21/70-sex-questions-ask-partner-dirty-flirty-10783268/amp/
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Duration: 01:24:2926. He Thought I Was His Twin Flame | Non Goal Oriented Touch Tips For Dissociation & Couples
Oct 22, 2023Send us a text
Hey beautiful souls!
Welcome to episode 26 which just so happens to be my first UNCUT (unedited) episode! In this wild one hour episode we’re gonna talk all about how my soul is horny vs my body & sometimes it’s reverse.
My odd date with a 21 years old
Good morning vs grand rising
Shop from my vegan self care line: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal
Non goal oriented touch...
Duration: 00:58:1825: The Guy That Bit My Cl*t, Spring Break & Sharing Panties
Oct 09, 2023Send us a text
Sucking D*ck In The Bathroom & Spring Break
Although A LOT went down between February - May this was probably one of the best and most fun times of my life.
In this episode you’ll hear all about:
How I met my narcissistic ex: The origin story (everything you would’ve seen in pure the series season 2)The time I was a side chick The most ratchet spring break of my life The guy that bi... Duration: 01:33:3224: What Ever Happened To Pure The Series? The Time I Stole Someones Man By Accident
Sep 27, 2023Send us a text
HEY BEAUTIFUL SOULS!
Today’s episode is all about the webseries I premiered in 2018 about my tragic love life called “Pure The Series”. How I had to fire almost my entire cast and crew of season 1 before reshooting it all.
We’ll also talk all about how I met my ex and became a “man stealer” as well as how I navigated love and friendship upon moving to Atlanta.
CLICK TO WATCH PURE SEASON 1: https://youtu.be/MHQF64LueSA Duration: 01:23:22
23. A Guide To Moving Out Of Amerikkka, Pole Dancing & Fckboy Hinge Dates
Sep 10, 2023Send us a text
HAPPPPY SZNNNN 2 BABEEEESSSS & HAPPY VIRGOOOO SEASONNNN!
I am so grateful for you all and have been planning this episode for a while! I hope you love it as much as I love you.
This episode is gonna be all about when, why and how I moved to Mexico & I’ll be answering some questions that were sent to me
How Secret Garden Pole changed my life & relationship with sensuality
POLE & SENSUAL DANCE CLASS SIGN UP: https://www...
Duration: 01:29:2122. Losing My Virginity, Handjobs in Jamaica & Dating While Living Abroad
Aug 30, 2023Send us a text
It’s my mf birthday!
Happy Virgo season babesssss!
In this episode we’re gonna do a deep dive and talk about:
Jamaican hand jobs, my first kiss & sharing my virginity.
No longer needing birthday validation!
Living fearlessly & knowing I’m protected.
Panic attack vs anxiety attacks.
My dream of delusion.
Why I was gatekeeping my experience living abroad.
...
Duration: 01:28:5821. How I Almost Ended My Celibacy & Possibly Broke My P*ssy AGAIN
Aug 16, 2023Send us a text
In todays episode we’re gonna talk about:
How I’m full of shit (sliding in DM’s shooting my shot not my friendship shot)
Navigating feeling alone
How I thought I broke my p*ssy.
My August detox:
No social media
No men
No porn
Eat fruit every day
I cut my hair!
The...
Duration: 01:47:2920. My New Sex Rules | Not Me Having Abandonment Issues | Why Do We Dissociate During Sex?
Jul 30, 2023Send us a text
WE MADE IT TO EPISODE 20 YALL! Wait until you see what’s planned for the season finale!
Until then let’s catch up!
Let’s act like you’re my therapist. In this episode we’re gonna do a weekend update and talk about how I survived a 4 day weekend!
-clarify those weren’t my panties in my hand in the cab
-after hours club
-basketball game
-manifesting things in my lif...
Duration: 01:11:1419. Boy Did I Have A Time Last Night | Living Abroad | Sex & Dissociation
Jul 17, 2023Send us a text
BOY DID I HAVE A TIME LAST NIGHT!
In today’s episode we talk about:
How I’m mad thick
Keke Palmer & her “man”
Dating insecure men (DDG & Halle)
The abduction of Carlee Russell
Suki and the sexual assault (being sex positive and still having the rights of consent)
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18. Sex With Two Guys In One Week | Why My Hoe Phase Was Toxic AF
Jul 02, 2023Send us a text
This storytime brought back major flashbacks (some bad but mostly good) I’m taking applications for anyone who wants to press on my feet’s pressure points!
Don’t judge the audio as I was trying out something new with video and audio and it got complicated but the stories so good you won’t even give a f*ck about the audio. Also if anyone knows how to fix this Lmk and I’ll reupload it!
In this episod...
Duration: 01:33:4717. My F*cked Up Relationship | My Insane Dating App History
Jun 18, 2023Send us a text
Besties, it’s time to talk about my toxic relationship, how I left my narcissistic partner and how to recognize unhealthy patterns in hetero and queer love.
This weeks episode includes:
A chat about that poly couple on Tiktok
The moment I knew it was time for me to leave my abusive relationship (after years of enduring a lot of sh*t)
How to be a supportive friend & not an abuse enabler
Ho...
Duration: 01:43:4816. The Squirting Episode, What Is Squirting and How To Do It
May 29, 2023Send us a text
In This Episode We Touch On Many Many JUICY Topics Such As:
Gentle reminders you need therapy
NEW SEGMENT: “Atiya dates… sike”
Never feeling lonely again
Healing from low self esteem
The time my ex made me dress like a bum
Dating men can be low vibrational
Being lowkey touch deprived
Liking me for me? Or liking me for clout?
P*ssy talk: let’s break some myths surrounding squirting
STAY TUNED TO TH...
Duration: 01:13:0315. Masturbation May Special | Eating Ass & Orgasming In My Sleep
May 14, 2023Send us a text
HAPPY MASTURBATION MAY BABIESSSSS!
In this episode we’re gonna talk about all things MASTERBATION!
We’ll also talk about:
Eating ass
Orgasming in my sleep
The first time I ever experienced “squirting”
Sex toy suggestions & how to experience different kinds of orgasms with each toy
How a brand stole my content and videos for their own finan...
Duration: 01:15:4113. Man Stealers, Toxic Pads & Being a Neurodivergent Hottie
Apr 16, 2023Send us a text
I LOVE THIS EPISODE SO MUCH! As always we transparently talk about all things taboo and bring light to things such as:
Navigating depression after moving
How pads are most literally killing us & healthier alternatives
Friends who like to steal “my men”
Airport trauma
Shaking orgasms & more
Trigger warning: There is a slight mention of DV as I talk about the steps i’m taking to disconnect from my ex...
Duration: 01:30:2112. Vibrating Panties & YT People Being On Punishment
Apr 10, 2023Send us a text
CIAO MY LOVES!
In this weeks episode we do a deep deep dive and have A LOT to catch up on. Let's chat about:
Why white people can’t talk to me for 4-5 weeks
My first experience with vibrating panties (USE CODE: LOVEATIYA for 15% off your vibrating panties! LINK: https://www.shopsedure.com/products/companion-vibe?_pos=1&_sid=b21a4c54c&_ss=r )
Emmett Till and my trip to Mississippi
Updates about moving abroad
Getting tf...
Duration: 01:30:0911. Did You Say Chlamydia? The Time He Took A Crap At My House
Mar 19, 2023Send us a text
Ciao Babes,
I am back from Mexico and have sooooo many updates to share with you all! I have learned A LOT since i’ve been gone so in today’s episode we’re gonna talk all about:
Why your vagina may have bumps (aka glands).
Women’s history facts and how men used to put leeches on women’s vulvas and anus to quell “hysteria”.
The time I fell in love (delusionally...
Duration: 01:30:1910. P*ssy Funk & What Your Vulva Odor Means | Dating App Horror Stories
Mar 04, 2023Send us a text
Heyyy beautiful souls!
GUESS WHO’S IN MEXICO FOR THE WEEK! I’m so excited for this episode and it actually might be one of my favorites.
In today’s episode we talk about:
Leaving my job that was no good for my mental health & taking a leap of faith
Genital smells and what they mean
BV, Yeast Infections & More
We have a blac...
Duration: 01:21:029. Surviving Friendship Trauma, Lesbian Crushes & Moving Out The US
Feb 21, 2023Send us a text
Thriving Beyond Friendship Trauma, Moving Out The US & Lesbian Crushes
Ya’ll tell me why I thought today was sunday LMAO
Anyways happy MONDAY. We are back with another installation of The Love Atiya Experience and this time we’re talking about…
How I’m Considering ASMR
Visitor Anxiety & A Rant About New York
Detoxing from the US
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BONUS: A Self Pleasure Guide For Singles & Couples + 50% OFF SEX TOY COUPON
Feb 07, 2023I wanna say "happy love day" but in my world, every day is love day.
Can we talk about the STRESS that we endure during this time of year trying to make sure we are pleased or pleasing others. It's exhausting but it doesn't have to be.
Valentines day can be a beautiful and non-triggering day if we practice the self love techniques suggested in this mini episode.
If you're in the mood to treat yourself to a new sex toy or want to try a toy for the first time I recommend...
8. I'm Moving Out The Country, Having A Musical Orgasm, Triggers, Black History Sex Facts & Mexico Part 3
Feb 06, 2023Send us a text
CIAO BEAUTIFUL SOULS!
Welcome To Another Episode Of The Love Atiya Experience!
This week's episode is packed with a LIFE CHANGING ANNOUNCEMENT, how I had THE MOST amazing orgasm while listening to music, a conclusion to a very very long storytime and reflections on my amazing experience in Orlando at a podcast conference!
I also introduce my newest segment “Sex Positive Black History Facts” where I talk about everything melanated and libe...
Duration: 01:35:467. Mexico Trip Drama Part 2, People Pleasing, Self Love & Sex Toys
Jan 24, 2023Send us a text
Wooooh chile this story is a DOOZY and is so hard to keep up with but if you’ve made it this far then I am sooooo proud of you.
Besties this story showcases how I was lost and confused and lovestarved all in the same breath, I give myself A LOT of grace lol
It’s almost like a "who done it" kinda story with a plot that keeps getting thicker and thicker. Believe it or not this messy story contributed tremendously to m...
Duration: 01:27:216. The Time I Got The Best Head In Mexico & Spending New Years In DR
Jan 08, 2023Send us a text
I'M BACCCCCCCCK!
Happy 2023 my loves! I just touched down from THE DOMINICAN REPUBLIC and me and my tan are ready to spread some love!
This break was so needed and I couldn't be more excited to serve you all up with brand new stories and crazy life updates.
Today's episode focuses on navigating traveling with friends and lowkey falling in love on vacation.
I speak VERY TRANSPARENTLY about the best oral I ever received while I was vacationing in Mexico and give you all of...
5. Sex With A Married Man From Hinge, Painful Sex & Setting Boundaries
Nov 07, 2022Send us a text
WELCOME TO EPISODE 5! Ohhhhhh my goodness were five episodes in and have billions of episodes to go!
In this episode we’re gonna discuss A LOT… including:
- Seasonal affective depression
- How I turned myself on the other day randomly
- My first pole dancing experience with @lacypoles and I discuss “tapping into my inner sexy”
- Painful...
Duration: 01:06:554. My First Lesbian/Poly Experience & Painful Sex With Men
Oct 12, 2022Send us a text
HELLO BEAUTIFUL SOULS!
Welcome to yet another episode of The Love Atiya Experience!
In this episode we do a deep dive into my very first lesbian “relationship”, exploring the world of polyamory, growing through/surviving drama with my step-family and how my ex thought I was too disgusting to cuddle with.
We also touch a little bit on painful sex but I plan on TRULY diving into that topic for my next...
Duration: 01:14:213. The Time I Thought I Was a Pregnant Virgin | Dissociation During Sex
Oct 09, 2022Send us a text
YES. You read that right. I promise the title will make sense by the end of the episode LOL
I was also so inspired by my most recent viral Tiktok videos about Disassociating during sex I figured why not have a super transparent conversation on the pod and chat about the ways I believe trauma has contributed to me not being able to be in the moment during sex.
In this episode I also touch on the time...
Duration: 01:01:382. The Time I Rode The D and Realized I Was Mentally ill, Growing Through Depression, Shame & Anxiety
Sep 26, 2022Send us a text
Welcome to Episode TWO my loves!
In this episode we enjoy a quick catch up in which I tell you all about how my life is falling apart!
If you struggle with shame, anxiety, depression and guilt this episode is for YOU.
We also chat about me experiencing my first orgasm with a partner while “riding the D” for the first time.. So many firsts!
Pl...
Duration: 00:59:071. The Time He Rushed Me To Cum, Mutual Masterbation Gone WRONG
Sep 11, 2022Send us a text
YA’LL WELCOME TO EPISODE ONE OF THE LOVE ATIYA EXPERIENCE.
In episode one I give you an inside look on the history of my love life and give an in depth look into my celibacy journey.
Oh! And stay tuned for two back to back stories on four play gone WRONG, rigorous jerking off, guys possibly asking me to eat their behind and more!
Don’t forget to keep up with me on all of my socials besties!
Instagram: @loveatiya
TikTok: @iloveatiya & @lovea...
Duration: 00:55:24