Thrive Like A Parent

EP:174 In this episode, I’m finally taking you behind the scenes of my Hashimoto’s journey—from being told I was “in remission” to hitting a full-blown flare that looked a lot like grief, burnout, and perimenopause all rolled into one. I’ll walk you through the timeline of my diagnosis, the scary symptoms (brain fog, hair loss, fatigue, joint pain, irregular cycles, sudden weight loss), and how I slowly realized this wasn’t “just stress” or “just motherhood”… it was my thyroid and my nervous system screaming for help.

I’m sharing exactly what I tried, what I quit, and wh...

EP:173 In this episode of Thrive Like a Parent, I’m getting real about what it actually feels like when you start coming out of fight or flight—and why it often feels worse before it feels better.

I walk you through my own journey of living in survival mode for years: high-risk pregnancies, preemies, solo parenting, Jonathan’s mental health struggles, his passing, and the long, messy process of grief. I share how year one after losing Jonathan was pure fight or flight, and how year two was a completely different kind of hard: deep exhaustion, brain...

EP:172 In this episode of Thrive Like a Parent, I sit down with my dear friend Zabie Yamasaki – trauma-informed yoga educator, author, survivor advocate, and founder of Transcending Trauma Through Yoga.

Zabie and I dive deep into what it really means to heal your nervous system, reclaim your body after trauma, and honor your capacity as a human, a parent, and a highly sensitive soul.

Zabie shares her powerful story as a survivor of sexual trauma, her journey through grief, IVF, pregnancy loss, and her husband’s cancer diagnosis, and how trauma-informed yoga became both her...

EP:171 This solo episode has been a long time coming. I’m finally sitting down to walk you through what the last few months have really looked like behind the scenes — the baseball fields, the retreats, the business highs, the gut punches, and turning 40 in the most unexpectedly beautiful way.

I take you with me through:

EP:170 In this episode of Thrive Like a Parent, I sit down with my client and friend Dr. Michael Braunstein to pull back the curtain on what it really looks like for a high-achieving husband, dad, and provider to work on his emotional regulation, marriage, and parenting.

Michael and I talk about the invisible pressure so many men carry—being the provider, holding it all together, never showing they’re at capacity—and how that almost broke him, his marriage to Lindsay, and their blended family.

We walk through:

EP:170 In this first part of my conversation on Thrive Like a Parent, I sit down with longtime client Michael Braunstein—a former collegiate athlete, business owner, and dad of four in a blended family. From the outside, everything looked “great,” but inside, Michael was completely maxed out. He found himself snapping at his kids, drowning in pressure, and even wondering how some dads reach the point of walking away. That breaking point ultimately led him to my work and the concept of regulation.

In Part 1, we explore where Michael began: stuck in constant “fix it” mode, overwhelme...

EP:168 Hey Thrive fam, it’s Brooke! In this episode, I invite my amazing friend Dr. Sahar Martinez to dive deep with me into what it truly means to “thrive like a parent.” We get real (and share a lot of laughs) as we open up about our friendship, why vulnerability matters so much in both parenting and marriage, and how being authentic—even when it’s messy—can change the way we connect with our loved ones.

We talk about the ups and downs of long-term relationships, the honest (and sometimes hilarious) moments of parenting, and how embracin...

EP:167 Ready to thrive through the holiday season? In this episode of Thrive Like a Parent, I sit down with my dear friend and colleague, Dr. Maria Gonzalez, to get real about what makes the holidays so stressful, and more importantly, how you can reclaim joy and peace with practical, actionable strategies.

We dive into why holidays can trigger so much sensory overload, emotional dysregulation, and people-pleasing, sharing honest stories from our experiences and those of our clients. You’ll learn why predictability matters for your brain, how to spot your own patterns, and techniques for real-time re...

EP:166 In this deeply moving episode of Thrive Like a Parent, I sit down with the incredible Dr. Jessica Zucker, renowned psychologist and author, to break the silence surrounding women’s reproductive and maternal mental health. Together, we open up about the realities of pregnancy loss, grief, and the complexities of motherhood—topics that are so often left unspoken.

As someone who has personally endured pregnancy complications and the heartbreak of loss, this conversation meant the world to me. Dr. Zucker honors us with her own powerful story, the inspiration behind her viral #IHadaMiscarriage campaign, and her miss...

EP:164 In Part 2 of my conversation with my dear friend, yoga therapist, and fellow widow, Julia Warren, we continue to open up about the raw and real experience of navigating life after loss. We go deeper into what it means to rebuild your identity, find your footing as a solo parent, and make empowered choices that prioritize true healing—not just survival.

Together, we explore the emotional layers of grieving while raising children, maintaining your sense of self, and protecting your peace amidst outside opinions, business pressures, and the well-meaning but often overwhelming support of others. This ep...

EP:163 In this episode of the Thrive Like a Parent podcast, I sit down with my dear friend Julia Warren, a yoga therapist and fellow widow, to share an honest, vulnerable conversation about navigating grief, solo parenting, and genuine healing after loss. We open up about what it really means to choose yourself during hard times, how to find strength through authenticity, and the importance of trusting your own journey—even when surrounded by judgment, business challenges, and well-intentioned but misguided support.

Julia and I discuss our personal experiences with widowhood, the ups and downs of recovery, bu...

EP:163 Hey friends, it’s Brooke! On this episode of the podcast, I was honored to sit down with the incredible Dr. Jody Carrington—clinical psychologist, speaker, and all-around powerhouse in the world of mental health. We dive deep into what it truly means to build connection in an increasingly disconnected world, and why asking “what happened here?” is more powerful than ever. Dr. Jody shares her journey from small-town Alberta to working with families and first responders, revealing hard truths about trauma, the challenges of modern parenting, and the epidemic of loneliness facing us today.

We open up...

EP:162 Hey there, it’s Brooke! In this episode of the Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I sit down with the incredible Caitlin Murray from Big Time Adulting for a raw, honest, and hilarious deep-dive into the real life of modern parenting. We jump right in—talking about what it means to be an authentic parent, letting go of perfection, and why sometimes, it’s OK to just laugh at the chaos.

Caitlin opens up about her journey as a mom to a childhood cancer survivor, how those challenging years taught her to trust her instincts, and naviga...

EP:161 In this episode of Thrive Like a Parent, I sit down with pelvic floor physical therapist Dr. Courtney from 360 Wellness for an in-depth conversation about pelvic floor health, women's wellness, and holistic healthcare. We debunk common myths about pelvic floor exercises (including why Kegels might not be the solution you've been told they are) and discuss evidence-based approaches to help women feel strong, confident, and pain-free.
What You'll Learn About Pelvic Floor Health:
Dr. Courtney shares her journey from CrossFit athlete experiencing pelvic floor dysfunction to becoming a women's health physical therapist revolutionizing patient care. She explains...

EP:160 Hey Thrive Community! It’s Brooke here, and in this episode of the Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I’m giving you a real, raw update on all the things happening in my world. From juggling the chaos of family schedules—think travel baseball, umpiring, and softball—to stepping back into my business and finally deciding it’s time to write that book I’ve been talking about for years, I’m sharing it all.
I open up about how the recent eclipse and life’s curveballs have pushed me to trust my instincts, speak my truth, and embrace change—e...

EP:159 What does it look like to receive a cancer diagnosis while navigating motherhood and a global pandemic? Meet Tia B Stokes - mom, dancer, cancer survivor, and beacon of hope who turned her darkest moments into a mission of service and joy.

💪 TIA'S INCREDIBLE JOURNEY:
- Dancing on world stages before facing the ultimate life challenge
- Receiving a cancer diagnosis during the pandemic with five children
- How her dance group Calamity became a lifeline and support system
- Transforming from fundraising for others to accepting help herself
- The hea...

EP:158 Hey friends, it’s Brooke! In this episode, I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with Alyssa, the brilliant mind behind “Big Kids, Bigger Feelings” and “Tiny Humans, Big Emotions.” We dove deep into what truly sets her work apart—understanding the unique nervous system of every child (and adult!). Alyssa shared her journey from teaching preschool to pioneering the Collaborative Emotion Processing Method, and we explored why emotional intelligence isn’t just about kids—it’s about us, too.

We talked about practical ways to support kids in schools and at home, from sensory breaks to setting...

EP:158 Back-to-school can feel overwhelming for kids with ADHD—and for parents too.  New schedules, noisy classrooms, homework battles, and overstimulation can all push the nervous system to its breaking point.

In this video, Dr. Brooke Weinstein explains:

How ADHD connects to the nervous system

Why dysregulation shows up during school transitions

Practical ways to support focus, emotions, and resilience this school year

When kids (and parents) are regulated, they can learn, adapt, and connect. When they’re dysregulated, everything feels harder. This video gives you tools to spot the di...

EP:157 Hey, Thrive Like a Parent community! It’s Brooke here, and I am beyond excited to share this week’s episode with you. I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with Dr. Bradley Campbell—a holistic physician, chiropractor, acupuncturist, and functional medicine expert who’s changing the way we think about true health.

In this episode, Dr. Campbell opens up about his own healing journey and how it inspired his passion for root cause medicine. We dive deep into what “true health” really means, why nervous system regulation is the foundation for wellness, and how to cut throu...

EP:156 Welcome back to the Thrive Like a Parent Podcast!  and today I’m thrilled to bring you a heartfelt conversation with Jade, one of our incredible community members who has truly transformed her life through our Thrive program. In this episode, Jade opens up about her lifelong journey with anxiety, the ups and downs of therapy and medication, and how joining Thrive helped her find real, lasting change—not just for herself, but for her marriage and her parenting.

We dive deep into what it’s really like to do this work, the power of emotional regulat...

EP:155 Hey y’all, it’s Dr. B! In this episode, I’m getting real about the rollercoaster of emotions and sensory overload that comes with the back-to-school transition—for both our kids and ourselves. I share my own journey as a parent, from craving structure to embracing the beautiful chaos of summer, and how I’ve learned to support my children (and myself) through big changes. We dive into why our brains crave routine, how to spot sensory struggles in your kids, and practical ways to create a sensory safe zone at home and advocate for one at school. I...

EP:154 Hey Thrive Community!   As a solo parent, I know firsthand how hard it can be to juggle all the roles—provider, nurturer, chef, chauffeur, and more—while still trying to find moments for myself. In this episode, I open up about the emotional rollercoaster of sending my kids to camp for a month, the grief and relief that come with having time alone, and the pride I feel watching my children grow and thrive in new environments. I share my truth about the challenges of solo parenting, the importance of honoring the hard moments, and why it’s okay to admi...

EP:153 Hey Thrive Community!

In this episode of the Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I’m taking you behind the scenes of my unforgettable road trip with Carter. From spontaneous adventures through Santa Fe, Taos, Estes Park, and Crested Butte, to hiking breathtaking trails and even buying my dream vintage 1979 Ford Bronco (hello, Sally Joy Ride!), this journey was all about stepping out of my comfort zone, reconnecting with nature, and finding new ways to regulate and recharge.

I open up about the challenges and joys of traveling without a set itinerary, the magic of se...

EP152: Hey there, Thrive Community!
In today's episode, I'm diving deep into something that changed my life completely - the difference between external and internal regulation. If you've ever felt like you're constantly seeking permission from others, drowning in resentment, or feeling like you're never doing enough, this episode is for YOU.
I'm sharing my personal journey from constantly people-pleasing to understanding my own nervous system. We'll explore how to stop relying on everyone else to regulate your emotions and start taking radical responsibility for your own mental health.
You'll learn:

Why you're always feeling...

EP:151 Hey Thrive Community! In this powerful episode, I sit down with Todd Steinberg, CEO of Camus Design and creator of the Shift breathing necklace, to dive deep into the world of nervous system regulation and why slowing down isn't just a luxury—it's a necessity.
We're unpacking the real truth about overwhelm, parenting, and how something as simple as breathing can transform your entire life. Todd shares his incredible journey from managing chaotic college spring breaks to creating a tool that helps people (and kids!) regulate their nervous system in real-time.
Learn how to:
Recognize when yo...

EP:150 🎙️ Ever feel like your marriage is falling apart? This week, I'm getting REAL with my client Lindsay Braunstein about how we transformed her relationship from the brink of divorce to true connection!
In this raw, vulnerable conversation, Lindsay shares her journey from people-pleasing and burnout to discovering her own worth and rebuilding her marriage. We dive deep into sensory regulation, nervous system healing, and why traditional therapy wasn't enough.
You'll learn:

How to recognize when you're sacrificing yourself

Ways to communicate your needs effectively

Strategies for personal growth that impact your...

EP:149 In this powerful episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I sit down with my incredible friend Lauren Buongiorno, founder of Risely Health and a type one diabetes warrior. Lauren shares her transformative journey from struggling with diabetes to becoming a beacon of hope and empowerment for thousands living with this condition.

We dive deep into her personal story - from being diagnosed at seven to navigating collegiate sports, motherhood, and building a revolutionary health coaching company. Lauren breaks down the misconception that diabetes is just about math and insulin, revealing it's a holistic experience involving 42...

EP:148 Hey there! In this episode, I'm getting real about the challenges of being a mom, managing family expectations, and learning to prioritize myself. My son Eli's baseball journey threw me into a whirlwind of decisions this summer. I had to choose between a family vacation and supporting his All-Stars team, which wasn't easy.

I'm sharing my raw experience of feeling pulled between family demands, my children's needs, and my own mental health. Those moments of people-pleasing? I've been there, and I'm done with letting others' opinions dictate my choices. This episode is all about the courage...

EP:147 Hey there! In this episode, I'm diving deep into something that changed my life completely - the difference between external and internal regulation. Let me tell you, for years I was that person constantly seeking validation from everyone around me, putting myself last, and feeling frustrated when no one could read my mind.

I'm sharing my personal journey of how I transformed from constantly seeking external permission to becoming my own biggest supporter. We'll explore how external regulation looks like constantly waiting for your partner to notice you're exhausted, or feeling angry when your kids don't...

EP146: Hey there, Thrive Like a Parent community! 

In this raw and emotional episode, I'm opening up about my journey through grief, resilience, and unexpected joy. Year four since Jonathan's passing has been transformative - I won two incredible awards (Austin Under 40 and Austin Women's Magazine), discovered the power of community, and realized I'm the happiest I've ever been as a parent.

I'll share intimate moments of my healing process, from struggling through the first three years of widowhood to finding unexpected strength in baseball communities and personal connections. You'll hear about the magic of t...

EP:145 Hey Thrive Like a Parent Podcast Fam! 🚢✨

In this INCREDIBLE episode, I sat down with Brandon and Amber from Everyday Saturday, and let me tell you - their life is NOTHING like the traditional parenting journey we're all used to!

Quick Highlights:

Ditched the suburban life with a minivan

Sold almost everything to live on a 46-foot sailing catamaran

Traveled 15,000 nautical miles across 21 countries

Raised 4 kids in the most EPIC unconventional lifestyle

Key Takeaways:

Family time is precious - stop waiting for "somed...

EP:144 Hey Thrive Community! 

In this month's Q&A episode, I'm diving deep into YOUR most pressing questions about nervous system regulation, parenting struggles, healing from trauma, and personal growth. I'm getting real and raw about everything from managing anxiety without medication to navigating complex relationship dynamics.

We'll explore:

How to truly understand your unique brain

Strategies for emotional regulation

My personal journey through grief and healing

Practical tips for supporting yourself, even when your partner isn't on board

If you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, o...

EP:143 Hey there, amazing community!

I'm beyond excited to bring you an incredible episode with my friend Dr. Sara Reardon, aka the "Vagina Whisperer" 🌟 We dive deep into something NO ONE talks about - pelvic floor health! 

In this episode, Sarah shares her groundbreaking new book "Floored" that's basically an encyclopedia of female anatomy. We discuss everything from understanding your body as a young teen to navigating changes through pregnancy, sports, and menopause. 

Trust me, this conversation is eye-opening. I'm buying copies for my entire family - daughter, sons, EVERYONE. Why...

EP142:

Hey there, Thrive Like a Parent community! 

In this powerful episode, I sit down with my dear friend Brittany, a former professional dancer turned fitness entrepreneur who's redefining what it means to be a strong, balanced mom. We dive deep into her incredible journey from New York City's dance world to creating Britsbarre Virtual Studio, sharing raw, vulnerable moments about nervous system regulation, motherhood challenges, and how she built a fitness platform that truly understands what moms need.

Brittany opens up about her struggles with burnout, the importance of self-care, and how s...

EP:141 Hey THRIVE Community!  

It’s been four years since Jonathan passed. And in this episode, I’m bringing you into what healing has really looked like—not the polished version, but the real one.

From turning my home into a space that finally feels calm…
to raising two kids alone…
to building a business while still navigating grief—I’ve done a lot of rebuilding. And it hasn’t been linear.

I’m sharing:

What it felt like to film a vlog on the anniversary of Jonathan’s death

Why my A...

EP:140 Hey everyone! In this week's episode of Thrive Like a Parent, I sat down with the incredible Stephanie, and OH. MY. GOODNESS. Her story about her micro-preemie son ZEV will absolutely blow your mind! 
We dive deep into her journey of having a 23-week baby who weighed just ONE POUND, and how she and her husband turned their most challenging moment into an incredible mission of hope through their nonprofit, Four Those. 

You'll hear about:

EP:139 Hey Thrive Family!

EP:138 Hey there! I just finished watching the Netflix series "Adolescence" and WOW, do I have some thoughts to share!
 
In this episode, I'm breaking down why this series is creating such a buzz and why I believe we're facing a PARENTING crisis, not just a boy crisis. I'm getting real about the importance of practical parenting - balancing boundaries with love and connection.

Key Takeaways:

Devices and unlimited freedom are NOT the answer

Your kids NEED structure (they actually want it!)

Boundaries aren't about controlling, they're about protecting Duration: 00:21:09

EP:137 In this special Q&A episode with my team member Brittany, I opened up about some of the most personal and profound aspects of my journey. We discussed everything from my approach to motherhood, relationships, and building my business to the deeper emotional work of healing and supporting others.

Key Highlights:

Shared vulnerable moments about losing my first husband and navigating family challenges

Discussed the importance of understanding our nervous system and mental health

Explored my love language and relationship dynamics with Carter

Revealed my struggle with imaginary...

EP:136 Hey Thrive Community! 

Today's episode is a game-changing conversation with Libby from Diary of an Honest Mom that you DO NOT want to miss! We dive deep into the messy, beautiful reality of motherhood, mental health, and personal growth.
Libby shares her incredible journey from feeling isolated during the pandemic to becoming a powerful voice for moms everywhere. We talk about the real struggles - overstimulation, burnout, and the impossible societal expectations that make us feel like we're constantly failing.

Key takeaways:
✨ You're not alone in your motherhood struggles
✨ Authenticity is your...

EP:135 Hey Thrive Like a Parent Podcast Fam!
 
Today's episode is INCREDIBLE! I sat down with the amazing Laura Day, an intuitive powerhouse who just released her seventh book, "The Prism". Let me tell you, this conversation blew my mind!
 
Laura shared her profound journey of overcoming childhood trauma, developing intuition, and creating a life of purpose. As someone who's walked through my own challenges, her insights about healing and personal transformation resonated deeply with me.

The biggest takeaway? We don't need to be stuck in our past. Small, intentional changes can completely re...

EP:134 Hey there, amazing humans! 

In this raw and real podcast episode, I'm diving deep into something that's been brewing in my heart - the battle between supporting everyone else and supporting YOURSELF.
 
I'm sharing my personal journey from being a people-pleaser to becoming the most authentic version of Brooke possible. Trust me, it wasn't easy! I've lived both sides - sacrificing myself for others and then finally choosing ME. And let me tell you, the liberation is REAL.

Putting others first doesn't make you a hero, it makes you exhausted

Yo...

EP:132 Hey there! Let me get real with you about something I've struggled with my entire life - living in chaos without losing myself. Whether you're a high-performer who loves last-minute adrenaline or a parent feeling constantly overwhelmed, I've been there!
I used to think thriving meant constant hustle and pushing myself to the limit. But what I've learned is that true thriving is about balance, self-care, and listening to your body.

Key Takeaways:
✨ Recognize your energy patterns
✨ Set boundaries
✨ Prioritize REST
✨ Choose yourself FIRST

My biggest lesson? You are the most...

EP:132 As a former "raging people pleaser", I know firsthand how exhausting it can be to constantly put others' needs before your own. I used to do everything for everyone, to the point where I was absolutely drowning. I'd say yes to things I had no time or energy for, shy away from difficult conversations, and never accept help - all in the pursuit of being the "perfect" mom, wife, friend, and professional. But I've learned that your purpose in life isn't to serve others - it's to live and enjoy your life fully, on your own terms.

As a parent, I know how easy it is to get so caught up in the demands of work, home, and family that you have nothing left to give your partner. I've been there - feeling lonely, resentful, and disconnected from the person I love the most. But I've also learned that it doesn't have to be that way.

It takes effort to keep that love muscle strong, but it's so worth it. Make date nights a non-negotiable, even if it's just a simple activity together. And don't be afraid to plan a kid-free getaway - even 3...

EP:130 As a parent, I know how triggering mess and clutter can be. It's like my brain just snaps! But I've learned some tricks to manage it. First, I made my bedroom a peaceful sanctuary - no TV, just calm vibes. It's my Hail Mary when the rest of the house is a disaster zone. I grew up in a super tidy home, but now I've had to release that perfectionism. My house isn't Pinterest-perfect, but good enough is good enough.

I also get the kids involved - one new chore at a time so i...

EP:129 This week, I decided to try something I've always wanted to do - bring my kids on the podcast. My older son Charlie joined me, and I'm so proud of how he opened up and shared his perspective. As a child who lost his dad to suicide, Charlie has a unique understanding of grief and resilience. He talked about the difficulty of seeing other kids with their dads, and how it felt to have male role models like my partner Carter step in to fill that void. It's been a journey for all of us, but I'm in awe...

EP:128 Our kids' head-banging, rocking, and constant movement aren't just concerning behaviors - they're natural ways they're trying to regulate their nervous systems. As a mom of preemies, I know how much deep pressure and sensory input my babies needed to soothe and settle. 

EP:127 As I shared, feeling like you're "too much" is a core wound that affects so many of us. It leads us to create a performative reality, dampening our light and abandoning our true selves. Growing up, I learned to function according to societal norms, but I found my truest self could only shine when I was on stage, dancing. That freedom and authenticity was so liberating, yet so rare in my everyday life.

Even in my relationships, I often became a mirror for others' issues, rather than honoring my own worth. It wasn't until I became...

EP:126 Hey friends! I just recorded a new episode of the Thrive Like a Parent podcast all about losing your temper with your kids. As a mom, I know how hard this can be - we all have those moments where we just feel like we're at the end of our rope. But I want you to know that it doesn't make you a bad parent. It just means you need to take care of yourself, whether that's taking a break, practicing self-care, or finding healthy ways to manage your emotions.

In this episode, I g...

EP:125 Hi Friends! I've noticed a pattern with my clients - many struggle with intimacy and sex within their marriages or partnerships. This is a topic that isn't openly discussed, but it's so important. Intimacy should be a deep, mutual connection - not a one-sided experience where one partner's needs are neglected. I've heard too many stories of intimacy feeling like a chore, rather than a pleasurable, regulating experience for both people.
I want to empower you to advocate for your own needs when it comes to intimacy. Your body, your choice. You deserve to feel comfortable, respected, and...

EP:124 Hi friends! this episode was a doozy, let me tell you. I dove headfirst into some major home renovations during my winter break, and let me just say - the dust, the fumes, the chaos, it was a lot to handle! But you know what, my amazing neighbor was so kind to let me and the family stay at her place for a week, which was a total lifesaver. It gave me the space I needed to recharge and reconnect with my partner, Carter.
 
He's been such a rock for me through all of this. When I...

EP:123 Hi friends, I'm so excited to share a powerful insight with you today - the fastest way to regulate your nervous system is NOT control, fixing, or jumping into action. In fact, those strategies often backfire and perpetuate stress. Instead, I'll show you how to build a larger window of tolerance, so you can stay calm and present, even when life gets chaotic.

No more meltdowns or irritability - just more peace, connection, and joy. This is life-changing stuff, and I can't wait to share it with you. Through my Thrive programs, I've seen firsthand how...

EP:122 New Year's resolutions are total BS. I'm done with the pressure to completely overhaul my life overnight. Instead, I'm focusing on making small, sustainable changes that I can stick to all year long. No more crash diets or extreme makeovers - just gentle, consistent progress.
 
This year, I'm embracing the Kaizen method - taking one small step at a time towards my goals. Whether it's saving a little more, eating a bit healthier, or improving my relationships, I know lasting change happens gradually. I'm giving myself grace and celebrating tiny wins, not beating myself up over s...

EP:121 As we navigate the holidays, I want to talk about the power of authenticity. It can be so hard to show up as our true selves, especially around family.

I know from my own experience that being authentic is scary - there’s fear of rejection, abandonment, and judgment. But when we don’t embrace who we really are, it can lead to anxiety, depression, and a deep sense of disconnection.

I’ve had to work hard to break free from the patterns I learned growing up, where I played the “class clown” to keep the p...

EP:120 This was a heavy topic, but an important one. Losing my husband Jonathan to suicide was devastating, and I know firsthand the confusion, anger and lack of closure that those left behind feel.  
Hearing Carter talk about losing multiple friends the same way was heartbreaking. The numbness he described is something I can relate to - it becomes almost expected, which is not normal.
The most important thing is that you are not alone. There are people who want to listen and support you, even if reaching out feels impossible. I've been that person for strangers, and I...

EP:119 As a former pediatric clinician, I've seen how parenting has shifted over the years. The pendulum has swung from strict to passive - but I've learned the right balance is key.
The kids we work with are brilliant, but impulsive and defiant. I've watched parents fall into the trap of letting their kids run the show, thinking they're being "good" by not setting boundaries. But that only makes things worse.

Carter and I have developed methods to empower parents and reclaim their role. It's not about being the "bad guy" - it's about equipping our...

EP:118 Today I'm so excited to introduce you to one of my beloved coaches, Maria Gonzalez. Maria's journey through our Thrive program has been truly transformative - from struggling to find her identity as a stay-at-home mom, to making incredible lifestyle changes and becoming the best version of herself.

Hearing Maria share her raw, vulnerable experiences and how this work has impacted her family is so inspiring. I'm honored to have her supporting our Thrive clients now, using her own story to deeply connect and guide others. If you've been on the fence about taking the leap...

EP:117 Hey there! 👋 In this episode, I’m diving into a topic I know so many of us can relate to: why certain noises—like our kids’ whining—feel SO triggering.

I share my personal experience with my colicky, high-needs son, Charlie, and unpack the science behind why those infant and toddler sounds can activate our brains, even as our kids grow. From our codependent bond to our brain’s “fix-it” mode, this episode is all about understanding these triggers and learning how to navigate them with compassion.

You’ll learn:
✔️ Why our brains react to certain noises...

EP: 116 As a parent, understanding your child's sensory profile is crucial for providing the right support and creating a harmonious home environment. In this episode of the Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I'm diving deep into the complexities of sensory behaviors and how they can impact both you and your little ones.

Too often, we pigeonhole our kids (and ourselves) into simplistic categories like "seeker" or "avoider." But the reality is, our sensory needs exist on a spectrum, and we can exhibit a mix of different tendencies. By learning to recognize these nuances, we can unlock the...

EP:115 On this week’s episode join me to dive into a bigger conversation about something that’s not talked about nearly enough—how often we as females and mothers put others’ needs before our own, especially when it comes to our health and well-being.

I dive into the pattern many women fall into, where we take on the role of “default parent” and end up neglecting ourselves. This can lead to chronic health issues, burnout, and even resentment in our relationships. I talk about the guilt that many of us feel around spending money on ourselves instead of o...

EP:114 On this episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I went to this incredible Pink concert the other night, and it just made me reflect on how much I used to neglect myself back in my previous relationship. I was always putting my partner first, trying so hard to make everything "work" that I completely lost touch with the things that lit me up inside.  

And I see that happening with so many parents these days - we get so caught up in the grind, in keeping up appearances, that we forget to take care of ourselves. And e...

EP:113 On this week’s episode of “Thrive Like a Parent,” I dive into how yoga and movement help spark my creativity and provide clarity in my life. For me, working out isn’t just about fitness, it’s a way to connect with myself.

I share some personal experiences, including the challenges I’ve faced as a mom of two preemies, running businesses, and going through a tough beginning of divorce before losing Jonathan. These experiences have deepened my empathy for others.

I also reflect on the importance of asking for help. You are not alone. A...

EP:112 On this week’s episode of Thrive Like a Parent, I’m thrilled to be joined by one of our wonderful coaches, Dr. Maria Gonzalez. We’ll be exploring a topic that so many of you have been asking about—having a partner who travels.

It can be challenging to stay grounded and regulated when your partner is frequently away, and it’s easy for resentment to build up, making communication and communication tough. We’ll talk about the courage it takes to take ownership of your feelings, to recognize what your body and nervous syste...

EP:111 My children should not grow up without their father.

I should not have to raise my children without their father.

No family should lose a loved one due to mental health. But here I am, and so many others.
This world is spinning out of control, and our brains can't keep up.

There's so much pressure to do more, be more, and it's crushing so many. I support parents day in and day out. If you're struggling, please don't wait. If you're lonely, please don't wait.

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EP:110 On this episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I discuss what it's like to come out of a prolonged "fight or flight" mode, sharing my personal experiences of exhaustion and the emotional lows that follow.

It feels like coming down from a marathon—completely draining but necessary for healing.It is so important to rest and take care of yourself , even when it feels unproductive.

This is a reminder that healing takes time, and it's crucial to be patient and gentle and kind to yourself during this recalibration of the nervous system.

EP:109 Is it possible for movement to release emotions?

YES. YES. YES.

It's a vital and one of the most crucial pieces to mental health, sensory regulation, emotional regulation and your nervous system regulation. The ability to utilize movement for regulation is like a triangle.

I believe that we all need movement. We all need someone to talk to, which is another edge of the triangle.

Then regulation is the third. And having that triangle of all those different pieces truly builds you into a individual who ca...

What does it mean to truly regulate internally?

✅ It means you understand your brain and body.
✅ You understand what your body physically needs, what it dislikes, what it likes.
✅ You know what self care will really support you.
✅ You understand if you’re an introvert versus an extrovert.

I want you to check in with yourself to see if you are externally emotionally regulating yourself or are you internally emotionally regulating yourself… AND what are the steps you can take to shift that? Deep dive into WHY..

👉 Why do I feel this way?<...

EP:107 On this week’s episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast we are going to talk about the importance of setting boundaries and enforcing natural consequences for children without resorting to anger or resentment.    We must set consistent, firm boundaries and natural consequences, such as chores or writing lines, to teach our children respect and responsibility.    You get to decide what behaviors are and aren't acceptable in your home, and enforce boundaries for unacceptable behaviors. You must claim the driver's seat in your home.    I encourage you to parent the child in front of you, not the child you fear they...

In this week's Thrive Like a Parent podcast, I dive deep into the importance of setting boundaries with kids with caution against doing it in a mean or angry way.

I share my views on ADHD, and argue that the diagnostic system is too focused on labeling people with "disorders" rather than embracing the diversity of human experiences. I also emphasize the need for better education about how the brain functions, as many ADHD symptoms are common experiences that people may think are "normal."

I also discuss the concept of being a...

New episode on Thrive Like a Parent Podcast.

Trust me you don’t want to miss this one.

XOXO,
Dr. B

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On this week's episode of the Thrive Like a Parent podcast, I dive into the challenges and rewards of raising strong-willed children, especially when it comes to their sensory and emotional regulation.
Storing willed kiddos often struggle with societal expectations, like sitting still or staying organized, because they’re trying to navigate their own unique needs.

I want to reassure you that while raising strong-willed children can be exhausting and sometimes overwhelming, it’s so important to trust your parenting instincts. Understanding the root of their behavior—whether it’s driven by sensory needs or emotio...

EP:103 In this week’s Thrive Like a Parent podcast, I share my personal journey with setting boundaries and the importance of prioritizing your needs.

I describe a time when I had zero boundaries, leading to anxiety, insecurity, and relying on unhealthy coping mechanisms.

But through self-reflection, I’ve learned to establish healthy boundaries and strategies to manage my daily life as a parent and caretaker.

I also share about being honest and speaking up, even when it’s uncomfortable. I’ve found that being more authentic has allowed me to feel more comforta...

EP:102 Putting on your oxygen mask first… that’s you’ve heard over and over and over and over and over again.

The problem that I’m finding is that just because we know that phrase doesn’t necessarily mean that I’m seeing that we’re doing it as parents, and when you don’t do it, what happens is you place yourself at the bottom of the totem pole.

If you are currently
✅ Exhausted and depleted.
✅ You’re waking up in the morning saying, I can’t believe this is my life. I don’t know how I got t...

EP:101 Are you feeling like more like roommate than a loving partner in your dynamic but are hiding from everyone?
It’s more common than you think…
Why??  Because we all want to put our best faces forward, especially with what’s happening inside the four corners of our homes!
What usually causes the drift?? Overfamiliarity, too much comfortability, overwhelming tasks, and routines, piled up work, new responsibilities, raising kids, insecurities, lack of intimacy, fear, resentment and the list goes on!
But this doesn’t have to be your situation forever. It doesn’t have to be just...

EP:100 You might have heard this one before but it was such an important topic I wanted to touch base on again… What most don’t quite understand is that emotional eating is not psychological. It’s neurological.

And on this week’s episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I am going to give you the tools you need to break that cycle through regulation!

You absolutely can have an intuitive and healthy relationship with food. Without any shame.

Recognition
Awareness
Trust

Create awareness behind how you’re feeling an...

EP:99 On this week’s episode of Thrive Like a Parent podcast.. The dreaded public meltdowns and how to support yourself and your child through them by understanding what’s happening within the nervous system.

Every child has a tantrum. That does not mean you're a terrible parent. That does not mean that you suck. It means that your child chose the wrong time to do it and the absolute worst thing we can do during a public meltdown is give in.

We live in a world where we thin...

EP:98 If you have never chosen to tap your toe into the world of vulnerability, sharing, being open, and being interested in your feelings, it's going to be very uncomfortable and scary. That's because your brain is saying, 'Hold on, I'm not used to doing this. This is uncharted territory, and this doesn't feel safe. #thrivelikeaparent #thrivelikeaparentpodcast #newepisode  #emotions #selfdevelopment #selfcare #adviceforparents #parentingtips #parents #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #thrive #parenthood #partnership #thriving #settingboundaries #nervoussystem #nervoussystemregulation #nervoussystemhealing #nervoussystemsupport #joyinthejourney #joyinparenting #momeuntrepreneur #selfcarefirst #selfreminder #selfcarematters

Setting boundaries and why it’s so crucial for your children’s and your mental health and development.
👉 new episode on the thrive like a parent podcast!
XOXO,
Dr.B
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EP:96 I am so excited to dive deep into what it means to be a sensory avoider on this week's episode of Thrive Like a Parent podcast.

A true sensory avoider means that you experience sensory stimuli or input into your brain more intensely than the average human, which means you then avoid it because it’s so overwhelming.
Here are some signs that you may be a sensory avoider:

☑️ You startle easily with sounds
☑️ You avoid bright lights
☑️ You zone out on your phone to escape the chaos
☑️ You prefer more bl...

EP:95 All families look different. Before I dive deep into the topic I want to preference that: ● whether you are a female And the working parent or a female and the stay at home parent ● whether you are the male and a working parent, or whether you are the male and a stay at home parent ALL of your roles matter! I think that partnerships are crumbling, and there's so much resentment and anger towards each other within partnerships. And on todays episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast I want to talk about one of the missing pieces that...

EP:94 On this week’s episode of Thrive Like a Parent podcast we are going to explore strategies for breaking cycles of resentment and rebuilding intimacy in relationships.
Some key points I will discuss are:
✅ Working with couples individually on emotional/sensory regulation can be more effective than traditional couples counseling
✅ Accepting your partner as an individual, rather than trying to control them, is important
✅ Focus on your own self-care and regulation to rebuild trust and deeper connection
✅ Understand your own nervous system and learn to self-regulate emotions/behaviors
✅ Avoid over-caring for partner/child, allow...

EP:93 As we head into this summer season, I want you to take a breath and remind yourself, what is the rush. And the more you do that, you're more the more you're slowing your brain down and reminding your brain there is no threat here, I am safe, and it's really hard sometimes to not just allow yourself to feel safe in threatening moments. That's effort, but it's also effort to allow your brain to feel safe in happy moments and good moments, because we harp so much on the hard, we harp so much on the bad...

EP:92 On this week’s episode of Thrive Like a Parent podcast, Dr. Tracy Dalgleish, a clinical psychologist and couples therapist, shares her journey of becoming a parent and how it inspired her to expand her work to reach more people with resources for healthy relationships. In this episode we talk about...

✔️ How insecurities and self-doubt from the past can shape our present relationships and careers, emphasizing the importance of understanding these inner narratives.

✔️ The value of vulnerability, empathy, and partnership in navigating challenging situations together as a couple.

✔️ The challenges wom...

EP:91 Today on the Thrive Like a Parent Podcast I’d like to discuss something that has really been on the forefront of my mind lately…

We MUST set boundaries and provide a balance between screen time and outdoor activities, while also modeling healthy emotional expression and prioritizing our own mental well-being to our children. Excessive screen time can lead to increased anxiety and decreased ability to explore and learn from mistakes.

Social media has been a major contributing factor to cyberbullying, negative self-comparison, anxiety and overall mental health in t...

EP:90 On this week’s episode of Thrive Like a Parent podcast.. ALL your most asked questions answered. Trust me you don’t want to miss this one.

I will share with you my journey building a business while raising two children, emphasizing the need to delegate tasks, set boundaries, and prioritize self-care. I will share with you how to let go of perfectionism, being honest about limitations, and putting your own well-being first in order to thrive.

I will also discuss managing children’s noise and behavior, distinguishing between dysregulation and baseline sound...

EP:89 On this week’s episode of Thrive Like a Parent podcast, I am so thrilled to be joined by Dr. Wentz. Dr. Isabella Wentz, is an internationally acclaimed thyroid specialist, who shares her personal journey with Hashimoto's thyroiditis. Despite initially working in mental health advocacy, her own struggles with undiagnosed Hashimoto's inspired her to dedicate her career to addressing the root causes of thyroid dysfunction. Dr. Wentz also covers the role of diet, nutrients, and lifestyle in managing Hashimoto's and thyroid health. She also shares how valuable insights are provided on testing, optimizing thyroid function, and advocating for pr...

EP:88 On this week's episode of Thrive Like a Parent podcast, I am so thrilled to be joined by Dr. Shefali.Dr. Shefali received her doctorate in clinical psychology from Columbia University. Specializing in the integration of Western psychology and Eastern philosophy, she brings together the best of both worlds for her clients. She is an expert in family dynamics and personal development, teaching courses around the globe. She has written six books, three of which are New York Times best-sellers, including her two landmark books The Conscious Parent and The Awakened Family.

There...

EP:87 On this week’s episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I want to talk to you about emotional regulation and emotional dysregulation.
The definition of emotional dysregulation are things like mood shifts, constantly finding it hard to deal with stress, angry outbursts, high anxiety, feelings of shame, self-harm, suicidal thoughts, or actions and substance misuse.
Emotional dysregulation can absolutely be debilitating for you. And that is why when I work with clients, we work so closely on the regulation of our moods and the regulation of our emotions, because if we don’t have regulation over...

EP:86 Today I have back with me, a very awesome special guest Carter, who, as you know, is my partner. And today we are going to talk about communication.

Communication is a topic that we really want to talk about. But it's also a topic that you all have been very interested in. Because it's really hard to have healthy communication within a partnership. And it's something that we have worked on, as well as something that we make an active effort to have strong communication skills within our partnership. 

Carter and I come from partnerships where we didn't feel strong communication was ther...

EP:85 It's really hard to have healthy communication within a partnership.

It’s something that you have to make an active effort to build within your partnership.

There's three levels of communication. First phase: The chaos tit for tat. YOU. YOU. YOU.

Second phase: the psychological phase of communicating..  I'm trying to hear you but I don't understand because I did that and you did this. Third phase: the most deep layer is how do I feel… The I statements.

Carter and I have put in a lot o...

EP:84 I used to be a raging people pleaser.

I did everything for everyone, for all the wrong reasons, I did what I thought I should do, I did what I thought I should do as a mom, what I should do as a wife, what I should do as a friend, what I should do as a sibling. You name it, I did it.

If you ever find yourself saying yes to things, you have absolutely no time or energy for or to complete. And you maybe even shy away from difficult...

EP:83 Today is the day after the three-year anniversary of Jonathan's death. And my grief story was probably the fourth or fifth podcast that I ever recorded.

A year and a half ago, I was bursting at the seams to finally share what happened. But felt like, at least Charlie, my older son needed to know before the rest of the world.

We have a very hard time processing death, nonetheless, someone choosing to take their own life. And so I waited.

I waited until either one of my children...

EP:82 Today, I am really excited to have on Sarah Reardon who is a board-certified
pelvic health physical therapist.

She currently works at a private practice called Nola Pelvic Health and has an
online (Instagram account) exercise platform called, The Vagina Whisperer, that she created six or seven years ago to help folks from all over. Today, she has
over 600,000 followers.

I just don’t think that this is talked about enough. And our pelvic floor health and
for all the dudes, the men, the dads, any of you hu...

EP:81 Welcome to another episode of Thrive like a parent podcast. I have Derrick Cahill here and he is the bomb.com.
Derek is a stand up comedian and social media content creator focusing on authentic and relatable parenting stories. Derek is also a dad of three.
His whole movement on the internet is this “pursuit of me”, finding first of all being happy. And second, being surrounded by people that accept him.
In this podcast, we discusses the journey of getting to the “second mountain” on a personal level.
Derick is a very creative person a...

EP:80 Love is a muscle and love can absolutely atrophy. It will slowly wear out until you can’t find how to access it anymore if not utilized and exercised.
That is why there is common theme of feeling like there is no room left for oneself in relationships. This feeling of being spent and exhausted can lead to loneliness, resentment, and breakdown of communication.
And it takes a lot of effort to utilize that muscle and get that love muscle back so you must make the time the time for it.
You and your partnership ar...

EP:79 Do you ever feel overwhelmed by the slight clutter or mess in your house, and you’ve walked in the door, only to feel overloaded by scattered papers orunwashed dishes and clothes and disarray. Maybe you’ve even had arguments because it bothers you more than it bothers your partner, or your your spouse.

I want you to know, most importantly, you are not alone.

When my house is clean, and there is no clutter, I have a peaceful mind.

The state of cleanliness for some brains, helps you feel like you have...

EP:78 You find self love for yourself by putting yourself first. You find self love by giving back to yourself, by saying no, by asking for help, by giving yourself moments of calm.

That's how you thrive in the chaos of life.  That is how you fall in love with yourself. That is how you find self worth and self love.
It doesn't make you a bad person for choosing yourself. It doesn't make you a weaker individual. It makes you a strong human. For being able to own your mental health, being able to o...

EP:77 We're more exhausted than ever. We're more burnt out than ever. We're pushing so hard but yet getting stuck on a hamster wheel of unhappiness… Erika has done a phenomenal job seeing that reality and taking it upon herself to decided.. I’m going to take matters into my own hands and decide that I'm going to be in control of my own life…. On this week’s episode of Thrive Like a Parent join Erika and I as we discuss how we found our own freedom in today’s world of chaos and how you too friend can start...

EP:76 I am so incredibly excited to have Connie Zak on who is the CEO and co founder of sunlighten saunas, and I can't thank you enough for being here. And I think this is going to be so informative to our listeners. Because as they all know, and I've spoken about it a lot, I now have a sauna from you all. And it's been a huge part of my healing journey for my Hashimotos.

Connie Zack is a co-owner of Sunlighten, a leading company in infrared sauna manufacturing and infrared light therapy. Motivated by the...