The Impossible Life

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick lay out three non-negotiable beliefs that godly men must have if they want to endure adversity, carry responsibility, and fulfill God’s purpose for their lives. These aren’t motivational ideas — they’re foundational truths rooted in Scripture and revealed through how men actually live, work, and lead.

The conversation walks through why beliefs reveal themselves through actions, not words, and how default, emotion-driven beliefs quietly sabotage men under pressure. Garrett and Nick unpack what happens when men don’t believe they were made to be strong, made to wo...

Most people want to build something great, but very few understand how great things are actually built. In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick break down the principles behind building organizations, businesses, ministries, and movements that last using real examples from Mighty Men, business leadership, and Scripture. 

You’ll learn why purpose must come before strategy, and why the most powerful organizations are not built around protecting a “castle,” but around slaying a dragon—solving a real problem that benefits others beyond yourself. Garrett explains how purpose must be clearly defined, nearly unattainable, non-conditional, and bigge...

Winning in life isn’t about luck, hype, or raw talent. It’s about understanding and applying the right formula. In this episode, Garrett and Nick break down what they call The Winning Formula: a principled, repeatable framework that explains why some people consistently produce results while others stay stuck no matter how hard they try. 

You’ll learn why winning always starts with right aim, clarity of purpose rooted in God’s design. It's then followed by right execution, the discipline of doing the right things consistently at a high level. Drawing from Scripture, military experience, business leadershi...

Your beliefs are shaping your life far more than your circumstances ever will. In this episode, Garrett and Nick break down how your internal belief system is formed, why most people never challenge it, and how hidden belief patterns quietly limit your potential as a man of God. If you’ve ever wondered why you keep running into the same walls in relationships, work, or personal growth, this conversation uncovers the roots beneath the surface.

You’ll learn the simple but powerful formula behind belief formation, how unregulated emotions hijack your thinking, and why acting on truth (not feel...

Conflict is unavoidable but doing it well is a skill that separates healthy relationships from dysfunctional ones, strong leaders from weak ones, and mission-driven men from passive drifters. 

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick break down how to handle conflict like a leader, not a reactor. They explore why conflict isn’t a sign something is wrong, it’s a sign something matters.

You’ll learn how to pick your battles, protect your mission, separate personal offense from real problems, and create clarity instead of chaos.

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In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick unpack one of the most important concepts for living a focused, purpose-driven life: your winning philosophy—the unique combination of beliefs, strengths, endurance, and principles that determine where you succeed and where you struggle.

Nick shares how he recently discovered his own winning philosophy — a pattern that had been showing up in his life long before he ever had language for it. Nick breaks down his own, revealing how understanding his natural wiring transformed the way he leads and helps others rise.

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In this powerful shortcast of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick expose one of the most dangerous forces shaping modern men: passivity. Drawing from Scripture, real leadership experience, and hard-earned battlefield lessons, they dismantle the seven lies that keep men stuck, ineffective, and spiritually asleep.

Modern culture celebrates “go with the flow” attitudes, conflict avoidance, and emotional softness — but none of that looks like Jesus. Garrett reminds us that Christ was never passive. He confronted lies, protected truth, and led with courage. Real masculinity creates strength, protection, and flourishing — not weakness or drift. 

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In this powerful and deeply insightful episode, Dr. Robi Sonderegger joins Garrett and Nick for his third appearance on The Impossible Life Podcast—and this conversation may be his most impactful yet. Together, they expose the invisible forces—your beliefs—that quietly dictate your identity, your decisions, your relationships, and ultimately the direction of your entire life.

Drawing from psychology, neuroscience, Scripture, and lived experience, the guys explore:Where your beliefs actually come fromHow emotion cements beliefs into your identityWhy most people never question their limiting beliefsHow to identify beliefs that are silently sabotaging your growthThe only two ways b...

Identity is the glass ceiling of your life. You will never outperform what you believe about who you are. In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface expose one of the most dangerous lies in modern culture: “Just be authentic.”

Culture has reframed feelings as identity and told men that their current state is a virtue.
“I’m just being honest.”“That’s just who I am.”“I need validation.”
What sounds empowering actually destroys grit, responsibility, and maturity.Garrett and Nick unpack why authenticity without authority leads to narcissism, selfishness, and emo...

Quitters Day or Purpose Day? Designing a Year You Don’t Walk Away From

If you want this to be the most purposeful year of your life, you can’t drift into it — you have to design it.

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick break down how to actually build a year rooted in purpose, clarity, and God-given direction.

Using the Purpose Playbook framework, they explain why so many people lose sight of purpose, fall into distractions, and quit on their goals by the second Friday of January which is kno...

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface break down one of the most valuable — and rare — abilities in leadership: strategic thinking.

Most people react. Few people think. Strategic thinking is the discipline of stepping back, seeing the whole picture, and identifying what really matters so you can make decisions that have lasting impact, not just short-term comfort.

Garrett shares how this mindset has been one of his greatest assets and how learning to zoom in and out of problems changes your performance in every area of life. Nick dives into the...

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface dismantle one of the most powerful lies in modern culture — that you are the main character of your own story.

Drawing from Scripture, history, and real-world examples, they explore how society’s obsession with self — from slogans like “Have it your way” and “Because you’re worth it” — has shaped a generation that’s prideful, impatient, and spiritually empty.

Garrett and Nick explain that true fulfillment doesn’t come from self-expression but from submission. The difference between salvation and wisdom is learning to play your part in the...

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface revisit one of their most practical and transformative principles — Timeframe Orientation.

Your timeframe determines your direction. Most people live in short-term cycles — 30-day paychecks, 12-month goals, and reactionary habits — but true success and spiritual maturity come when you learn to see further down the road.

Garrett and Nick unpack how short-term thinking sabotages long-term growth in every area of life: parenting, marriage, health, business, and faith. Drawing from Scripture, personal stories, and leadership lessons, they show how extending your perspective aligns you with God’s...

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface tackle one of the most misunderstood and misused traits in men...ambition. Many Christians have been taught to view ambition as selfish or prideful, but the truth is, ambition is a divine design when it’s submitted to God’s purpose.

Garrett and Nick show the difference between self-driven ambition and God-directed ambition and how to cultivate a mindset that produces action, excellence, and impact. They go into how leaders can identify and stir ambition in others, inspiring them to rise above apathy and live out...

In this Impossible Life Shortcast, Garrett Unclebach dives into the “Figure It Out Mindset” — the ability to face uncertainty, obstacles, and confusion with confidence, faith, and resourcefulness.

Garrett breaks down how this mindset separates those who take ownership from those who make excuses, and why learning to figure things out is one of the most valuable leadership and spiritual traits a man can develop.

Whether it’s a business challenge, a relationship issue, or a moment where life feels overwhelming, this short episode will challenge you to stop waiting for perfect clarity and start trusting God while ta...

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface dig into one of the most crucial areas for any believer: “Guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” (Proverbs 4:23)

They explore what it really means to protect your inner world in a culture obsessed with image, emotion, and distraction. From leadership to marriage to faith, everything rises and falls on the condition of your heart — and most men lose the battle because they don’t even realize they’re in one.

Garrett shares insights from his time as a Navy SEAL about...

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface explore one of the most fascinating intersections of faith and reason — the way science continually confirms truths that God already revealed in His Word.

Science is powerful, but it’s also limited — it’s the discovery of what God has already designed. Garrett and Nick unpack how properly done science—verifiable, demonstrable, and repeatable—often proves what Scripture has said all along about marriage, emotional health, gratitude, purpose, and community.

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Leadership isn’t about titles, followers, or charisma. It’s about mastery of self and submission to God. In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface dive deep into what true Leadership Mastery looks like through the life and example of Jesus Christ.

Using both scripture and real-world leadership principles, they break down the 7 traits that define a godly leader that every man is called to grow in if he’s going to fulfill the dominion and authority God gave him.

In This Episode You’ll Learn:Why 57% of employees leave because...

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface unpack one of the greatest threats to every Christian man — compromise. Not the big, obvious kind that’s easy to recognize, but the subtle daily decisions that slowly dull your conviction and weaken your purpose.

Garrett shares from his Navy SEAL background and personal faith journey how compromise starts small — in your words, habits, and relationships — and ends up shaping your entire destiny. Together, he and Nick expose the three most common compromises men make and explain how to identify and kill them before they kill you...

Most men think winning in life means avoiding failure — not falling into sin, not losing money, not messing up their marriage. But what if “avoiding bad” is the very thing keeping you from God’s best?

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface unpack the difference between living to avoid sin and living to pursue purpose. Drawing from Garrett’s Navy SEAL experience and biblical truths, they reveal why mission focus — not fear — is the foundation of greatness.

You’ll learn:
Why compromise is one of the deadliest traps for Christian me...

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick unpack the difference between hype and conviction — and why most people confuse the two.

They discuss Warren Buffet’s insight about intelligence, energy, and integrity, breaking down why energy without integrity is dangerous and how real enthusiasm comes from a foundation of truth and belief.

Garrett shares how his deepest convictions come from God’s Word and why faith-based enthusiasm has endurance — while hype always fades under pressure.

If you’ve ever wondered how to keep your passion alive without burning out or chasing tr...

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface pull back the curtain on what it truly means to live ALL IN — not the motivational cliché, but the biblical, practical, and battle-tested reality. They show you the 5 most common and popular excuses that people buy into that keep them from going all in.

Most people think “all in” means going 1000 percent every day. Garrett and Nick reveal why that mindset burns out more men than it builds. They break down the two true ingredients of being all in:Level of Effort (time and energy)Level o...

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface strip away the fluff and break down what vision really means—and how to make it simple enough to actually live out.

Forget waiting for a divine lightning bolt or a dream of winged beasts like Daniel. Real vision starts with a choice: Who do you want to be right now? 

Through hilarious stories (including ice baths, Navy SEAL training, and even Chuck Norris), Garrett and Nick illustrate how transformation isn’t about developing superpowers—it’s about choosing how you show up in the mo...

Most men walk through life blind — deceived by ego, numbed by comfort, or paralyzed by fear. In this powerful 250th episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach (former Navy SEAL) break down the battle to see reality clearly — and how distorted perception keeps you from becoming who God made you to be.

Using military insight, scripture, and practical life examples, Garrett and Nick reveal the three major distortions of reality — ego, comfort, and fear — and how to overcome them with humility, discipline, and faith.

If you’ve ever wondered why you keep hitting th...

Transformation doesn’t happen overnight—and it’s not about self-help or hype. It’s about submission, work, and revelation.

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick and Garrett break down Romans 12:1–2 and reveal the three-part path of transformation every believer must walk:Submission – Laying down your way of thinking and surrendering control.Work – Allowing God to renew your mind daily through obedience and discipline.Revelation – Learning to see God’s will clearly and distinguish what’s real from what’s counterfeit.They talk about how transformation is not a one-time event but a continual process of dying to self and b...

Most men know they need more discipline—but few understand what’s really stopping them. In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and former Navy SEAL Garrett Unclebach break down the 3 musts of discipline and expose why so many men fail to stay consistent.

Drawing from Garrett’s SEAL training, biblical principles, and personal stories of struggle and victory, this episode reveals how discipline isn’t just about willpower—it’s about purpose, mindset, and spiritual strength. You’ll hear:Why praying for discipline can backfire (and what God actually gives you instead)How to make your “...

Most people miss opportunities because they don’t look like opportunities—they look like work.

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick break down how to recognize, seize, and maximize the doors God opens in your life. From a story about a breakthrough moment to Nick’s journey from filming soccer videos on a DSLR to interviewing legends like Pelé and working with world-class athletes, this conversation will change the way you see what’s in front of you. You will realize there is possibility all around you.

The truth is simple: if you’re...

Why do so many people struggle to change—even after a wake-up call like a health scare, a broken relationship, or a major failure? In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick and Garrett break down the real process of transformation that goes deeper than willpower or quick fixes.

They reveal the five essential parts of lasting change:
Humility – the starting point for growth.Submission – aligning with a mission bigger than yourself.Truth – building on an unshakable foundation.Purpose – discovering why your life matters in God’s plan.Consistency – the fruit of transformation that actually sticks.Packed with bi...

Your mindset is the steering wheel of your life—point it the wrong way, and you’ll drift into defeat. Point it the right way, and you’ll build strength, resilience, and purpose.

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick break down the concept of mindset selection—the truth that you have the power to choose how you think, how you respond, and how you grow. Instead of being driven by emotions or circumstances, you can deliberately select a mindset that produces victory.

This conversation is raw, practical, and full of fire. From bib...

What if the life you’re living right now isn’t the life God ultimately has for you? In the SEAL TEAMs, they say that when you've reached your end, you have only hit 10% of your actual limits. Most people quit with 90% left untapped. What does that additional 90% look like in your life?

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick challenge you to step out of small thinking, break free from comfort zones, and embrace the more God has called you to. Too many men settle for survival when God designed them for impact. Duration: 01:05:34

What does it mean to be a “regardless person”?

It means you show up, obey God, and live with conviction—regardless of how you feel, regardless of the cost, and regardless of the circumstances. In a culture built on compromise and convenience, few men live with this kind of strength and consistency.

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick unpack what it looks like to build a regardless spirit—a way of living that doesn’t waver with moods, setbacks, or opposition. This conversation will challenge you to move past excuses, stop negotiatin...

No man plans for tragedy—but every man will face it.
The question is not if but how you’ll respond when life blindsides you.

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick take on the heavy reality of loss, heartbreak, and the unexpected trials that test our faith. Sparked by the recent tragedy with Charlie Kirk, this conversation goes deep into how Warriors respond when faced with tragedy.

You'll learn what a warrior is, what defines his pursuit of destiny, and why Jesus is the ultimate example of a warrior. We also...

“The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.” You’ve probably heard that verse before—but what does it really mean? Is it about being scared of God, or is it something much deeper?

In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick and Josh Craft dive into one of the most misunderstood biblical concepts: the fear of God. From Philippians’ call to “work out your salvation with fear and trembling” to Solomon’s conclusion in Ecclesiastes, we unpack why reverence and awe for God are essential for every Christian man who wants to live with wisdom, str...

What you believe will determine how you live, the risks you take, and the future you build. In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach dive deep into the unseen power of belief.

From how beliefs are formed in childhood to how they guide your choices in adulthood, this conversation explores why some men rise to challenges while others shrink back. Garrett shares raw stories from Navy SEAL training, Nick talks about the weight of everyday struggles, and together they reveal how godly beliefs can turn trials into opportunities. You’ll hear:
Wh...

Our culture says kindness is about being nice, agreeable, and making people feel good. But what if that definition is actually making men weak? In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick and Garrett tackle the misunderstood fruit of the Spirit—kindness.

They dive into the original Greek meaning of the word, chrestotes, which points to being useful, beneficial, and fit for service. Real kindness isn’t about avoiding hard truths—it’s about speaking life, giving what’s needed (not just what feels good), and helping people grow even when it stings.

From mountain hikes and...

In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface challenge one of the most common cultural myths: work-life “balance.” Instead of trying to carefully divide your time, energy, and priorities into equal portions, Garrett and Nick show why true greatness comes from embracing both—not balance. From faith to family, fitness to career, men often feel pressure to sacrifice one area to succeed in another. But as Garrett says, “I don’t like the idea that my family only wins when my business loses. I’m not playing that game.” Drawing from biblical truth, personal discipline, and hard-won l...

Most men don’t have a weakness of skill—they have a weakness of self.
Your identity shapes your future, and your attitude is the evidence of what you really believe.

In this episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick break down the powerful connection between identity and attitude, and why so many men sabotage themselves without realizing it. Through personal stories, biblical truth, and even lessons from psychology, they reveal how your beliefs, values, and daily choices either reinforce—or erode—the man you are becoming.

If you’ve ever wrestled with self-doubt, inconsiste...

Most men drift through life reacting to circumstances instead of living from vision. But the strongest men in history—the ones who led, built, and endured—had a clear picture of who they were and where they were going.

In this episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick dive into what it means to be a vision-strong man—a man whose identity is defined not by culture or emotion but by a standard he sees clearly and lives out daily.

From Michelangelo’s chiseling of David, to the brotherhood of the Navy SEAL teams, to raising...

Life doesn’t send you a calendar invite for adversity—it blindsides you. One moment everything’s fine, the next you’re in the fight of your life.

So how do you prepare for the battles you can’t predict?

In this episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick break down the mindset, tools, and training you need to face any difficult situation. From Bruce Lee’s philosophy on strength, to Navy SEAL anti-interrogation lessons, to simple everyday practices like breath control and visualization—this is a tactical field guide for mental and spiritual endurance.

Don...

Most men don’t ruin their lives in one big, catastrophic decision.
They waste them slowly—choice by choice, day by day—through distraction, compromise, and passivity.

In this raw episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick expose 7 of the most common traps that keep men stuck, ineffective, and blind to their calling. More importantly, they’ll show you how to flip each one into fuel for growth, purpose, and Kingdom impact.

If you’ve ever wondered why you feel busy but not fulfilled, strong but not satisfied, this episode will reveal the blind spot...

The average American man carries 28% body fat—a level the American Council on Exercise considers obese. Add to that the sobering reality that heart disease has held the title of the nation’s #1 killer for decades, with cancer close behind, and you have to wonder: how can the richest nation in history be so unhealthy?

Here’s the kicker—at least one-third of heart disease deaths are preventable, and the #1 lifestyle link to certain cancers is something as avoidable as tobacco use. In other words, much of this suffering isn’t inevitable… it’s a choice.

But in a world...

Warren Buffet said, "You can't make a baby in one month by getting 9 women pregnant" but yet we are all tempted by shortcuts all the time. It is one of the greatest temptations we all face. We feel the limits of our time, our energy, and our mortality… and instead of paying the full price, we try to pay the fast price.

In this episode, we go into the root of the issue for us wanting to take shortcuts. We also give practical examples of shortcut temptations we all face. There are some you will be aware of an...

Want to know the fastest way to grow spiritually, mentally, and relationally?

It’s not another book.
It’s not a new habit tracker.
It’s not a mastermind group.

It’s this: how you respond to feedback.

In this episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick break down one of the most powerful, overlooked growth levers in a man’s life—his response to correction. Most men get defensive. Mature men get better.

This isn’t just about listening—it’s about attitude, identity, and humility before God.

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Questions are powerful because they bring focus. The questions you ask determine the answers you get. So when God asks us a question, it's not because He doesn't know the answer. It's because He is trying to show us something.

In this episode, we look at the questions God asks throughout scripture that were not just for the people He asked, but for all of us. We go into some consistent life lessons that repeat themseleves until you learn them. 

10 questions God Asks 

Genesis 3:9 - Where are you? (To Adam/eve)
Are we hi...

Success isn’t complicated. But it does demand consistency in the basics.

In this no-excuses episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick break down the 5 foundational habits every man must master to stop spinning his wheels and start moving with power.

Whether you're struggling with chaos, burnout, or stagnation—this is your reset. These principles aren’t trendy. They’re timeless. And the men who live by them? They're the ones building lives that actually work.

In This Episode:
The simple daily choices that create unstoppable momentumWhy routine isn’t boring—it’s a weaponThe...

You weren’t meant to live small.
But chasing vision without wisdom? That’ll crush you.

In this episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick unpack what it really means to expand your vision—not through hype or hustle, but through God-anchored clarity and discipline.

This is the blueprint for men who know they’re called to more, but refuse to sacrifice their soul or their family to get there. Whether you're launching a business, building a ministry, or just hungry for more meaning—this conversation will sharpen your direction and challenge your limits.
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Church hurt is real—but so is spiritual immaturity.
In this episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Josh Craft tackle a tough and often emotional topic: when is it actually right to leave your church? And when is it just an excuse that masks offense, ego, or passivity?

They break down the biblical filters, red flags, and internal checkpoints that separate righteous conviction from spiritual cowardice. Whether you’re burned out, frustrated with leadership, or just feeling like “it’s not feeding me anymore,” this conversation will challenge you to look deeper.

🔥 What You’ll Learn:
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Sometimes wisdom isn’t about what you chase—it’s about what you refuse to tolerate.

In this episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick break down four toxic patterns that every man needs to run from—not once, not occasionally, but for the rest of his life.

These aren't minor mindset tweaks. These are identity-level shifts that separate leaders from victims, warriors from the wounded, and men who live on purpose from those who drift and self-destruct.

🔥 What You’ll Learn:The hidden poison of compromise and why it always comes with a billHow sel...

Let’s be real—if your wife doesn’t respect you, it’s not just frustrating… it’s devastating. But here’s the harder truth: it’s probably your fault.

In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett pull no punches as they unpack why so many men struggle with respect in their marriage—and what it actually takes to earn it back.

This isn’t about ego or dominance. It’s about becoming a man your wife can trust, honor, and follow. The good news? Respect is rebuildable—but only if you're ready to face...

In this mind-opening episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett sit down with Bryan Osborne, speaker and apologist with Answers in Genesis, to take aim at one of the most contested foundations in the Bible: Genesis 1–11.

What you believe about the beginning of the world directly impacts how you understand truth, identity, morality, and the Gospel itself. Bryan walks through scientific, biblical, and philosophical evidence to challenge the assumptions of evolution and reaffirm the authority of God's Word—from the very first verse.

If you’ve ever wondered how to defend your faith in today’s cultur...

Modern culture says equality means splitting everything 50/50.
But what if that’s not just inefficient—it’s actually unwise? 

In this unapologetic episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett tackle one of their most controversial convictions yet:
A clearly defined division of labor in the home isn't outdated—it's divine.

Rooted in experience, principle, and biblical design, this conversation will challenge how you think about roles, parenting, identity, and the way you build your family life. If you're tired of shallow slogans and want to raise strong kids with a Kingdom vision—this one is for...

Principles aren’t suggestions—they’re forces. Just like gravity, they govern your outcomes whether you believe in them or not.

In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett revisit one of the most foundational topics to living a life of purpose, excellence, and spiritual clarity: PRINCIPLES.

They break down six core principles that every man is already navigating—often unknowingly—and show you how to align with them so you can build a life that actually works.

🔥 In This Episode:
What principles really are—and why most people confuse them with tacti...

Wisdom isn’t just about making smart decisions—it’s about becoming the kind of man God can trust. In this hard-hitting episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick unpack what it truly means to grow in wisdom—not just intellectually, but spiritually, practically, and biblically.

Prompted by a listener question, they go beyond the usual answers of “read Proverbs and pray,” diving deep into why wisdom without submission to God leads to ruin, how to spot counterfeit wisdom, and what separates godly wisdom from clever manipulation.

🔥 In This Episode:
Why Solomon’s story is a warning, not...

In this fire-filled episode of The Impossible Life, Nick Surface sits down with renowned apologist, evangelist, and cultural analyst Dr. Alex McFarland—a man who’s preached in all 50 states, written over 20 books, and led thousands to truth through bold biblical worldview teaching.

They dive headfirst into the most pressing issues of our time—the attack on truth, gender confusion, biblical illiteracy, and the weakening of the modern Church—and how Christian men can be the leaders our generation so desperately needs.

🔥 What You’ll Hear:
Why the Church in America is losing influence—and how to reclaim...

Worship isn’t just music—it’s what you serve, what you sacrifice for, and who (or what) shapes you. In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life, Nick is joined by returning guest Josh Craft to explore a hard-hitting biblical truth: You become like what you worship. (Psalm 115:8)

From ancient idols to modern obsessions, the conversation uncovers how men today are constantly worshiping—often without realizing it. And the sobering reality is: whatever you give your time, attention, and trust to is forming your identity.

In This Episode:
The law of first mention and what Gen...

The Holy Spirit is the most misunderstood person of the trinity. Often, you will hear the Holy Spirit referred to as an it rather than a person and people question whether He still moves the way we read in Acts chapter 2. 

In this episode, we have on Gwny Daniel from Wales who has spent over 50 years as a Pastor, church planter, and man of God. Gwyn's relationship and fellowship with the Holy Spirit is his source of greatest joy and he shares about his experiences and answers some of the most common questions and misunderstandings people have about t...

In this bold and counter-cultural episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett dive into a hot-button belief that challenges modern thinking about marriage, masculinity, and leadership:

"Don’t be vulnerable with your wife—be transparent."

It’s a concept that might offend, but it’s built on biblical truth, emotional discipline, and hard-won wisdom. Garrett breaks down why vulnerability—defined as making yourself susceptible to emotional wounding—is not your wife’s burden to carry. Instead, God has called men to strength, spiritual leadership, and emotional maturity that protects, not projects.

🔥 In This Episode:
The...

In this episode of The Impossible Life, we sit down with one of the most prolific voices in personal development and motivation—Chris Widener. With over 2,500 speeches, 25 books, and mentorship under legends like Zig Ziglar, Jim Rohn, and John Maxwell, Chris brings decades of wisdom on how to live with purpose, lead with conviction, and influence the world through faith.

You’ll hear Chris’ incredible story—from losing his father at age four, to being a ball boy for the Seattle SuperSonics, to becoming one of the top 50 motivational speakers in the world—and how God used every step to sh...

In this thought-provoking episode of The Impossible Life, Nick Surface sits down with author, speaker, and modern-day philosopher Josh Craft to unpack one of the most misunderstood principles in both spiritual and personal growth: God’s way is built on process, not outcomes.

From ancient philosophy to biblical wisdom, this episode explores why your success isn’t measured by what you achieve—but by how you live. Together, Nick and Josh reveal how the world trains us to chase goals, hacks, and results, but God trains us to walk in faithfulness, discipline, and virtue.

🔥 What You'll Learn: Duration: 00:36:16

Most people fear death because they’ve never learned how to die daily.
In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett walk through the three deaths every believer must face—the death of the flesh, the death of faulty thinking, and the death of the heart.

This is not about physical death. It’s about the daily dying that leads to true spiritual life, purpose, and strength. With real stories, raw truth, and biblical perspective, this conversation will challenge the way you approach comfort, emotion, control, and calling.

Level up your life with I...

Ever feel overwhelmed and you don’t know why?

Or find yourself reacting way too strongly to something small—like a casual comment, a minor setback, or an unexpected bill? You're not broken.

You're just not getting to the root of the problem.
And today on The Impossible Life Shortcast, Nick Surface walks you through a powerful, repeatable process to identify, disarm, and reframe the emotions that keep sabotaging your peace, focus, and purpose.

🔎 In This Shortcast, You’ll Learn:
Why your heart is a follower, not a leader—and what Jeremiah 17:9 says about...

You were made for purpose. You were designed for greatness. But not everyone fulfills their destiny—and it’s not because God fails. It’s because we do. In this no-holds-barred episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett unpack 3 ways men kill their destiny—often without even realizing it. Inspired by biblical examples, elite military discipline, and real-life failures, this episode is your guide to avoiding the spiritual traps that sabotage your future. 🔥 The 3 Destiny Killers: 1. Disobedience
Obedience is not optional—it's the path to purpose.Small compromises today become big failures tomorrow.Garrett shares a SEAL training story that re...

What if the tiny decisions you think don’t matter are the very ones sabotaging your life? In this fire-breathing, practical episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick bring sharp tools and deep truths to expose the root of complacency—and how to kill it before it kills your purpose. Nick opens by breaking down how “Today Matters” isn’t just a nice phrase—it’s a lifestyle. He shares how a single conversation about the time we spend in traffic (8,600+ hours in a lifetime!) changed his entire view on daily decisions. Garrett brings the intensity as always, sharing how his life-a...

In this raw and powerful follow-up to his first appearance, Cody Bobay returns to The Impossible Life podcast to go deeper than ever before. You may know Cody as a U.S. Navy veteran, actor, author of Soulcon, and an emerging action star in the upcoming film Savage—but in this episode, we explore the spiritual battles behind the public victories. This is not a highlight reel. It’s a deep dive into what it means to follow Jesus when the lights go out. Cody opens up about walking through one of the darkest seasons of his life—7.5 months of intens...

Adversity isn’t optional—your response is. In this episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick tackle one of the most pivotal mindset shifts every person of faith must confront: Will you face adversity as a warrior or wallow in self-pity? Drawing from biblical truth, real-life struggle, and personal transformation, this conversation pulls no punches. Garrett opens up about his own internal war—the part of him that wants to go to battle, and how God uses war as fire to reveal, refine, and prepare us. You’ll explore the two paths every person faces in adversity: 😔 The Path of Self-Pit...

In this episode, we finally take on a subject we've referenced in countless episodes but never explored in full: the heart—not the organ, but the spiritual and emotional center that defines your life, your choices, and your walk with God.We lay out why the heart is one of the most mentioned concepts in the Bible (830+ times)—yet never once referring to the physical organ.From Proverbs 4:23 to Matthew 22:37, we show how Scripture points again and again to the heart as the center of our desires, morality, sin, and spiritual transformation. Garre...

Brotherhood isn't just a buzzword—it’s God's design for men to thrive.In today’s episode, we dive deep into what true brotherhood is, why it’s crucial in the life of every man, and how to build it in a way that actually transforms lives. This isn’t about casual friendship or surface-level small groups—this is about intentional, mission-driven, Christ-centered relationships that sharpen, support, and sustain men through the highs and lows of life.Inspired by Josh Broome’s story of finding freedom from addiction through real brotherhood, we explore what m...

Warning: This episode contains mature themes and is not suitable for young ears.In today’s powerful & raw episode, we’re joined by Josh Broome, a man whose life journey is nothing short of miraculous. From a childhood marked by fatherlessness and a desperate search for identity, to the dark spiral of the porn industry, to a radical transformation through the grace of Jesus Christ—Josh’s story will leave you speechless, inspired, & filled with hope.Josh was born to a teenage mother and grew up without a consistent father figure, always feeling like he needed to prove...

Tired of running late? This episode provides a no-nonsense, actionable guide to mastering your time and never being late again. 

Why are some people always on time while others consistently struggle? This episode delves into the psychology of punctuality, emphasizing the need to truly value time and understand its impact on your reputation. We then transition into practical strategies, including planning backward, setting "set points," and the SEAL concept of adding contingency time. Learn practical steps to transform your time management and enhance your reputation.

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Dreams are often glamorized in society and we love seeing a dream fulfilled in movies and our favorite stories. The difference between seeing it in a movie and living it out is that there are no montages in real life. If you want to see the dreams in your head turn to reality, you're going to need wisdom, grit, and endurance for the journey.In this episode, we show you the loop you will be in as you pursue your dreams so you can understand what to expect and be equipped for the journey. So many people ask what their...

Tired of being stuck in the same patterns? This episode provides a roadmap for real change.  We unpack the meaning of repentance ("metanoia"), emphasizing the need to shift your mindset, develop a long-term vision that pulls you forward, and make disciplined choices in the moment.  Drawing on personal stories and practical advice, this episode empowers listeners to take control of their direction, break free from limiting habits, and embrace a life of intentional growth.

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How do you move forward when God only shows you the first step? This episode tackles the challenge of uncertainty in pursuing God's purpose. Through a retrospective lens of 200 episodes, we share impactful lessons on personal development, faith, and the process of building. Discover untold stories, growth insights, and practical encouragement to help you embrace the unknown and confidently pursue God's calling in your life.

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Struggling to build deep, meaningful friendships? You're not alone! This episode provides a practical guide to creating lasting connections. We discuss why friendships are essential, exploring both the psychological benefits highlighted by the Harvard 85-year study and the scriptural emphasis on connection found in passages like Psalm 133:1,3 and Acts 2:42-47. Learn how to move beyond superficial buddies and cultivate the fulfilling friendships you desire. The impact they have on your overall well-being can NOT be overstated.This episode also delves into the practicalities of choosing friends wisely and navigating friendships through different seasons of life. We emphasize the significance of...

Technology expert Dr. Nicholas Kardaras joins us for our 200th episode to discuss the profound impact of technology on our daily lives. We delve into understanding tech addiction, its short and long-term consequences, and effective interventions. Learn crucial strategies from Dr. Kardaras on how to foster a healthy relationship with technology in children as well as learning how to spot the signs that tech is a problem both in kids and in adults.We also discuss and define addiction and hear specific cases where intervention was required as well as getting guidelines for when to introduce tech into kids lives...

Burnout is a common experience for people in modern society. This episode tackles burnout head-on, combining insights from the World Health Organization's definition with a powerful, faith-based solution. We discuss the importance of alignment with God's grace, reframing tension, fueling yourself with purpose, and the necessity of intentional rest to break free from the burnout cycle and find lasting peace.Burnout didn't exist in society as a term until 1974. It is a mental condition that is not considered medical which is good news. Why? Because you control your thoughts, attitudes and actions which means you can overcome burnout. This episode...

Every person listening to this is will be part of an organization whether it's a family, church, business, or otherwise. Every organization has a culture and that culture will determine what grows both good and bad. Often times we are unaware of culture until it gets so bad we are forced to confront it.In this episode, we show you how to elevate the culture of your organization by elevating the standards. Standards have ways of approaching them. Some are trying to meet them, others uphold them, and a small few will raise them. We show you how to determine...

Being a great husband is part of being all that God made you to be as a man. Your wife is a gift to you and the Bible even says she is favor from the Lord. So the question for every man is, "How are you treating your favor?"In this episode, we give 3 steps to be a great husband and foster the marriage of your dreams. That may sound overly simple, but it comes with some prerequisite understanding. If you're a man that wants to have a marriage that is beyond anything you can ask, think, or imagine, listen...

Followers of Christ are set apart and have the Spirit of God in them which sounds like the ultimate advantage. Yet, so often we see Christians portrayed as hypocritical, weak, boring, and not making any impact in the earth. Something is missing.In this episode, we look at what's possible for followers of Christ and talk about 3 practical advantages we have because of following God and His principles. This is not a theoretical episode where we tell you how things "should be", but rather show you these super powers working practically to give you an unmatchable advantage.  We also talk a...

Doubt can creep into anyone's life, but the Bible provides the template for increasing faith and overcoming doubt. In this episode, we explore key biblical themes and practical strategies to help you defeat doubt. We also look at the "rules of the game" for following God so we can understand what our responsibility is.This episode will give you the practical steps so you can align yourself with God's word, recall His track record in your life, and practice gratitude to cultivate a stronger, more resilient faith.

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Do you feel stuck in your life's narrative? This episode dives into the power of changing your identity story. Learn how your past experiences shape your present, and discover practical steps to reframe your perspective, take control of your future, and create a life aligned with your true potential. Uncover the connection between your beliefs, your story, and your ability to transform.This episode is powerful and while we don't claim to rewrite your identity in a short 45 minute episode, your understanding will be unlocked and you can begin to dive into identity and shaping the story of your life.<...

Lust can rob you of the fulfilling intimacy and connection God designed for marriage. This podcast offers honest talk and actionable steps for married couples seeking to overcome lust, strengthen their bond, and experience a more satisfying relationship. Learn how to prioritize your spouse, address the cost of lust, and create a marriage centered on Christ.Tools and tactics episodes give you the practical steps you need. These are rooted in scripture, proven, and easy to follow. 

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In this episode, Nick and Garrett discuss the essential qualities needed to maximize personal growth and achieve one's God-given purpose. Inspired by a listener's question, they draw parallels between physical training and life development, emphasizing that mastering the basics is crucial before pursuing greatness.    We highlight five key qualities that require no talent but are fundamental for success: a desire to grow, a willingness to learn, patience, hope, and having a relationship with Christ.    We use the analogy of SEAL training to illustrate the importance of mastering these foundational elements, which they compare to the "basics" that soldiers must possess before...

Anger and losing your temper is very common despite the destructive impact it can have. In some ways, it is almost glorified particularly in men and seen as something that makes you powerful when in fact anger means you lost control and you are at your weakest.In this episode, we break down where anger comes from, the real impact it has on your life, and give you the exact process to take control and stop losing your temper. Anger is not a sin and everyone gets anger. Giving in to your anger and allowing it to control you makes...

In the last of our 3 part series, we focus on the function of leadership and God's design for men to lead. We contrast this with the default thinking of leadership being superior and instead look at the model Jesus provides for leadership.We talk about the beliefs and mindset, practical application, and skills needed so you can understand who God has made you to be. We also look at specific scenarios where leadership is more challenging as well as the part a leader plays to enable others to play their part at the highest level.If you want more on...

In part 2, we get into specific functions of a Godly man with the focus being seed sowing and weight bearing. As a man, you're made to work and carry weight according to God's design. This is in sharp contrast to a society where retiring early is "living the dream". We go into the specific beliefs needed for this, the rewards, what you must do, and the price of not bearing weight. We also look at the function of seed sowing for men. Far more than sowing a physical seed for reproduction or farming, this is an understanding of what it l...

The vision of the Impossible Life is to change the perception of what it means to be a Godly man. God created men in his image with a mandate to do the work he's been given and bring about God's plans on the earth. This requires strength, tenacity, and a deep relationship with God. However this is not what we see among Christian men today.In this episode, we dive deep into the vision of the Impossible Life and pain our picture of the possible of a Godly man as we read it in the Bible. We give the lay...

Anxiety is something everyone will have to face at some point. The worst thing you can do is to be unprepared for it.This tools and tactics episode will give you tactics to deal with it in the moment, medium term, and a long term plan to completely overcome it. This is not theoretical as we both use it effectively and have done for years.In this episode we also talk about where anxiety comes from, how to increase and decrease it, and also give practical examples of the application of the tools and tactics we give you. 

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No one likes a liar, but we all lie to ourselves for a variety of reasons. Sometimes we are unaware of it while other times the truth is too painful for us to face. The truth will set us free, but often times its very difficult for us to know what is true.In this episode, we break down the cycle of how we get to the point of believing lies. We also give you the 3 most popular lies we believe and show you how they rob you in your marriage, mindset, health, friendships, and all areas of life. If y...

Bible reading is essential for a disciple of Jesus and we are commanded to be ready in season and out of season and to correctly handle the word of truth. While many Christians know this, the Bible can be difficult to understand as it was written thousands of years ago in a different language.In this episode, we give you tips to help you get the most out of your Bible reading. The aim is to help you understand what you read so it becomes more meaningful and you can better apply it to your life.Tools we mentioned in...

Boldness is a quality that many men desire and admire in others. It is actually a hallmark of the Holy Spirit in your life. And yet so many times, we get stuck in our own heads debating over what to do or say.In this episode, we break down the 3 types of men there are in the world. We give a different perspective on what's required as well as giving you the 3 steps to living boldly. Our desire in creating this episode is to unleash men to understand the training that's required so they can advance boldly and not live i...

We've all heard about time management or budgeting for money, but almost no one talks about budgeting for energy. No wonder we are all tired and looking for the next hit of caffeine.In this bonus tools and tactics episode, we give you the energy budget framework. We will tell you what the thought process is of energy budgeting and then take you through the 3 step process to implement it so you can start TODAY!It takes energy to be great. Start using this tool today so you can show up the way you want in all areas of life.<...

We all want to look back on our lives and know we lived well, but sometimes you just need to win right now! You want to unlock your next level NOW! Whether you're stuck in your marriage, finance, health, business, relationship with God, or whatever it may be, there is a cycle you are in whether you realize it or not.In this episode, we break down the growth cycle so you can understand where you're at. We also talk about how to truly understand what your next level looks like. We then give you the key qualities to help...

Just like they downloaded patches in the Matrix for new skills and abilities, Garrett is here to give you a "patch" for your mind. This episode will be a level up for how you deal with problems and conflict.In this shortcast, Garrett will give you his mindset for dealing with problems, conflict, and difficulty so you can not only defeat them, but come out grateful for them. 

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In society, we have a glamorized view of winning. We celebrate winners and we demand that they keep on winning. But that is not what life is actually like. In life, we have a lot more race than finish line and learning to win ugly is critical. Life's race is more a test of endurance rather than a sprint.In this episode, we tear down the traditional view of winning, show you how to navigate the tension between the ideal and the real, and address the twisted logic of self care. We give 3 keys to victory to REALLY win big...

We know that everyone is busy and sometimes it's nice to just be told exactly what to do to achieve a certain outcome. That's why we are starting the tools and tactics bonus series.First up is habits. Lots of people try to build habits and fail. In this bonus mini episode, we give you the 3 elements of effective habits and break them down in detail. We also apply them to the 2 most popular habits people try to form for New Year's resolutions. Those habits are saving money and healthy eating. We tell you exactly what to do in real...

What's my purpose? What is the plan for my life? These are questions that can eat at you as you wait to find "your thing". However, there is a template for understanding the plan for your life and it involves work. There is work for every person to do and that's exactly how God designed it. When you understand that, you can make sense of your world and find purpose in the ordinary.In this episode, we look at the template of man and the work that he's been given to do regardless of who you are. We break down...

If you have breath in your lungs, then God has a purpose for your life. And part of that purpose is greatness. Greatness means you got it all. You got 100% of what God had in store for you. What that will look like for each person is different, but this is an episode to help you on that journey.

So often in life, we underestimate the cost, difficulty, and time that it will take to achieve a desired goal. This causes so many people to quit on their goal simply because they weren't prepared for the battles and...

In a culture obsessed with achievement, it's tempting to look at the tangibles when we tell the stories of success. So often it is the intangibles that drive people forward to greatness. One of these intangibles is being all in.

All in is more than just trying hard or not having a plan B. All in is the mindset and qualities that make you inevitable. In all journeys, you will encounter resistance, opportunities to quit, and good reasons why it won't work out. And yet still you continue. The thought process of the inevitable was best summed up...

Everyone has a concept of strength. So often we think of strength in physical terms and we don't stop to define weakness. We also don't think of where we draw our strength and that strength comes in many forms.

In this episode, we look at the sources of strength that originate in spirit, soul and body. We redefine strength and weakness bringing the unique perspective of the SEAL teams and scripture so you can look at your life through a different lens. We give common examples where we are all prone to weakness even if we wouldn't call...

This is a daily motivation declaration written by Garrett to listen to as often as needed. This is Garrett's declaration he wrote for himself that is true for anyone following Jesus. You have a plan and purpose for your life. You have to choose purpose one decision at a time.

Always remember that TODAY MATTERS! God has given you work to do that he's prepared before hand. Be a faithful steward.

Be strong and courageous, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go!

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