Jim Bennett - Dream Dare Dazzle
By: Jim Bennett
Language: en
Categories: Education, Self Improvement, Business, Management, Society, Culture, Relationships
Helping People to Dream. Dare. and Dazzle their world. Empowering Leaders without title to enable their family, community and organisation to be Stronger. Smarter. Safer!
Episodes
Heart Leadership: Ask - Listen - Create Space
Jan 11, 2026The Power of questions may be the most underrated and overlooked leverage we have on our organisations.
It is a powerful decision making device and a powerful learning tool. Most of us aren't used to thinking in the terms of questions; we have to practice developing information and idea generating questions and learn to 'package' them in an empowering way to bring understanding to the isssue(s) being explored.
When we combine that with creating space for ideas to develop and actively listen to responses we all grow to greater levels of understaning and...
Heart Leadership: The power of connections
Jan 04, 2026Leaders in spirit respecting workplaces are deeply connected to everyone. Leaders love, value and respect both themselves and others.
Trust and faith in others is a given, it is unconditional. When we seek connection, we give up win-loose games - we seek perspectives on situations that allows all of us to 'win'.....
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Heart Leadership: Integrity and Commitment
Dec 28, 2025Heart Leadership is all about living with integrity to which some would call it "walking the talk" - do what you say you'll do. In heart leadership it's more than that - integrity is a wholeness that encompasses out belief system on at such a deep level that it is impossible to split that which we believe from how we act. Integrity is believing, thinking, speaking and acting in alighnment with our personal values.....
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Heart Leadership: Emotional Intelligence
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Duration: 00:35:39Heart Leadership: Respect
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Duration: 00:19:16Heart Leadership: the power of possibilites
Dec 07, 2025Spirit respecting Heart Leadership sees the possibilites in every situation and this makes risk taking so much easier. An environment that encourages people to experiment with possibilites and to make mistakes is a fertile ground for creativity and innovation...
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Leading from the heart
Nov 30, 2025Traditional Managers autopilot there way through business - particularily through their behaviours and decisions. They operate from assumptions and 'certainties' that haven't been challenged for a very long time.
When we Lead from the Heart, we want as many people as possible challenging as many realities as possible, contriburing as much pertinent information as possible and collaborately making the best decsions for the organisation as possible...
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Courage of introducing spirituality within the workplace
Nov 23, 2025It has been said by Nancy Anderson that "courage is not the absence of of fear: rather it is the ability to take action in th face of fear."
I have found that's what it's like in introducing heart/spiritual leadership within the workplace. When we recognise we don't live in 'little boxes' of work lives, community lives, lives as workers and employers and lives as parents, spouses or children. We live in one life where the same values and behaviours apply to all then we experience and inner peace. We have freedom to truly express ourselves in a...
Leading a spirit respecting organisation
Nov 16, 2025I believe that leading a spirit-respecting workplace is easier than managing a traditional organisation - it tends to take on a life of its own.
However, at the same time, leading this kind of workplace is also harder, particularily for those of us that are compelled to control the uncontrollable. (smile).
Most of us have clear ideas about what should happen and not happen in organisations and our reponsibilites as leaders within them. These become the rules by which we do our work and simplify the workplace. It simplifies the way we do businesss by keeping...
Heart Leadership: Sourcing the fire within
Nov 09, 2025For me work bridges the gap between the spiritual and the rational in each of us. A gap that is continualy looking for wholeness and completion.
Spirit is the fire within each and everyone of us that ignites us with passion, purpose, love, energy and courage. This fire lives in us and sets us alive and ablaze when we are near our work - not just our job or career but a personal calling or purpose that is spiritually and emotionally sustaining.....
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The Fire Within: Spirituality
Nov 01, 2025Spirituality, distinct from religion is a challenging topic because it can be a very importand part of religion in its pure form.
Respectfully discussing the spiritual nature of people without invading the realm of personal religious freedom or being perceived as been trying to convert someone to a sectarian religion is even more challenging.
If spirituality isn't necessarily religion, then what is it? How does it look, sound and feel like within the workplace? Let's explore in more depth.....
Additional Data
The Power of NOW - Eckhart Tolle
https://rootsandbright...
Heart Leaders are no pushover
Oct 26, 2025I believe there are two paths of leadership - the path of fear and the path of Courage and Heart. Heart Leadership where people are connected though spirit, joy and passion in their work.
To follow the path of Heart Leadership takes courage it's where we challenge old assumptions that may keep us from discovering new posibilites. We look at similar situations and explore with others how it will be different this time. We balance the quantifiable with the intuitive with vision and values, and with our belief in our ability to produce a positive result.
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Who are Heart Leaders?
Oct 19, 2025People who lead from the Heart have learned courage. They have discovered 'spirit' - that buoyant energy deep within that flourishes when what athletes call "in the flow" where everything seems possible. It's harnessing that energy and enriching your and everyones life. Let's explore....
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Heart Leadership: Introduction
Oct 12, 2025Heart Leaders are real human beings beings leading real people. Leaders who lead from the heart have a high level of self-awareness.They know who they are at their core - the good, the bad and the ugly. They don't crave for new things to do like a drug that keeps parts of themselves in wee boxes - let's explore....
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The 7 x P's of Transformational Leadership in Action
Sep 28, 2025We/you have an oppotuity to awaken up to the life we/you are following just now. If it's not fully working for you, if it seems as if it's "running away from you" you have an opportunity to take control today. Follow the x 7 'P's' of Transformational leadership and retake control of your personal and professional life. Let's take action with:
PurposePromisesProjectsPersuasionPraisingPerseverancePreparationAdditional Reference Data
MindNode Next Transformational Leadership Mind Map
https://www.icloud.com/share/0aeTUs-AIFeLC5-eoEcBhm0WA#Transformational_Leadership
Please click on the '>' to expand the Principle...
Preparation Principle: fail to prepare = prepare to fail
Sep 21, 2025Is failing to prepare the death call of transformational leadership?
Yes, but not in the manner you may be accustomed to. The planning I’m recommending is the planning for undergoing the individual transformation required to lead the organisational transformation you're looking for - for your personal and professional life.
People at work or in your personal life who have achieved something extraordinary and who live lives known as rewarding and uplifting have a clear and compelling plan for achieving what’s important to them - let's explore in more details.....
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Transformational Leadership: leaving the safe harbour of the known
Sep 14, 2025From time to time you’ll find that what you’re doing is no longer working. I have worked with technology executives for many years. One of the hardest things they have had to do is leave behind the enjoyment of the technical side of their work.
They entered the technology field because of an enjoyment or skill in what they are doing and have become enamoured with the intricacies of their technology. Although loving what you do and being good at it is essential to success at work, they’ve lost sight of the business value technology brings t...
Transformational Leadership: Preparation - purposeful versus an accidental life
Sep 07, 2025Living a purposeful life and not an accidental life - accidental doesn’t mean accidental in the sense that your leadership and life are mere accidents. But what I find with that with nearly every executive and entrepreneur I’ve ever worked with is that the demands of their work are inhibiting them from designing the leadership and life that allows them to flourish.
The reality is that your transformational leadership journey will be filled with obstacles and barriers you anticipated as well as those you didn’t - let's look at our options....
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Transformational leadership: doing your greatest work
Aug 31, 2025Every transformational leader wants to do compelling, meaningful great work, and they see their leadership purpose as the starting point for doing this. Yet, they can grind to a halt at a barrier.
Leaders who are successful and satisfied have learned how to address the four most common barriers that inhibit them from accomplishing their purpose. By understanding these leadership barriers, leaders are better prepared to overcome the barriers and lead purposefully rather than accidentally - doing their greatest work.
Additional Support Data
TED talk: the power of Purpose - Ashley...
Transformational leadership: Tortoise and the hare in organisations
Aug 24, 2025We continue our exploration of the principle of Perseverance and look at the "Tortoise and the hare" within organisations.
The tortoise represents that part of our work and professional lives that can only be accomplished with perseverance and a protective outer shell. The destination is clear and in focus, but it comes forward in baby steps. The hare represents the fast-twitch muscles required to get out of the blocks fast, but that cannot be sustained over long periods of time. You need both capabilities but will remain transactional in your benefits if you try and have your workforce d...
Transformational Leadership Perseverance Principle Intro
Aug 17, 2025I and my colleagues have found in our coaching and consulting work that when it comes to transformational performance, talent is overrated and perseverance is underestimated.
Perseverance is prominently displayed in the world of politics, business, and sports. Serena Williams once said about success, “Luck has nothing to do with it, because I have spent many, many hours, countless hours, on the court working for my one moment in time, not knowing when it would come.”
The Perseverance Principle asks How badly do I want my purpose? Will I overcome all the obstacles that will surely come...
Transformational leadership: diary optimisation for peak performance
Aug 10, 2025This may be the shortest podcast in our journey exploring transformational leadership. However, it may have the longest shelf life.
The diary grooming process is an ultra-short (five minute) process of reviewing your day as a transformational leader. It is a process of finding the areas of your leadership that are going well and accentuating them, along with the areas that are not going well and reducing or eliminating them. It's all about optimisation, it's about getting your 'flywheel of life' turning as efficiently as possible and maintaing it at peak health.
Diary grooming/optimisation is s...
Transformational Leadership: purification of limiting beliefs and behaviours
Aug 03, 2025The 'compliment' to praising is purification - its purpose is to help us identify areas that are negatively impacting performance while building our credibility as leaders. Purification is about removing obstacles and barriers to higher performance, both for the leader as well as for your Team and colleagues.
Transformational leaders isolate one or two harmful beliefs or behaviours and work to eliminate or remove them.
Empowering Resource
For a deeper understanding of techniques to help change beliefs:
Overcoming Limiting Beliefs with NLP Techniques
https://unleashyourpower.com/blog/overcoming-limiting-beliefs-with-nlp/
Leadership: Praising with sincerity, timeliness and specificity
Jul 27, 2025Praise will act as a catalyst for even higher levels of success when three praise aspects are present. Stakeholders know if a leader is paying attention to what they’re doing and sincere praise creates a positive feedback loop in which what gets noticed and rewarded gets magnified.
The three aspects are:
sinceritytimeliness andspecificityLet's explore in more depth...
More info
Forbes: recognition - the key to 2025 employee engagement?
https://www.forbes.com/sites/karadennison/2024/09/13/why-recognition-could-be-the-key-to-employee-engagement-in-2025/
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Transforming Leadership: Unlocking Potential
Jul 20, 2025Praise helps people feel valued, heard, and appreciated. People who feel valued, heard, and appreciated work with more passion, experiment, take risks, and grow at rates far greater than those who don’t.
In every organisation there are pockets of workers/coleagues potential lying dormant. When you ask these people if they could do more the resounding answer is yes.
What’s fascinating is that when you ask people why they don’t accomplish more or what they are capable of accomplishing the number one answer is because they choose not to. They could if they wanted...
Transforming Leadership: Praising Principle - living in fear
Jul 13, 2025Far too many of us live in fear when it comes to our business lives. For some of us, it’s financial fear. For others, it’s emotional. No matter the source or type of fear, fear has a debilitating effect on personal and professional growth over extended periods of time. Fear can be a catalyst for action, but accelerated progress can never be made beneath the shadow of a fearful mindset.
The best way to fight fear is to identify what causes it. If you can determine the cause of fear, you can redirect it and make it l...
Transformational leadership: Persuading people to say yes
Jul 06, 2025Let's talk about how to present your ideas in such a way that people will want to say yes to them.
There are eight strategies for having someone say yes to your requests. Some of the strategies are more mindset related and others are more skill set related. But in each case the strategies are a positive step forward to hearing someone say yes to your ideas.
The 8 strategies are:
Put Others FirstBe Open to Being PersuadedExude ConfidenceBe in The MomentUse the If/Then StrategyThe Magic of Three Yeses StrategyThe Powerful Language Strategy The Show-Me-the-Money St...
Powerful Communications: active listening
Jun 29, 2025It has been said that the eyes are the window into the soul. If true, the ears are the doorway to the heart. It is by our ears we listen to what’s important to someone.
We not only hear the words they are using, but hear the tone of voice, inflection, and can distinguish between the emotions expressed and listen for what is hoped for moving forward. Our ears afford us the ability to do so, but all too frequently we don’t take the time to fully hear what's being said.
Let's see, hear and...
Transformational leadership: Crafting clear expectations
Jun 22, 2025Having clear expectations can reduce the strife in your personal life and professional life by 50 percent as well as increase your performance. You do that by getting clear about the expectations you have with someone.
Clear expectations are rooted in seven fundamental steps:
Reafirm the PurposeDefine SuccessClarify Roles, Responsibilites and Time FramesClarify Decision MakingSchedule Status UpdatesAddress The IssuesConfirm Understanding and AgreementLet's explore in more depth....
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The Three Part Leadership Persuasion Process
Jun 15, 2025If you are in a leadership position, you have likely read about how to have teams and workers you lead do something they may not want to do. A day doesn't go by that you don’t directly or indirectly persuade someone. You have high hopes for having people follow your lead and act in ways that foster innovation, growth, and passion.
But in everyday life, leaders are dealing with the realty that, all too often, people don’t do what they’re asked and/or behave in ways that don’t support the best interests of the customer...
Transformational Leadership: Persuasion Principle Intro
Jun 08, 2025Persuasion in transformational leadership is not about eloquent and stirring speeches like Martin Luther King’s "I Have A Dream" speech.
Persuasion in transformational leadership is about positive influence, not manipulation. In its purest form persuasion is the shaping with full integrity the thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and behaviours of others. Let's examine in more detail....
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Transformational Project Excellence
Jun 01, 2025Every organisation has deep reservoirs of talent that are not achieving their full potential. There are many reasons why full potential is not achieved and excellence is not cascaded throughout an organisation.
You will no doubt have your own list, but after working with organisations for many years I have found a set of 20 reasons why talent is not realising its full potential - let's explore, then look, hear and feel a holistic leadership development process that is focussed on talent maximisation, barrier elimination and results acceleration....
Resource:
Covey's 7 Habits of Highly Effective...
Transformational Leadership: Cascading excellence
May 25, 2025There is a common misconception that people resist change. I believe people don’t mind change. What they mind is feeling bad about it.
If you want transformational levels of growth, understanding how the change impacts workers and stakeholders, how the change makes them feel must be recognised, respected, reflected on with a warm heart and responded to accordingly - let's explore....
Support Data
Rocking your Strategy
https://rockyourstrategy.com/how-to-cascade-strategy-to-deliver-excellent-results/
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Transformational Leadersship: Shining LIGHT
May 18, 2025Far too often leaders feel overwhelmed by the everyday demands of their jobs and they in turn disengage from the ideal of workers flourishing and doing their best work. They love the idea of workers flourishing and of a flourishing bottom line, but are not actively engaged in a leadership project that allows it to happen.
For me, it's about shining LIGHT:
Listening
Integrity
Generosoty
Heart
Truth
Let's explore....
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Transformational Leadership: Why is business flourishing in short supply
May 11, 2025I would suggest that flourishing is in short supply because of lowered standards. Customers have become accustomed to airlines and railways that regularly delay flights/trains and dismiss passenger frustration; they’ve come to expect banks and other financial institutions to be more concerned with the bank’s financial wellbeing than the customers. Also, political narratives has been degraded to unimaginable levels. Let's explore in more depth.....
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Transformational leadership: Flourishing Leaders, workers and customers
May 04, 2025Are you, your workers and customers flourishing? Are you faring well, prospering, highly productive, excelling, and living boldly? Let's explore and see what that means to you and your stakeholders.
Resource:
Flourishing at Work and Flourishing in Life
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/human-flourishing/202109/flourishing-at-work-and-flourishing-in-life
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Transformational Leadership: Projects Principle - Focus
Apr 27, 2025If you are a financial advisor, accountant, attorney, engineer, IT professional, Human Resources specialist, or in any technically trained profession, you need to fall out of love with what you do and change your Focus to falling in love with making your clients’, customers’, and worksrs’ lives better for having worked with you.
This sends a powerful message that this person can improve the quality of my life. This is transformational leadership in Action.
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Transformational Leadership 3: Projects Principle - intro
Apr 20, 2025In many organizations the word project creates a negative response. Too many projects are
cumbersome and lumbering. They’re populated with people who view the project as a time suck and who lack creativity and enthusiasm for doing meaningful work.
Also, because they feel over scheduled, overworked, and overwhelmed, they want to check off the project team meeting on their to-do list and go back to more important work.
Let's explore what this really means from a Transformational Leadership perspective.....
Resource:
Mind Maps for Effective Project Management: Free Online Acc...
Transformational Leadership: Prioritisation
Apr 13, 2025When everythig is a priority, nothing is a priority
What is a priority? The word priority comes from the Anglo-Norman French word priorie, which means “elder or superior of a religious order.” A priory is a small monaster y or nunnery governed by a prior or a prioress. In today’s world, a priority is something governed by a higher order.
In this podcast I’ll make the case that your highest priorities are best derived from your purpose and promises. Doing this purposefully as opposed to accidentally is the purpose of our podcast....
Transformational Leadership: 10 advantages of having a compelling purpose
Apr 06, 2025When you work through the exercises of the Purpose Principle, you come to the Promises Principle with high hopes of having your purpose become real.
This is a substantial piece of leadership development that while challenging, will provide you with 10 significant advantages. When viewed together these advantages become the catalyst for you accomplishing transformational work and creating a mindset of passion, innovation, and growth.....
Resource
The Meaning of Life: Letters from Extraordinary People and their Answer to Life's Biggest Question, James Bailey
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Meaning-Life-Letters-Extraordinary-Question
D...
Leadership: Promises - as a tool to influence behaviour
Mar 30, 2025Promises influence people’s behaviour in one of two ways:
A promise kept builds trust, respect, and credibility.A promise broken does the opposite.
Broken promises not only have an impact on the task and technical aspects of work, but they also have a much greater negative impact on the relational aspects of leadership.
In order for promises to have a positive influence on other people there are three must have aspects of a promise that have to be considered. Let's explore....
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Transformational Leadership: aprehension, ambiguity and uncertainty flourish without 'promise'.
Mar 23, 2025What is the root of apprehension, ambiguity, and uncertainty?
At the centre of each word is fear. If I am apprehensive, I am afraid of the unknown. When ambiguity is present I am unsure of what might happen. With uncerainty, I might be afraid about what I should do next. I don’t want to fail or lose something important, so I hold back.
In each case, smart, talented, and well-meaning workers stand on the sidelines rather than running onto to pitch and 'having a go". This is a recipe for underperformance.
Far too ma...
Tranformational Leadership: Promise Principle Insights
Mar 16, 2025A promise is an abiding commitment, an assurance to others that we will or will not do something.
Promises are voluntary and not ever forced. Promises must be voluntary. When promises are made solely to placate someone or to get a foot in the door only to turn the tables and renegotiate the outcome, the promises come across as hollow and manipulative.
They are about so much more - let's explore.....
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Leadership: Purpose - our ideal day
Mar 09, 2025Can every day be an ideal day? No, it can’t.
Will the choices we make increase the possibility that the number of days we experience as an ideal day increase? Yes, most certainly
Here’s my bold ascertion: living an ideal day is a choice. There’s no way around the fact that we have a choice as to how we choose to plan and live our days.
Let's Explore this principle in more depth.....
Reference:
Mans Search for Meaning, Viktor Frankl
https://archive.org/download/frankl-viktor-mans-search-for-meaning-1963/FRANKL_Viktor_M...
Leadership: Purpose - Your Brand
Mar 02, 2025Organisations know about the power of brands. Brands create value, loyalty, and, when compelling and distinctive, they create profound emotional experiences for customers that attract more customers who want the same experience.
What is not recognised as much is that a leader’s brand can be a catalyst for transformational growth.
Transformational leaders no longer rely solely on their organisation’s brand to guide their behaviour.
Transformational leaders develop their own individual brand.
Resource:
Personal Branding Examples
https://ohhmybrand.com/personal-branding-examples/
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Leadership: Purpose - Be Distinctive
Feb 23, 2025The key idea about being distinctive is less about being something to people that you aren’t and more about aligning what you are gifted and talented at doing in highly differentiated ways for people who value it.
Resource:
This I believe....
https://thisibelieve.org/
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Tranformational Leadership Purpose: Love - Talent - Values
Feb 16, 2025Dramatic performance personally and professionally, are closer than you think when you have a clearly defined purpose. Improvements of almost all types in organisations start with one word: clarity.
It is used with respect to expectations, results, value, competencies, accountability, and what makes us feel alive and vibrant. Without clarity there is little-to-no likelihood that focus can follow. With clarity and focus come new insights, new strategies, and new behaviors that move individuals and organizations forward in unprecedented ways.
We can help find our Puspose by exploring our Talent, Love and Values.
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Transformational Leadership: Purpose Principle insights
Feb 09, 2025Dramatic performance as well as engagement and satisfaction 'are within your grasp' when you have a clear and empowering Purpose.
Improvements of almost all types in organistions start with one word: clarity. It is used with respect to expectations, results, value, competencies, accountability, and what makes us feel alive and vibrant.
With clarity and focus come new insights, new strategies, and new behaviours that move individuals and organisations forward in exceptional ways. Let's explore....
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Transformational Leaders: Introdcution
Feb 01, 2025If you want a flourishing business - one that has top-line growth, greater profitability, high levels of customer satisfaction, and top talent retention you must have flourishing relationships with your workforce, colleagues and customers.
In today’s world of work, the customer experience must be so compelling that customers wouldn't consider going elsewhere. This leads to a happy workplace where all srtive to be in 'top form', having fun in an empowering workplace.
Let's explore the principles.....
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Human Factors: Designing for people overview
Jan 26, 2025Designing for people is a design process that focuses on the needs and characteristics of the users or operators.
Good design takes into account how the operator is expected to interact with the workplace set up, the work equipment and how the work equipment fits into the system as a whole. As a result, facilities, hardware, systems, equipment, product tooling, materials, layout and configurations are adapted to human skills, limitations and anatomy.
The design process requires an analysis of the work tasks that operators have to carry out and the effect of any constraints that the...
HOF: Leadership (Hearts and Minds) Overview
Jan 19, 2025Let's look at leadership initially from a senior management level - having a duty of care to look after everyone within an organisation and all stakeholders.
Understanding what human factors are about, how it applies to your business and where you can get additional support. Having People, Processes and Plant/Equipment effective for the tasks, environment and people from a human and organisational factors perspctive. Enhancing the the health and wellbeing of all and protecting our environment.
Leadership is a philosophy. It’s an attitude. It’s a state of mind - it's about hearts and mind...
HOF: Key Elements
Jan 12, 2025Human and Organisational Factors (HOF) on one level are 'straigtforward' on another, they are pretty complex with many factors 'in play' simultaneously. The key elements involved are:
LeadershipDesigning for PeopleHealth and Safety CultureFitness for WorkStaffing and WorkloadUseable proceduresMaintenance, Inspecting and testing errorTraining and CompetenceSafety-critical CommunicationsOrganisational ChangeManaging Human ReliabilityAccident Investigation Root Cause Analysis and Lessons LearnedToday we will 'headline' them giving a 'taste' for the future - let's explore.
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Human and Organisational Factors(HOF): Intro
Jan 05, 2025This is an introduction to a series of podcasts on a Field Guide to Human and Organisational Factors that introduces, in a practical manner, the key principles and techniques to make our organisations and communities Stronger, Smarter and Safer.
These insights are from a career of 4 decades spanning the Globe from the Artic Circle to Auastralasia within the Oil and Gas, Petrochemicals, Aviation, Logistics and Maritime Sectors as a Chartered Safety Engineer, Leadership Coach, Business Consultant and Accident Investigation Team Leader.
Human and Organisational Factors (HOF) are about People who are involved in all aspects of w...
Zesties 23: Resilience
Dec 22, 2024Let's explore resilient organisational cultures - my research and experience has identified ‘signalling channels’ that people use to pick up clues, cues, signs, and signals to determine ‘the way we do things round here’. (our culure)
These are 'leading performance indicators' that allow us to pick up through each of the channels if the organisational clues, cues, signs, and signals that we pick up are aligned and logical as opposed to misaligned, illogical or at cross purposes”?
This can help us identify if we have a resilient culture or one that is 'self- defeating"..... In which case we can l...
Zesties 22: Solitude
Dec 15, 2024Alone time in solitude can boost our weelbeing. This can be from relaxing and recharging to problem solving and emotional regulation.
Solitude can benefit personal growth, contentment, creativity and our relationships with ourselves and others.
Learning what makes us better at spending time alone can help us move to our best possible selves...
It's about being in the NOW...
Supporting Links
TED talk: How to Master the Art of being Alone
https://youtu.be/34ttspXxYlw?si=Jpjxs3HXPtafr3z4
The Power of the Present M...
Zesties 21: Lifelong insights for peak performance
Dec 08, 2024Here are some peak perfromance insights Ive jotted down from my global Leadership coaching over many years....
Hope it helps - have fun exploring!
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Zesties 20: The Monkey Mind and Meditation
Dec 01, 2024Let's explore the challenge of the so called 'Monkey Mind' and its relationship to Meditation. Some years ago I was curious about meditation and how to silence my 'manic maind' that was "all over the place".
My initial 'foray' into meditation was quite a revelation - I had no control over my 'Monkey Mind'. In fact, meditaion appreared to make it worse! Let's explore my insights after many peaceful years...
More to Explore
The Chimp Model
https://chimpmanagement.com/the-chimp-model/
How to Meditate
https://www.brahmakumaris.o...
Zesties 19: Building Confidence - extending your safe zone
Nov 24, 2024Let's explore increasing our safe operating zone, some would call this their safe zone so that we can reach new heights.
By taking little daily steps that feel a littel scary we can get stronger and stronger taking 'more risks' that once seemed unsurmountable...
Motivational Resource
Real risk takers:
https://youtu.be/T4HwVrK2vRE?si=1DdjQ64CmytIoNRX
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Zesties 18: Your Personal Brand
Nov 17, 2024Building a brand isn’t about being a fake. It’s about showing people the real you. That should always be enough. You need to be authentic if you want to build a brand that lasts.
Don’t try to create a fake persona, and pretend you’re someone you’re not, as eventually people will see through that.
Worth a Look
Designing a Purposeful Personal Brand...
https://youtu.be/Alqt7pIbp_o?si=PgR84R64fauwnQlG
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Zesties 17: Celebrating success
Nov 10, 2024It’s important to celebrate your successes, and you should acknowledge to yourself that you’ve achieved your goals. But you need to be careful that how you celebrate success so that it doesn’t damage your long-term ambition or become destructive to your life.
It's OK to feel relief rather than joy when you accmplish a goal..
Motivational Success Stories
https://www.yescoachlisa.com/blog/true-motivational-stories/
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Zesties 16: Curiosity
Nov 03, 2024Be curious - it'll give you power.
I’m a level beyond curious - I’m inquisitive. I’ll keep asking questions because I want to know everything. The more information you have, the more opportunites there are to ethically increase your knowledge and power to grow and transform - increasing your 'operating envelope....'
That’s true inside and outside public and private life....
For furhter explorations:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/brain-reboot/202311/the-psychology-and-neuroscience-of-curiosity
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Zesties 15: Confidence - Real or fake?
Oct 27, 2024You'e probably hearf the expression "fake it until you make it!" Yes, it can sort off work in the short term - in my expereince, not in the long term.
People waste a lot of time thinking about their body language when they should be working on how they really feel on the inside and then their body language will reflect that.
It’s tempting to pretend to yourself and to others that you’re OK. You don’t want to admit that anything is wrong because you see that as a weakness or a failing, as if g...
Zesties 14: the power of practice
Oct 20, 2024How do you prepare for the punches that are going to come your way in life? Like anything, it takes practice.
If you’re going to succeed at anything, you have to practise, and you have to practise how you want to perform. That means bringing the same level of intensity and focus to your preparations that you’re going to want when you’re performing.
Resource:
Achieving Peak Performance: A Conversation with Anders Ericsson
https://behavioralscientist.org/achieving-peak-performance-a-conversation-with-anders-ericsson/
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Zesties 13: turning fear into a positive force
Oct 13, 2024Whatever you’re doing, try to use fear as a positive force in your life. It can be the fuel that makes you work harder than ever before.
When you’re preparing, feel scared that you’re not going to achieve your dreams. But when the day comes, you mustn’t allow fear to cloud your judgement as you can’t think clearly when you’re afraid.
If you’ve done enough preparation, you don’t need to be afraid.
Resource:
"Feel the fear and do it anyway", Susan Jeffers
https://susa...
Zesties 12: Positive Energy goes a long way.
Oct 06, 2024Positive energy goes a long way: everyone responds better to positive energy than to negativity, and to being around optimists rather than pessimists. In life, having a sunny outlook goes a long way. I would like to think I’m an upbeat person. I’m happy with who I am and what I’m doing with my life and that allows me to have a positive energy.
Have a think about how you might come across to other people, and whether they view you as positive or not. Consider the language you use and how you express yourself. Let's...
Zesties 11: Take Risks
Sep 29, 2024If you want to change your life, and push yourself to new heights, you're going to have to take some risks.
Playing it safe gets you nowhere in life. At best, you’ll stay where you are today. More likely, you’ll drift backwards as others will rush past you.
Ultimately, if you don’t take any risks, you can’t expect to enjoy different results and new, bigger rewards. If you only stick to what you know and what you’ve done before, you might also end up regretting why you limited your chances.
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Zesties 11: Goal Setting
Sep 22, 2024Whatever you’re trying to accomplish in your life, it's a good idea to have 'numbers' that allow you to track your progress. This is the era of data – you should be able to find a way, maybe even an app, of quantifying the progress you’re making.
I've founf, over the years, that it's preferable to have targets that are measurable. Numbers put everything in black and white. Numbers mean you can’t lie to yourself. If you have a target that’s measurable, you’ll know when you’re on track...
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Zesties 10: Luck and Planning
Sep 15, 2024You’ve figured out how you want to transform your life - now you need to start thinking about how you’re going to create that change. You can’t rely on luck – you can be sure you won’t get far without a strategy and without having measurable goals to work towards.
When someone calls you lucky, it devalues all the hard work and sacrifice that have gone into achieving your dreams.
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Zesties 9: Impatience's a Dream Killer
Sep 08, 2024Can impatience be a Dream Killer?
People today are more impatient than ever. Our celebrity culture is damaging because it creates the impression that overnight success is most people’s experience, that you usually don’t have to be patient and persevere. We understand people don’t want to work for years. They want to go directly to being successful, skipping out the tough part in-between. But that’s not how the world works.
Let's explore in some more depth...
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Zesties 8: Problem Solving Exploration
Sep 01, 2024Problem Solving by Writing it Down
Over the years I've discovered,that sometimes, there's nothing more powerful than a pen and paper. When I’m going through a hard time, or feeling low, I’ve learned that one way to deal with my problems is to write them down. Often the best and the quickest therapy is scribbling my concerns on a piece of paper. Getting it out of my 'scrambled brain' and connecting with my gut for a solution. Yes, logic also has a 'part to play'. Let's explore....
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Zesties 7: Self Focus - don't waster energy being envious of others
Aug 25, 2024Don't waste precious energy being jealous of others. Jealousy gets us nowhere. Actually, it’s much worse than that -jealousy pulls you back and drags you down.
Jealousy means you’ve allowed yourself to be distracted from the person you should be focusing on: yourself.
We have an opportunity to take reponsibility for our lives and decide where our life is heading.
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Zesties 6: Engaging with social media
Aug 18, 2024If you’re going to be successful in whatever you do, the belief and confidence has to come from you, not from strangers who don’t know you. And you certainly shouldn’t allow strangers on the internet to negatively affect how you feel about yourself and your ambitions.
If you’re comfortable with yourself, and have a strong sense of who you are and what you’re hoping to achieve, it won’t matter what others say. Be Strong, Be Smart, Be Safe....
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Zesties 5: Believe in yourself - even when others don't
Aug 11, 2024If you’re going to change your life, or do anything meaningful, you have to truly believe. You can’t do anything half-heartedly. You’ve got to keep on telling yourself: "I can do this, I can really do this, I can see, hear and feel it."
Sometimes you’ll know where you want to get to, but you don’t know how you’re going to get there. If you truly believe, you’ll eventually find a way to make that dream become a reality - step, by step, by step....
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Zesties 4: Resetting your compass
Aug 04, 2024The challenge for many prople in the 'adventure world' is that threir ambition lies on the reaching of a single goal. Then to be 'met' with a profound emptiness once it has been reached. "Where to now?" jumps up!
For me it's about keeping dreams alive - Big, Bold and Beautiful ones. It's about re-setting our compass once we've achived our first 'Biggie"....
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Zesties 3: Allow your goals to Pursue You
Jul 28, 2024I've heard that the way to achieve your gols is to imagine in great detail all the different ways success will affect your life. perhaps in some istances this will work. However, I am inclined to believe that's not as necessarily true.
Rarely there is only one single reason for what we do. While some motives aren't easy to identify, I believe there are some that are behind almost every journey. Momentary flashes of experience can be compared to eternity. Let's explore them in some more depth.....
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Zesties 2: let happiness find you
Jul 21, 2024Don't chase happiness, let it find you...
Have you ever wondered properly why you are happy? Although I've felt I was happpy when I asked that question of myself I beagn to doubt myself.
A good life is about using your senses, seeking knowledge, living in companionship with others and being engaged in striving. Does contenment come from someone who is content? Let's explore furhter...
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Zesties 1: Morning Power Protocol
Jul 14, 2024I believe that a zest morning routine is one of the most important habits for an exceptionally great life. The way we begin our day very much sets up how our day unfolds.
Of course we may choose to start with MVP [Meditation, Visualization, Prayer] is also powerful.
Doing a sweaty workout while hydrating and listening to a fascinating audiobook or pulsating music adds magic to our morning.
I’ve also started writing a few lines in answer to the following 5 questions, which, in the spirit of service I share with you....
ZeComms 7: Getting to Yes
Jul 07, 2024It is sometimes easy to reach agreement smoothly, painlessly, and quickly. Other times it takes a lot of tugging and pulling to finally arrive at “Yes.”
There are four main reasons why peo-ple do not ask for that “Yes”:
Fear of rejection;Lack of appropriate vocabulary;Insufficient practice;Lack of belief.Learn to ask for the “Yes.” Let's explore 'Factors plus incentives' and dealing with objections.
Behavioural Values Dictionary
https://jimbennett.global/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/Core-Values-Behavioural-Dictionar-Rev-1y.pdf
ZeComms Workbook
https://jimbennett.global/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/ZeCommunications.pdf
ZeComms 6: Words
Jun 30, 2024Methods and words that are used to persuade and influence people are important to identify.
These things are as important as modes of speech and body language.
Clients will choose you because they trust you, like you, have confidence in you, and think that you can get the job done. Most important, they believe you have their best interests at heart....
Helpful Link:
Standford Report on 'The power of language: How words shape people, Culture."
https://news.stanford.edu/stories/2019/08/the-power-of-language-how-words-shape-people-culture
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ZeComms 5 - Starting a conversation
Jun 23, 2024When starting a conversation with another person, you are attempting to break the other person’s preoccupation with whatever they are doing.
Make the person want to listen to you. Excite them, put them at ease, or have them feel important. Each of these reasons is supported with various techniques to have the most effective start to a conversation.......
Useful Help:
250 conversation starters
https://conversationstartersworld.com/250-conversation-starters/
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ZeComms 4: Body Language
Jun 16, 2024Body language is considered the most important and largest percentage of the three major fac-
tors of communication. It far surpasses how you say what you say and what you actually do say in words. A staggering 93% of communication relies on aspects other than the words you use.
Body language really is the unspoken truth - it is as crucial as active listening....
Helpful Links
Understanding Body Language and facial Ecpressions:
https://www.verywellmind.com/understand-body-language-and-facial-expressions-4147228
Body Language and Non Verbal Communications:
https://www.helpguide.org/articles...
ZeComms 3: Questioning Skills
Jun 07, 2024Questions are very powerful because they are always answered, even if those answers are not verbalised (spoken aloud).You will be able to create a number of different situations and reactions by the types of questions you use e.g.:
Use information questions to both give and to receive information. Consider a focusing question to focus people on a potential outcomeFill an embarrassing silence with a good question.Show that you are listening actively by asking questions......
Resource:
NLP for Dummies
https://www.dummies.com/article/body-mind-spirit/emotional-health-psychology/psychology/neurolinguistic-programming/neuro-linguistic-programming-for-dummies-cheat-sheet-207437/
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ZeComms 2: Reaching Home Base
Jun 02, 2024Subconscious Encoding
Consider that as humans we have two minds: the conscious and the subconscious. The conscious mind is the judge of the information that comes through the senses, dealing with one item at a time.
The subconscious mind stores memories and does not judge information at all. It simply stores it. When a person is asked a question they respond, whether the re- sponse is verbalised or not.
Getting to Home Base
Within any particular native language, each person has their own home base of language, according t...
ZeComms 1: Intro and Active Listening
May 26, 2024ZeCommunications is about enabling the zest in people and organisations through the power of values based communications. It involves “practice practice, practice” and a sense of fun ‘sprinkled’ with resilience…
Everyone is in the persuasion business.Sometimes that persuasion is directed to other people. Sometimes it is inwardly directed to your self talk. Persuasion can occur in a simple conversa-
tion with one or a few people, or it can be while speaking to an audience of 500 or more people, as part of your professional world or within your personal activities.
Persuasion is part of everyday rea...
Top 10 things Great Leaders do
May 19, 2024These are strange and gorgeous times. Tons of challenges. Dazzling possibilities. And I viscerally want you to leverage these times to fly. To express your talent. To do your dreams. To make the world better. To help you Lead Without a Title,
I’ve distilled 10 of the most valuable and practical insights on Leadership that I’ve shared globally to my corporate clients
These ideas have helped them do some great things. My deep wish is that they deliver the same results for you.....
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ZeChanges 28: Secrets of Habits that last
May 12, 2024The holy grail of habit change is not a single 1 percent improvement, but a thousand of them. It’s a bunch of zest habits stacking up, each one a fundamental unit of the overall system.
In the beginning, small improvements can often seem meaningless because they get washed away by the weight of the system. Just as one coin won’t make you rich, one positive change like meditating for one minute or reading one page each day is unlikely to deliver a noticeable difference. Gradually, though, as you continue to layer small changes on top of one anot...
ZeChanges 27: Step 4.4 - Power of an Accountability Partner
May 05, 2024In our discussion of the 4th STEP of Behaviour Change we have covered the importance of making good habits immediately satisfying. The inversion of the 4th STEP is Make it immediately unsatisfying.
Just as we are more likely to repeat an experience when the ending is satisfying, we are also more likely to avoid an experience when the ending is painful. Pain is an effective teacher. If a failure is painful, it gets fixed. If a failure is relatively painless, it gets ignored.
The more immediate and more costly a mistake is, the faster you will l...
ZeChanges 26: Step 4.3 - Recovering after Habits Breakdown
Apr 28, 2024No matter how consistent you are with your habits, it is inevitable that life will interrupt you at some point. Perfection is not possible. Before long, an emergency will pop up - you get sick or you have to travel for work or your family needs a little more of your time.
Whenever this happens to me, I try to remind myself of a simple rule: never miss twice. Let's discuss in more depth...
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ZeChanges 25: STEP 4.2 - keeping on track
Apr 21, 2024Making progress is satisfying, and visual measures provide clear evidence of your progress. As a result, they reinforce your behavior and add a little bit of immediate satisfaction to any activity.
Visual measurement comes in many forms: food journals, workout logs, loyalty punch cards, the progress bar on a software download, even the page numbers in a book. But perhaps the best way to measure your progress is with a habit tracker - let's explore in some more depth...
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ZeChanges 24: Step 4.1 - Make it satisfying
Apr 14, 2024Step 4 of changing habits is that it needs to be enjoyable for it to last. Simple bits of reinforcement
like soap that smells great or toothpaste that has a refreshing minty flavour can offer the immediate pleasure we need to enjoy a habit. Change is so much easier when it gives us joy.
It is more likely we will repeat the behaviour when our expereince is satifying. Our human brain has evolved to prioritise immediate rewards over delayed ones.
Key points in helping us change our behaviours are in this i-Mind Map:
https://jimbennett.g...
ZeChanges 23: Step 3.4 - Making Good Habits Inevitable
Apr 07, 2024Making Good Habits Inevitable and Bad Habits Impossible
Sometimes success is less about making good habits easy and more about making bad habits harder. This is an inversion of the 2nd STEP of Behaviour Change "Make it Attractive". If you find yourself struggling to follow through on your plans make you bad habits more difficult by creating what pschologists call a commitment device.
Commitment devices are useful because they enable you to take advantage of good intentions before you can fall victim to temptatioin. For example - if you are looking to cut calories as...
ZeChanges 22: Step 3.3 The 2 minute Rule
Mar 24, 2024Even when you know you should start small, it’s easy to start too big. When you dream about making a change, excitement inevitably takes over and you end up trying to do too much too soon.
The most effective way that's known to counteract this tendency is to use the Two-Minute Rule, which states, “When you start a new habit, it should take less than two minutes to do.” You’ll find that nearly any habit can be scaled down into a two-minute version.....
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ZeChanges 21: Step 3.2 The law of least effort
Mar 17, 2024Conventional wisdom holds that motivation is the key to habit change. Maybe if you really wanted it, you’d actually do it. But the truth is, our real motivation is to be lazy and to do what is convenient.
Despite what the latest productivity best seller will tell you, this is a smart strategy, not a dumb one. Energy is precious, and the brain is wired to conserve it whenever possible. It is human nature to follow the Law of Least Effort, which states "that when deciding between two similar options, people will naturally gravitate toward the option th...
ZeChanges 20: Step 3.1 Make it easy
Mar 10, 2024Making our Lives Easier
It is easy to get bogged down trying to find the optimal plan for change: the fastest way to lose weight, the best programme to build muscle, the perfect idea for a side job. We are so focused on figuring out the best approach that we never get around to taking action.
As Voltaire once wrote, “The best is the enemy of the good." This is the difference between being in motion and taking action. The two ideas sound similar, but they’re not the same. Let's explore....
ZeChanges 19: 2.3 - How to discover and change bad habits
Mar 03, 2024This week we examine the cause of our bad habits and how to avoid them. The 'higklightd' are as follows....
The cause of our habits is the prediction that precedes them. (the 'activator') This prediction leads to a feeling. Habits are attractive when we associate them with positive feelings and unattractive when we associate them with negative ones.
When we create a motivation ritual by doing something we enjoy immediately before a difficult habit it then becomes a pleasure to do.
Let's examine this topic in more depth....
For a summary of...
ZeChanges 18: Step 2.2 - The many and the powerfull
Feb 25, 2024Whenever we are unsure how to act, we look to the group (the many) to guide our behaviour. We are constantly scanning our environment and wondering, “What is everyone else doing?” We check reviews on Amazon or Yelp or TripAdvisor because we want to imitate the “best” buying, eating, and travel habits....
Likewise, humans everywhere pursue power, prestige, and status. Historically, a person with greater power and status has access to more resources, worries less about survival, and proves to be a more attractive mate. Let's explore in more depth....
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ZeChanges 17 : Step2.1 - Culture
Feb 18, 2024This week we look at culure and the role of family and friends in shaping our habits. Humans are herd animals. We want to fit in, to bond with others, and to earn the respect and approval of our peers. Such inclinations are essential to our survival. For most of our evolutionary history, our ancestors lived in tribes. Becoming separated from the tribe, or worse, being cast out—was a death sentence. “The lone wolf dies, but the pack survives.”
As Charles Darwin noted, “In the long history of humankind, those who learned to collaborate and improvise most effectiv...
ZeChanges 16: Step 2 - Make Habits Attractive
Feb 11, 2024In our 2nd STEP of ZeChange let's learn how to make a habit attractive and irresistible.
It may not be possible to transform every habit into a supernormal stimulus, we can however make any habit more enticing. To do this, we must start by understanding what a craving is and how it works. Today we begin by examining a biological signature that all habits share—the dopamine spike.
Research has shwn that when it comes to habits dopamine is released not only when we experience pleasure,but when we anticipate it. It is the anticipation of a re...
ZeChanges 15: The secrets of Self Control
Feb 04, 2024As we move forward in our journey of culture and behavioural change in creating good habits lets look deeper into the secret's of self-control and review our 1st Step Principles as follows:
The inversion of the 1st STEP of Behaviour Change is make it invisible.Once a habit is formed, it is unlikely to be forgotten.People with high self-control tend to spend less time in tempting situations. It’s easier to avoid temptation than resist it.One of the most practical ways to eliminate a bad habit is to reduce exposure to the cue that causes it. Self-control is...
ZeChanges 14: our environment can matter more than motivation
Jan 28, 2024We continue our journey of looking at Step 1 in Making it obvious where we discover the motivation can be overrated at times and our environment matters more ar certain times as follows:
Small changes in context can lead to large changes in behaviour over time.Every habit is initiated by a cue. We are more likely to notice cues that stand out.Make the cues of good habits obvious in your environment.Gradually, your habits become associated not with a single trigger but with the entire context surrounding the behaviour. The context becomes the cue.t is easier to...