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This week, Dara and Rara are swapping notes from the road.

From packed classrooms to late-night conversations, they talk about the conferences they attended, the classes they taught, and the moments that stuck with them long after the events ended. It’s part behind-the-scenes, part honest reflection on what teaching and learning in kink actually looks like, and part “wow, I didn’t expect that about myself.”

If you’re curious about what really happens at kink conferences, how educators grow through the work they do, and why stepping into new spaces can change you, this episo...

We’re talking about the things no one told us when we first joined the kink scene. The good, the complicated, and the stuff you usually only learn the hard way. From community and safety to frenzy, vetting, identity, and self-advocacy, this episode breaks down what we wish we had known so you can move through kink with more confidence and a lot less guesswork.

Whether you’re brand new or realizing you learned some things sideways, this one’s worth a listen.

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This episode is our annual reality check. We’re looking back at last year’s New Year’s resolutions, being honest about what stuck, what didn’t, and what we maybe wildly overestimated. Some goals turned into real growth. Others turned into lessons. And yes, there was a little humble pie involved.

Then we talk about how we’re approaching the year ahead. Not with pressure or perfection, but with intention, flexibility, and a better understanding of who we actually are in kink and life.

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Can a power exchange really work if you’ve never met in person? Short answer: yes. Longer answer? It depends on how it’s built.

In this episode, we break down what online Dominant/submissive relationships actually look like, why people choose them, and what makes them healthy or harmful. We talk honestly about the benefits, the challenges, and the risks that don’t always get discussed until something goes wrong.

This isn’t a fantasy version of online BDSM. It’s a real conversation about consent, communication, emotional safety, an...

So many people try to label actions as Dominant or submissive based on how they look from the outside. But in real D/s dynamics, it isn’t the act that defines the role. It’s the intention and the power behind it. In this episode, we break down why the same behavior can mean something completely different depending on who’s driving it, and how understanding the why behind your play can build stronger, more confident dynamics.

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We’re diving back into the madhouse that is Reddit advice, where strangers ask wild kink questions and we do our best not to spit out our drinks while answering them. Expect giggles, good-hearted roast sessions, and the occasional “bless their heart” as we break down what’s actually good advice…and what belongs in the digital dumpster.

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It’s our annual Thanksgiving episode, and this year we’re taking a moment to slow down, reflect, and talk about what we’re truly grateful for. From the growth of our Pink Kink community to the personal lessons, connections, laughter, awkward moments, and meaningful conversations that shaped our year, we’re sharing it all. This one feels especially real and heartfelt, and we hope you’ll feel seen in it too.

Grab something cozy, settle in, and join us as we say thank you for the people, experiences, and kinky joys that made this year...

Kink can do more than turn you on. It can help you calm your mind, process emotions, and feel grounded again. In this episode, we talk about how kink becomes a coping tool, why it works, and the difference between healing and avoiding.

We cover both pain and non-pain ways kink helps with stress, connection, and emotional release, plus a few signs to watch for if play starts replacing real support.

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Feeling safe in a dungeon isn’t as simple as having rules on the wall. In this episode, we dig into what really shapes safety in kink spaces, from strong leadership and active dungeon monitors to the messy reality of consent culture and human behavior. We also share stories from our patrons about the dungeons that made them feel protected, the ones that failed them, and how personal history, identity, and community culture all play a role in how safe a space feels.

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We’re back with another round of Niche Kinks and this time we pulled inspiration straight from our episode on America’s Top Fetishes. These were the kinks people kept asking about, the ones we didn’t have time to unpack, and the ones that genuinely surprised us.

Come hang out with us while we explore the weird, wonderful corners of kink and talk about why the niche stuff is usually the most interesting.

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Inspired by the chaos at Sinners & Stardust, this episode takes a hard look at what happens when fantasy goes too far. From groping and flashing to tracking and harassment, we’re breaking down why fictional kinks never excuse real-world violations — and why consent still matters, even at cons.

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“Submissive training” gets tossed around a lot in kink—but when Dominants use it as a control tactic or sales pitch, it stops being education and starts being manipulation. In this episode, Rara and Dara break down why Dominant-led training can be harmful, how predators exploit new subs who just want to “get it right,” and why coaching is teaching—so those offering it need to own that role responsibly.

They also share healthier, collaborative ways to learn and grow in your dynamic. Because real training should build confidence, not dependence.

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Not all kink happens in public spaces—and that’s perfectly valid. While dungeons, play parties, and community events are one way to experience BDSM, many kinksters explore power exchange, sensation play, and ritual entirely in private. In this episode, we unpack the stigma that sometimes surrounds at-home kink and explore why public visibility isn’t the only way to be “real” in this lifestyle. Whether you're private by choice, circumstance, or necessity, we’re here to remind you: your kink counts too.

Romance novels make kink look so easy—instant trust, flawless scenes, and zero talk about limits or lube. But real life doesn’t come with an editor. In this episode, we break down what’s fantasy versus reality and explain how to take what you read and bring it to life safely.

We’ll talk about scene negotiation, bratty play, punishments, aftercare, and all the practical things your favorite books tend to skip. Learn how to turn those spicy pages into real-world experiences built on consent, communication, and trust.

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Our birthday bash was one for the books! In this episode, we’re spilling all the details from our birthday scenes—what we set out to do, how we challenged ourselves, and the goals we crushed along the way. Expect plenty of laughter, some surprising moments, and maybe a few outrageous confessions. Because nothing says “happy birthday” like celebrating with a little (okay, a lot of) kink.

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We’re joined by Alicia M. Walker and Arielle Kuperberg, authors of Bound by BDSM: Unexpected Lessons for Building a Happier Life. Their groundbreaking book dives into the ways BDSM can teach us about trust, communication, vulnerability, and joy — lessons that extend far beyond the dungeon.

We talk with Alicia and Arielle about what inspired their research, the surprising truths they uncovered, and why mainstream conversations about kink so often miss the bigger picture. You’ll hear how BDSM practices can foster deeper intimacy, improve relationships, and even reshape how we approach everyday life.

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This episode is a deep dive into our personal journeys through the lifestyle. We’re answering 20 journaling prompts that explore how kink has shaped us, challenged us, and helped us grow.

From scenes that changed the way we play to beliefs we had to unlearn, we’re reflecting on what it really means to become yourself through kink. Some lessons came through trial and error. Others through joy, community, and pushing our edges.

If you're curious about what experience actually looks like over time, this one is honest, raw, and...

Kink isn’t just about play — it’s stress relief, identity, and connection. But what happens when life throws up walls and you can’t engage the way you want? In this episode, we talk about the realities of dry spells, why they happen, and the emotional toll they can take. We’ll bust the myths that make people feel “less kinky” when they can’t play, and share creative coping strategies to keep your dynamic alive during times of stress, illness, family obligations, money struggles, or burnout. Because kink isn’t a tally of scenes — it’s who you are.

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From tickling in Florida to vore in California and cuckolding in Texas, this episode takes you on a kinky road trip through the most-searched fetishes in every U.S. state. Based on recent studies by FetishFinder and Clips4Sale, we break down what each fetish is, where it’s most popular, and what regional patterns might reveal about our private desires.

Some results are expected, some are hilarious, and a few are just… huh.

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Are you just going through the motions in your kink life? Feeling disconnected, uninspired, or like you've hit a plateau? This episode is your wake-up call.

From navigating intense scenes to watching others step into their fears for the first time, this episode explores why self-challenge is essential in kink and how it can reignite your passion, deepen your dynamic, and reconnect you to the parts of yourself that crave more.

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Have you ever felt like someone only wanted you for your kink? Like you didn’t matter—just what you could do for them? In this episode, we’re talking about what it means to be treated like a kink dispenser. We’ll look at how it happens, what it feels like, and what to do if you’re on either side of the issue. You’ll get tips, scripting, and real talk on how to set better boundaries and build stronger, more connected kink relationships.

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Poly Littles can mean twice the fun, twice the Caregivers, and sometimes twice the crayons on the floor. In this episode, we explore the unique joys and challenges of polyamorous dynamics that include Littles—whether that means multiple Caregivers, multiple Littles, or both. We’ll talk about balancing different caregiving styles, keeping rules and routines clear, and making sure every relationship feels valued. Expect stories about shared playdates, overlapping snack times, and the occasional tug-of-war over stuffies. We’ll also share strategies for communication, avoiding favoritism, and creating a safe, happy space for everyone involved. This is poly life with a...

Can a submissive say no to their Dominant and still be in service? Absolutely. In this episode, we’re challenging the outdated idea that submission means saying yes to everything. Instead, we explore how setting boundaries, speaking up, and honoring your own needs are essential parts of a healthy D/s dynamic.

Saying no isn’t disobedience—it’s a powerful act of self-awareness that builds trust, reinforces consent, and protects both partners from burnout and resentment. You’ll learn why submission isn’t about automatic obedience, but about making intentional, informed choices in service of t...

Consent is the foundation of kink—but it’s not the finish line. In this episode, we dig into why “they said yes” shouldn’t shut down deeper conversations about safety, risk, and responsibility. What happens when a scene is so dangerous it could affect more than just the people involved? And who, if anyone, gets to decide what’s too much? Let’s talk about consent, community standards, and the cost of turning recklessness into a punchline.

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Being a Top isn’t just about giving orders or holding the crop—it’s about holding responsibility. In this episode, we’re digging into what it really means to lead with care in kink. From medical safety and emotional well-being to ethical decision-making and community accountability, we’re calling in all Dominants, Tops, and handlers to step up and do better.

We’ll break down why “they consented” isn’t always enough, why jokes about dangerous play can harm more than reputations, and how to actually earn the trust your role demands. This one’s packed with...

Feeling drained by your kink life? In this episode, we talk about what burnout looks like in the BDSM lifestyle, how to spot the signs, ways to prevent it, and how to come back from it. If kink is starting to feel like a chore, this one’s for you.

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What happens when abuse is disguised as kink? In this episode, we unpack the disturbing trend of powerful people—like Diddy and Marilyn Manson—using BDSM as a cover for coercion and control. We break down why that’s not kink, how it harms the community, and what ethical BDSM actually looks like. Spoiler: consent isn’t optional.

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When do you tell someone you’re kinky? On the first date? After sex? Six months in?

In this episode, we break down the pros and cons of revealing your kink at different stages of dating, how to know when you’re ready, and tips for having that conversation with confidence. There’s no one right answer—but we’ll help you find yours.

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Who says you need a Caregiver to enjoy Littlespace? In this episode, we’re busting the myth that Littles need a Daddy, Mommy, or CG to feel valid. We explore the beauty of peer-based Littlespaces—where Littles support each other through creativity, connection, and care, without formal power exchange. From craft nights and snack rotations to setting healthy boundaries and avoiding burnout, this episode is packed with ideas, emotional insights, and real talk for Littles looking to build their own village.

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What makes a kink “extreme”? And why does that word cause so much harm?

In this episode, we’re breaking down the myth that certain kinks are more real, more intense, or more valid than others. Whether your play leaves bruises or just leaves you breathless, your kink counts. We’ll explore the hidden hierarchies in the kink world, why emotional intensity matters just as much as physical, and how to stop comparing your edge to someone else’s.

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Inspired by a post on FetLife and real conversations with kinksters, this episode explores why both Dominants and submissives need clear, affirming rights in BDSM. We walk through the Submissive’s Bill of Rights and the Dominant’s Bill of Rights—not as rules, but as tools to support autonomy, respect, and consent in power exchange.

Because no matter your role, your needs, boundaries, and voice matter.

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CG/L dynamics are deeply personal and emotionally rich. They can offer comfort, structure, play, and healing—but only when built on a foundation of consent, communication, and respect. From bottle feeding to bedtime routines, from emotional support to power exchange, caregiving in kink is never one-size-fits-all. And it definitely isn’t just about being sweet and cuddly. In this episode, we’re digging into what healthy CG/L dynamics really look like, how to avoid common caregiving mistakes, and why consent, boundaries, and mutual respect matter more than cute rules and nap times.

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Get ready to crack into the world of Spankos! In this episode, we’re joined by the legendary Miss Chris—Professional Disciplinarian, BDSM educator, and all-around badass—to take us deep into the Spanko community. We talk about what defines a Spanko, the unique appeal of spanking as a kink, and how this corner of the kink world builds trust, connection, and sometimes very sore bottoms.

Miss Chris shares her journey, her insights on the psychology of spanking, and some of the common misconceptions about Spankos. Whether you're curious, confused, or already clutching your favorite paddle, this episod...

Who comes first in a D/s dynamic? The Dominant? The submissive? Their needs? Their wants? In this episode, we’re digging into the D/s Hierarchy of Needs—a framework that helps make sense of how to prioritize care, safety, and power in a consensual exchange.

We’ll explore what qualifies as a need versus a want, how to tell the difference, and why getting this balance right is essential for a healthy and thriving dynamic. Expect real-life examples, a dash of humor, and a few spicy truths kinksters don’t always want to hear.

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We’re sharing our strong (and spicy) opinions on the all-too-common idea that Dominants should “break” their submissives. Hint: we’re not fans. We’ll dive into where this harmful mindset comes from, why it shows up in kink spaces, and the real damage it can cause. Plus, we’ll talk about what ethical, empowered D/s actually looks like—because submission isn’t something to destroy, reshape, or control.

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We’re turning up the voltage and diving deeper into electro play! Dara’s absolutely buzzing to explore the three electrifying styles—sensual, sadistic, and sexual—and share how each one charges up your scenes in totally different ways. From teasing tingles to shocking surprises to hands-free O’s, we’re breaking it all down with new tips, tools, and zappy scenarios.

This isn’t just a kink—it’s a whole circuit board of fun. Plug in, tune in, and get ready to find your favorite frequency.

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It’s time to get wet and wild—literally. In this episode (affectionately known as The Wetpisode), we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood and controversial kinks out there: watersports. This is a topic that brings out very strong opinions, and we get it—it’s not for everyone. But that’s exactly why it deserves a closer look.

We explore the emotional, physical, and psychological appeal of watersports by hearing directly from kinksters who enjoy it. They share what draws them to it, how it fits into their play, and why it’s about s...

We're back with another fan-favorite In The News episode, and this one is packed with deliciously kinky chaos. From a steamy music video dripping in BDSM visuals to articles diving into DD/lg dynamics, modern vampirism, and the age-old question—why are people so horny for monsters? We’ve got thoughts, opinions, and our usual blend of education and sass. Grab your headphones and your holy water—this one's a wild ride.

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Dominance isn’t just about giving orders—it’s about leading with skill, intention, and heart. In this episode, we’re unpacking the essential tools every Dom should have, like clear communication, creative scene planning, emotional awareness, and the ability to check your ego when it matters most.

Packed with real talk, personal stories, and plenty of laughs, this episode is your guide to leveling up your dominance and building stronger, more connected dynamics.

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BDSM is built on trust, knowledge, and negotiation—but it can never be 100% risk-free. In this episode, we explore why the word “safe” is misleading in kink, and why relying on it can create a false sense of security.

We’ll dive into better frameworks like RACK and PRICK, share real-life examples of scenes where things went wrong despite being “safe,” and give you practical tools to approach risk with honesty and responsibility.

Because in kink, it’s not about being safe—it’s about being smart.

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Just because you don’t have a caregiver doesn’t mean you have to put your little side in time-out! In this episode, we’re diving into what it means to explore, nurture, and fully enjoy your little space—even when you’re flying solo. Whether you're between dynamics, intentionally unpartnered, or just figuring things out, we’ll share tips, activities, and affirmations to help you embrace your inner little. From building a solo little space to managing big feelings without a caregiver's guidance, we’ve got you covered. Because your little self deserves love, attention, and a whole lot of glitter...

In this episode, we’re tackling a phrase that makes our skin crawl: “non-consensual BDSM.” Spoiler alert—it’s not a thing. If it’s non-consensual, it’s not BDSM... it’s abuse. Full stop.

Join us as we rant (with love), laugh through the frustration, and break down why this term is harmful, how predators use vague language to justify consent violations, and why explicit consent is the gold standard in kink.

We’ll also spill the tea on a recent social media argument with a so-called educator who insisted the term was fine because “other peo...

Kink is a vast and fascinating world, and sometimes, the most unexpected things can spark desire. In this episode, we’re diving into the wonderful realm of niche kinks—those unique, specific turn-ons that don’t always get the spotlight. From the allure of beards to the thrill of shaving play, we explore the sensory delights, psychological appeal, and creative ways people incorporate these kinks into their scenes. Plus, we touch on a few other lesser-known fetishes that might surprise you! Whether you’re curious, intrigued, or just here for the laughs, join us for another fun and enlightening conversa...

Get ready, folx, because we’re diving into the world of Studio 58 and their incredible Naughty conventions! In this episode, we sit down with JP, the mastermind behind Studio 58 and the Naughty series of events, to talk about how it all began, what drives their passion for creating these unique spaces, and what attendees can expect.

We also get the inside scoop on Naughty Gras, their next big event happening March 27–30, 2025. If you’ve ever been curious about these conventions—or if you're already planning to go—you won’t want to miss this conversation. There’s still time to...

We’re diving back into the wild, weird, and sometimes downright unhinged world of Reddit! From questionable advice to jaw-dropping confessions, we’re revisiting some of the best (and worst) BDSM-related posts we could find. Join us as we react, rant, and maybe even offer some much-needed education—because let’s be real, Reddit can be a lawless place. Whether it’s hilarious misconceptions, spicy debates, or just pure chaos, we’ve got it all in this episode. Buckle up, folx—it’s gonna be a ride!

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Submission isn’t just about obedience—it’s about building the skills that make you a confident, capable, and thriving submissive. In this episode, we’re diving into The Submissive’s Toolbox—a collection of practical and emotional tools that help bridge the gap between intention and action. From communication and time management to resilience and self-awareness, we’ll explore how these skills enhance your dynamic, strengthen your connection with your Dominant, and empower you as an active participant in your submission.

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What if everything you thought you knew about Littles in BDSM was wrong? You’ve probably heard that Littles are always submissive, playful, and eager to obey—but what if some of them prefer to take charge? In this episode, we’re diving into the world of Dominant Littles—yes, they exist!—and exploring how power, play, and authority can blend in ways you never expected. Stick around, because by the end of this episode, you might just start questioning everything you assumed about age play and power dynamics.

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Being an introvert in the BDSM community can feel like showing up to a dungeon party without a safeword—but fear not! In this episode, we explore what it really means to be an introvert in kink, bust some common myths, and highlight how introverts can thrive in BDSM dynamics. From finding your space in the scene to navigating munches without melting into a puddle of social exhaustion, we’ve got tips, tricks, and plenty of laughs. Plus, we share strategies for building deep connections, setting boundaries, and even partnering with an “emotional support extrovert” for kink events. So grab a c...

Discover how understanding your Dominant archetype can deepen your self-awareness, enhance your dynamics, and boost your confidence. This episode breaks down common Dominant archetypes like the Caregiver, Ruler, Protector, Master/Mistress, Bratty Dom, and Pleasure Dom, highlighting their motivations, challenges, and ways to thrive. Learn how to integrate your unique style into scenes, rituals, and everyday interactions, while navigating common struggles like self-doubt and societal misconceptions. Packed with real-life examples, practical tips, and a dose of humor, this episode is all about embracing the Dominant you were meant to be.

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Not all submissives are the same—everyone has their own style, needs, and desires when it comes to power exchange. In this episode, we explore different submissive archetypes and how understanding yours can help you build stronger dynamics and deeper connections.

Are you a service sub who finds joy in acts of devotion? A brat who thrives on playful defiance? A Little who feels safe and cared for in a nurturing role? We break down the most common archetypes, explain their motivations and challenges, and share real-life examples of how they work in relationships.

Let's face it - the name 'Cock and Ball Torture' (CBT) can make even seasoned kinksters cringe a little. But this misunderstood kink isn't all about extreme pain or wild stunts. In this episode, we're breaking down the myths and tackling common misconceptions surrounding CBT. We discuss beginner-friendly techniques and explore how CBT can deepen emotional and psychological connections.

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We dive into what it means to embrace your inner sadist. We talk about the different types of sadism—physical, mental, emotional, and more—and how they can bring intensity and excitement to your BDSM play. We also get real about the struggles that come with accepting this side of yourself, like dealing with guilt or fear of judgment.

But don’t worry—we’ve got you covered with tips for overcoming those challenges and fully owning your sadistic side. Plus, we share creative ideas for adding sadism to your scenes and making it a part of your dynam...

Welcome to the first episode of our newest series, dedicated to topics all about Littles! In this series, we’ll explore everything that makes being a Little special, with episodes focusing on the joys, challenges, and unique experiences of life in Little space. In this episode, we’re diving into why coloring and crafting are such beloved activities for Littles. From the calming and creative energy they bring to how they help kinksters fully embrace Little space, we’ll uncover what makes these simple activities so meaningful. Grab your crayons and join us for a colorful start to this exciti...

It’s time to pop the confetti (and maybe some paddles) because we’ve hit episode 200! What better way to celebrate this milestone than by spilling all the juicy, hilarious, and downright jaw-dropping details of our adventures in the dungeon over the past three months? From scenes that left us laughing to those that had us reflecting on the beauty of kink, we’re giving you an uncensored backstage pass to our wildest experiences.

Whether it was experimenting with new toys, encountering unforgettable characters, or navigating the highs and lows of life in the community, this episode is pac...

It’s the end of the year, and you know what that means—time to see if we actually kept those ambitious 2024 resolutions or if we, uh, “creatively interpreted” them instead. Join us as we look back on a year full of kink, chaos, and surprises (and a fair bit of laughing at ourselves). Did we meet our goals? Did we completely forget about them? Spoiler: both.

But we’re not stopping there! We’re setting our sights on 2025 with fresh resolutions that are just as ambitious (and possibly doomed). Tune in for hilarious reflections, honest moments, and all the...

Being a Dominant doesn’t require having a submissive. In this episode, we dive into how to embrace and develop your Dominant side on your own. From practical tips for tapping into Dominant energy to strategies for growing your skills and building confidence, we’ll help you strengthen your identity and lead with intention. Whether in kink or daily life, discover ways to fully embody your Dominant self.

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What’s sounding, and why would anyone want to do it? In this episode, we take a closer look at this unique kink, talking about why some people enjoy giving and why others like receiving. We’ll also cover how to do it safely because when it comes to sounding, safety is key! Whether you’re just curious or looking to learn more, we’ve got you covered with straightforward info and a little humor along the way.

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Jumping into the world of BDSM can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re unsure about your likes, dislikes, and limits. In this episode, we guide beginners through the art of negotiation, offering practical advice on how to set boundaries, communicate desires, and ensure consent. Discover how to approach conversations with curiosity, experiment safely, and build trust with potential partners as you embark on your kink journey. Remember, it’s okay not to have all the answers—exploration is part of the adventure! Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pi...

It’s time for our annual Thanksgiving episode! This year, we’re reflecting on the people who have impacted our lives and the events that have brought us joy, growth, and a whole lot of kinkiness. From unforgettable scenes and inspiring connections to the hilarious moments that keep us laughing, we’re sharing everything we’re grateful for. Tune in for a heartfelt celebration of the people and experiences that make the Pink Kink community so special! Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit ht...

It’s time for another installment of In The News! This episode, we’re breaking down recent headlines and stories that are making waves in the kink community. Expect a mix of insightful conversations, unexpected laughs, and a little bit of ranting—we can’t help ourselves!

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Have you ever thought about what it would be like to become a living doll? In this episode, we’re talking about dollification, a unique kink where someone transforms into a doll under someone else’s control. This could mean looking like a doll, acting like one, or giving up control to someone who "owns" or "creates" them, adding a special kind of trust and power to the relationship. We’ll go over what makes this kink exciting and how it can build strong connections. Whether you’re curious about this kind of play or just want to know more, tu...

We explore the world of solo BDSM submission and how to embrace your submissive side, even without a dominant partner. We’ll guide you through creating personal rituals, setting self-imposed rules, and using symbolic objects to deepen your connection to submission. Discover ways to stay motivated, maintain consistency, and overcome common challenges like isolation or self-judgment. Whether you're between dynamics or simply seeking to nurture your submissive identity on your own, this episode offers practical tips to strengthen and celebrate your submission journey. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Ob...

With the upcoming election, we thought it was the perfect time to talk about why politics matter to the kink community. In this episode, we dive into how laws and social views impact kink, from SESTA/FOSTA to LGBTQ+ rights, breaking down how policies shape access to safe spaces, kink education, and the freedom to explore our identities. We’ll also explore why kinksters need to stay informed, protect their rights, and use their votes to help build a more inclusive, understanding community.

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In this episode, we talk about the challenges of managing a D/s relationship while raising kids. We’ll cover the struggles of finding time, keeping privacy, and handling the emotional and mental stress of both parenting and the D/s dynamic. You’ll also get tips on how to keep power exchanges subtle, like using secret signals, daily rituals, and technology to stay connected. Plus, we’ll discuss how important it is to support each other, communicate well, and take care of your mental health. Whether you’re already a parent or planning to be, this episode will help you...

In this episode, we dive into the impact of social media on BDSM education. We explore how platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and Twitter are shaping perceptions of kink and BDSM, influencing how people learn and practice. We discuss why this education is so important, breaking down both the positive and negative aspects. While social media can foster a sense of community and help spread accurate information, it also comes with challenges like misinformation and censorship. Tune in as we chat about the highs, lows, and everything in between when it comes to kink education online.

In this episode of the Pink Kink Podcast, we tackle the challenges of jealousy and insecurity in BDSM relationships. These emotions are common and can affect even the strongest dynamics, but learning to manage them is essential for the well-being of everyone involved. We’ll explore practical strategies to address these feelings before they become destructive, emphasizing the importance of communication, trust, and emotional awareness. Join us as we discuss how to navigate jealousy and insecurity, ensuring a healthier and more stable relationship within the BDSM lifestyle.

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In this episode we’re focusing on the pitfalls that can arise in D/s relationships. From communication breakdowns and trust issues to external pressures, power imbalances, and even abuse, we’re digging into the common challenges that many face. But don’t worry, we’re not just identifying the problems—we’re offering practical solutions to overcome them. Tune in as we discuss how to navigate these pitfalls and build a stronger, healthier, and more balanced D/s dynamic.

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In this episode, we’re spilling all the juicy details from our epic 50 Shades of Pink birthday bash at the dungeon! From the unforgettable birthday scenes to the hilarious moments that had us cracking up all night, we’re taking you behind the scenes of our kinky celebration. Join us as we relive the fun, the floggers, and the fantastic friends who made it a birthday party to remember! Plus, hear all about the special scenes we planned just for our big day. Trust us, you won’t want to miss this wild ride!

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For her birthday, Rara chose a topic close to her heart: technology! In this episode, Rara and Dara dive into the fascinating world of how technology is changing the BDSM community. From apps that help you track consent to online platforms for connecting with fellow kinksters, they explore the ways digital tools are making kink more accessible, safer, and fun. Whether you’re tech-savvy or just curious, tune in to learn how tech is reshaping BDSM relationships and play.

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We sit down with the director and producer of tOuch Kink, a documentary that delves into the secretive world of kink. We'll discuss the challenges and rewards of capturing intimate and powerful stories on film, the cultural impact of bringing kink to the mainstream, and what it takes to tell these stories authentically. Whether you're deep into the lifestyle or just curious, this episode offers a unique look behind the scenes of a film that pushes boundaries and explores the complexity of pleasure, pain, and power.

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In this special birthday episode, we're celebrating not just Dara's big day, but also the beauty of body positivity! Dara chose this theme as her birthday episode because, for her, birthdays are a time to embrace and honor every part of who she is—inside and out. Join us as we dive into the importance of loving the skin you're in, celebrating all bodies in the kink community, and how Dara's personal journey with body positivity has shaped her life and kink practices. It's a feel-good, self-love celebration you won't want to miss!

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Guess what? We’re back answering Reddit’s most outrageous kink questions! From puzzling to infuriating, we’re diving into a new batch of queries from the kink community. Whether you’re looking for solid advice or just want to laugh at some of the wildest questions out there, this episode has you covered. Buckle up and get ready for a fun ride through kink questions that’ll leave you laughing and learning in equal measure! Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) http://obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit http...

We’re getting under your skin—literally—with a deep dive into the kinky world of tickling in BDSM. We’ll explore how a little poke and prod can turn into serious play, debunk some tickling myths, and share tips on getting the most laughs (and squirms) out of your scenes. Whether you’re a tickling tease or just curious, we promise this episode will have you giggling and wiggling in all the right ways!

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In this episode, we sit down with AJ Renard, a therapist who is also a kinkster, to explore the complexities of healing from trauma caused by toxic kink relationships or scenes that went wrong. We delve into practical strategies for moving past these experiences and discuss the important role that partners can play in supporting the healing process. Whether you're navigating your own journey or supporting someone you care about, this episode offers valuable insights on finding recovery and resilience within the kink community.

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We dive into the fascinating and often misunderstood dynamics of cuckolding and cuckqueaning. Whether you're curious about these kinks or looking to explore them within your relationship, we'll break down the essentials—from the emotional aspects to the power dynamics involved. Join us as we discuss the motivations, common misconceptions, and ways to navigate these experiences with consent, communication, and mutual satisfaction.

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We delve into the complexities of resolving conflicts within D/s relationships. Discover practical strategies for effective communication, maintaining respect and consent, and navigating power dynamics. Learn how to negotiate solutions and compromises, seek external support, and rebuild trust after conflicts.

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Discover essential strategies for safeguarding your D/s dynamic and kinky lifestyle. Join us as we explore the importance of privacy, trust, and discretion, and learn practical tips to maintain your personal and professional reputations while deepening intimacy and avoiding potential risks. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

We dive into the comparisons between BDSM and vanilla lifestyles, busting myths and challenging assumptions of superiority. Join us for an enlightening discussion that celebrates diversity, dispels misconceptions, and champions the universal principles of healthy relationships.

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In this heated episode, we dive deep into a book that just didn't work for us. With our usual opinionated attitudes, we dissect the book's misconceptions, challenge its faulty assumptions, and provide our own expert insights. Buckle up for an episode filled with sharp wit, strong opinions, and a whole lot of sass. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

BDSM is gaining in popularity. More people are exploring these practices as a way to deepen intimacy, enhance trust, and spice up their relationships. It's a vast and diverse community with a lot to offer, but jumping in without the right knowledge can lead to mistakes that range from awkward to downright dangerous. In this episode, we guide you through some of the most common pitfalls and how to steer clear of them. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee...

In this episode, we explore why the term "true submissive" is problematic. We discuss the misunderstandings it creates and why it's important to recognize and respect different ways people express submission. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on inclusivity and acceptance in BDSM. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more! Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com...

We return to one of our favorite series- In The News! We discuss recent articles that highlight current events impacting our community. Join us for some thoughtful discussion, humorous stories, and a few angry rants. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

We explore the role of mantras in D/s dynamics. Discover how these positive affirmations guide behavior, reinforce values, and foster growth. We'll share tips for creating effective mantras and real-life examples, highlighting their impact on D/s relationships. Whether you're experienced or new to the lifestyle, this episode offers valuable insights into using mantras to deepen your dynamic. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink...

We explore cybersecurity in the digital age with a focus on sharing personal photos. Our expert guest shares essential tips for safely storing, sharing, and protecting your images online. Learn about best practices for storing, sharing, and protecting your images, understand the potential risks, and discover practical steps to enhance your digital security. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and...

In this episode, we explore the idea of BDSM as a unique form of self-care. Discover how kink can help center you, manage stress, and embrace your true self. We'll delve into the therapeutic benefits of using BDSM to achieve emotional healing, personal empowerment, and overall well-being. Join us for an enlightening conversation on how embracing pleasure, pain, and vulnerability can enhance your life. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our...

In this episode, we explore the dynamics of BDSM relationships where the Dominant/Top is physically smaller than the Submissive/Bottom. We share insights on maintaining authority, building trust, and challenging societal norms. Learn practical tips for reinforcing roles, effective communication, and thriving in these unique dynamics. Tune in to discover how size doesn’t dictate power in BDSM.

In this episode, we explore how to create a BDSM scene. Whether you are new or a seasoned kinkster, we got you covered with valuable tips to help you create unforgettable moments. Tune in to discover the essential elements that go into planning and executing a fulfilling BDSM scene. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Get ready for a wild ride as Rara and Dara ditch the buddy system and go solo! Listen to our misadventures as we ventured off to different events. It's a rollercoaster of mishaps, surprises, and side-splitting stories you won't want to miss!

Join us as we discuss Risqué Business: Japan, a show on Netflix. The show explores Tokyo's adult entertainment scene, from bustling streets to hidden alleys. In this episode we review the show and discuss how Japan and the United States view sex and porn, offering insights into cultural differences. Whether you're a fan or just curious, our episode promises an eye-opening look at East-West contrasts in adult entertainment. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/p...

We delve into the intricacies of sapiosexuality and demisexuality, two often misunderstood sexual orientations. Join us as we discuss the complexities of attraction beyond the physical and explore the depths of emotional and intellectual connections. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Dive into the chaotic depths of Reddit once more as we tackle the internet's ultimate jungle gym. Strap in for a rollercoaster ride of laughter, insight, and maybe even a few existential crises along the way! Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

In this episode, we explore the resurgence of the 'Tradwife' lifestyle, where women embrace traditional roles in marriage and family. We'll discuss why it's gaining popularity, its controversies, and how it intersects with modern life. Join us for a thoughtful conversation on tradition and modernity. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Join us as we uncover the intricacies of what behavior modification entails, its underlying principles, and how it functions within the dynamics of BDSM. Discover practical tips and insights on how to effectively utilize behavior modification techniques to enhance your BDSM experiences and foster a deeper connection with your partner. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Join us for a deep dive into Dr. Faith G. Harper's provocative book, "Unf#ck Your Kink." We'll dissect its insights, debunk myths, and explore the science behind human desire. From BDSM to fetishes, we'll review Dr. Harper's approach to embracing sexual exploration shamelessly. Tune in as we discuss the book's impact, empowering listeners to unfuck shame and embrace a sex-positive mindset. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink...

In this episode, we dive into the world of chastity in BDSM. Join us as we explore how people in power exchange relationships use chastity to control desires and deepen intimacy. From the devices they use to the rules they follow, we'll uncover the ins and outs of this intriguing practice. Whether you're curious about the psychology behind it or want to learn practical tips, come along for an eye-opening journey into the world of chastity in BDSM. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code...

Welcome back to our journey at the kink convention! In this episode, Rara dives into how the classes she took and the scenes she tried changed her. Join us as she talks about her personal growth and new insights. Meanwhile, Dara shares the highs and lows she experienced, giving us a glimpse into the rollercoaster of emotions during the excitement. Tune in as we explore self-discovery and the power of exploring kink. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit...

Join us on a wild journey as we explore the world of kink at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire. From meeting old friends to making new ones, we'll share all the exciting moments. We'll talk about what we learned, how we grew, and the fun we had. Get ready for an adventure where we push boundaries and discover new things about ourselves. Tune in to hear all about our experiences and the lessons we learned along the way. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to...

In the final episode of our anniversary series, Part 3, we'll be sharing more of the stories that have touched our hearts from our listeners. Plus, we'll also open up about how creating this podcast has impacted us personally. Join us for a heartfelt conclusion to our anniversary celebration! Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

In Part 2 of our anniversary celebration, we continue to delve into the stories and reflections of our incredible listeners. Join us as we explore even more deeply the impact our podcast has had on your lives. From unexpected discoveries to life-changing moments, we uncover the power of community and connection through our shared conversations. Don't miss this continuation of our anniversary extravaganza! Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink...

Welcome to the first part of our anniversary special. We did a deep dive into the heart of our podcast's impact on our listeners. We invited some of our listeners to share their stories, reflections, and insights on how our conversations have touched their lives. From moments of laughter to moments of introspection, we'll explore the meaningful connections we've forged together. So join us for a heartfelt celebration of three years of podcasting and the incredible community we've built along the way! Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase...