The Three-Headed Man

The Three-Headed Man

By: Jazzy, Jimmy, and Phreddie

Language: en

Categories: Society, Culture, Documentary, Religion, Spirituality, Personal, Journals

Jazzy, Jimmy, and Phreddie met in the mid-90s at a model railroad workshop. For the next 25 years, they have talked and talked and talked. Usually, Phreddie, Jimmy, and Jazzy spoke on the phone, and occasionally, they organized trips together. With the universal acceptance of Zoom conferencing, they began to meet every Tuesday, to continue their friendship. The podcast is Jazzy’s fault. He initiated the idea, and Jimmy and Phreddie agreed mostly because all we had to do was talk, and it is more interesting to do something together, than it is to chat together. Their conversations are centered on...

Episodes

Awakening Practices from PRACTICAL WORK ON SELF, "The Pond", Part One
Jan 11, 2026

This week, the Three-Headed Man discuss the psychological and spiritual benefits of conscious self-work.

Centered on a chapter titled "The Pond" by EJ Gold, the conversation explores the metaphor of a stone hitting water to represent external stressors and the subsequent internal reactions. The speakers analyze how negative impressions create ripples on the surface and deeper reverberations within the human "machine," affecting everything from mood to digestion. To counter these automatic responses, they suggest techniques such as containing negative expressions like a pressure cooker or willingly accepting difficult moments to prevent internal friction.

Ultimately, the...

Duration: 00:26:32
Awakening Practices from PRACTICAL WORK ON SELF, "Awakening the Machine", Part Two
Jan 04, 2026

This transcript features a discussion between three individuals exploring the concept of inner awakening and the practice of self-observation.

Dissatisfied with the "treadmill" of conventional life, the participants examine the utility of observing one's physical body as a means to gain a broader perspective and detach from habitual reactions. They introduce an experiment from the book Practical Work on Self by EJ Gold, which involves monitoring the movements and postures of the "human machine" without attempting to change them.

The speakers explain that this practice aims to realign the mind and body, potentially shifting the...

Duration: 00:31:28
Awakening Practices from PRACTICAL WORK ON SELF, "Awakening the Machine", Part 1
Dec 28, 2025

The Three-Headed Man, Jazzy, Jimmy, and Fred, discuss their motivations for moving beyond a conventional, consumer-driven life by exploring their internal landscape.

They introduce a study of EJ Gold’s book, Practical Work on Self, focusing on the "fourth way" concept of waking up from a habitual, dream-like existence. The core of their discussion involves an exercise in self-observation, where one watches the physical body's movements without judgment or interference. This practice aims to shift the "head-brain" from associative thinking to a task of pure attention, potentially revealing a more objective reality. The speakers emphasize that using sp...

Duration: 00:30:36
Motivation
Aug 22, 2023

THE THREE-HEADED MAN podcast titled "Motivation" embarks on an exploration of the diverse factors that create meaning and purpose in life.

The episode opens with a glimpse into Jimmy's motivation to safeguard his home and community from the threat of Canadian forest fires. This real-world example sets the stage for a broader discussion on what propels individuals to take action.

The group delves into the nature of motivation, considering how age and life stages can shape our driving forces. The conversation unfolds into an exploration of the initial pursuit of financial gain and career improvement...

Duration: 00:29:50
Shadows of Death
Aug 08, 2023

In an introspective episode of THE THREE-HEADED MAN podcast titled "Shadows of Death," the group delves into the somber yet enlightening aspects of mortality and personal experiences that bring them face-to-face with the concept of death. The conversation touches on a range of poignant topics, offering a glimpse into the complexities of life's journey.

The episode opens with Jimmy's sincere reflection on the loss of physical abilities that accompanies aging. His contemplation serves as a stepping stone to a broader conversation on the transient nature of life and the inevitability of change.

Phreddie's near-death fall...

Duration: 00:27:20
There It Is
Jul 25, 2023

In this week's episode of THE THREE-HEADED MAN, the discussion revolves around the theme of "There It Is" – a knowingness that exists beyond learned or understood knowledge.

The conversation opens with the contemplation of self-awareness and the inherent knowingness of one's metaphysical location in life. The group ponders the question of whether we can truly think we know where we are in our life's journey or if it is something that exists beyond conscious understanding.

Certainty becomes a focal point of the discussion as the group explores the delicate balance between comfort and danger that co...

Duration: 00:20:54
Growth
Jul 18, 2023

In this episode of THE THREE-HEADED MAN podcast, the focus centers around the theme of growth. The group engages in a dynamic conversation that delves into various facets of personal and collective growth.

The episode commences by exploring the concept of growth itself, encompassing notions of both forward progression and retrograde motion. The group reflects on the significance of growth as a natural and transformative process, considering its relevance in personal development and expanding one's horizons.

The conversation takes an introspective turn as the group ponders whether troubled times have the potential to foster growth...

Duration: 00:23:20
Wahoo! Episode 100 -- "Root Emotional Responses"
Jul 10, 2023

In a momentous milestone, THE THREE-HEADED MAN celebrates its 100th episode with a captivating discussion centered around the group's most common emotional responses to upsetting situations. Phreddie, Jimmy, and Jazzy candidly share their personal reactions, with Phreddie expressing anger, Jimmy leaning towards moping, and Jazzy experiencing worry.

The episode delves into the exploration of suppressing or observing these emotional responses. The group engages in a thought-provoking conversation, contemplating the potential impact of both approaches on their well-being and overall emotional landscape.

They delve into the complexities of emotional regulation, discussing the benefits and drawbacks of...

Duration: 00:29:12
Weeds
Jun 26, 2023

In the 99th episode of THE THREE-HEADED MAN podcast, titled "Weeds," the group engages in a conversation that explores the multifaceted nature of weeds, both in a literal and figurative sense. The episode delves into various topics, shedding light on the significance of weeding in the garden and the mind.

The conversation begins by contemplating the concept of weeds and the perception surrounding them. The group explores how the definition of a weed can vary based on individual perspectives and cultural influences. They delve into the parallels between weeding the garden and weeding the mind, highlighting the...

Duration: 00:24:14
Zero, Nothingness, and the Void
Jun 12, 2023

In this episode of THE THREE-HEADED MAN podcast, titled "Zero, Nothingness, and The Void," the group engages in a conversation exploring various concepts surrounding the void. The episode concludes with a discussion on a meditative practice presented by E.J. Gold called "parking the body," adding an intriguing dimension to the exploration.

The conversation begins with an inquiry into the nature of the void, questioning whether it can be perceived as a physical location. Jimmy shares his viewpoint, describing the void as more of a spot rather than a specific place. The group then delves into the...

Duration: 00:25:47
Control
May 29, 2023

In this episode of THE THREE-HEADED MAN, the group delves into the theme of "control" through various topics and stories. The conversation takes an intriguing turn as the group discusses controlling a small herd of alpacas, recounting a shearing story that serves as a backdrop for exploring the dynamics of control.

The guys examine the human desire to feel in control and the ways in which it affects our behaviors and decision-making processes. They talk about the concept of planning and how our need for control often leads us to create intricate plans, even when the future...

Duration: 00:35:57
The Spirit Talks to the Void
May 22, 2023

In the latest episode of THE THREE-HEADED MAN titled "The Spirit Talks to the Void," the discussion revolves around profound and existential topics. The conversation begins with an exploration of what happens when the spirit leaves the body.

The concept of "Know thyself" is then brought forward, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and introspection. The group engages in a thought-provoking conversation about the complexities of identifying the spirit within oneself amidst the multitude of internal thoughts, emotions, and desires.

The conversation shifts to the notion of overlapping others, contemplating how our individual spirits and identities...

Duration: 00:23:10
Hard-Wired
May 15, 2023

In this thought-provoking episode of our podcast, THE THREE-HEADED MAN dives into the topic of what within all of us is hard-wired and what parts of us are soft-wired. Jazzy poses the question, seeking to explore the innate aspects of our being versus the malleable aspects influenced by external factors.

The conversation begins by discussing additions and emotional hurts, delving into the idea of whether certain behaviors or predispositions can be attributed to our genetic makeup.

The concept of changing and shifting permanence is explored, contemplating the extent to which our inherent traits can be...

Duration: 00:16:40
Clean
May 08, 2023

In this episode of THE THREE-HEADED MAN, the group discusses the theme of cleanliness, both physical and metaphysical. Jimmy shares his experience of living in a tiny house in Riondel, emphasizing how it's easy to clean and heat. The conversation then delves into the topics of bathrooms and kitchens, and the challenges of maintaining cleanliness in these spaces.

The group also talks about ablutions at J.G. Bennett's Claymont School in West Virginia and cleanliness in a Sikh home. They explore the connection between cleanliness and spirituality and how it can affect one's mental and emotional state.<...

Duration: 00:23:48
Us -- How big is your us?
May 01, 2023

In the latest THREE-HEADED MAN podcast, the guys discuss the idea of "How big is your Us?" They explore the concept of enlarging the group (or us) and encompassing a larger community to combat the current atmosphere of division among humanity. The conversation touches on the topics of "us and them," win/lose sports, politics, and games of winners and losers.

Phreddie shares a story about how his wife managed to get the mayor to reconsider and repair the water infrastructure in their village despite his refusal to accept climate change. THE THREE-HEADED MAN also discusses the...

Duration: 00:23:58
A Fork in the Road
Apr 24, 2023

In this episode of THE THREE-HEADED MAN, the discussion centers around

forks in the road, decisions, and choices. The episode begins with a

story about Jazzy, who loses his and his brother's personal data while

shopping for ginger. The question arises whether he should tell his

brother about the loss or not.

The conversation moves on to the topic of how every choice we make creates a

fork in our life's journey, leading us down different paths. The group

also explores the idea of "the...

Duration: 00:21:03
The Debts We Owe
Apr 17, 2023

In "The Debts We Owe" episode of THE THREE-HEADED MAN podcast, the hosts discuss the concept of metaphysical debts and the importance of repaying those who have helped us in life, such as mothers and those who have given us a boost. The episode also covers the idea of paying it forward and how helping someone else can benefit everything. Jimmy tells a story about a dying skier and the importance of being grateful. The podcast also explores the challenges of thanking those who have made significant contributions to our lives, such as the inventor of the chair. Finally...

Duration: 00:17:09
Can You Take A Punch? (and let it go)
Apr 10, 2023

Within the week's conversation, THE THREE-HEADED MAN discusses teasing, roasting, dishonor, and dignity. They say: " A punch only hurts if it stops. If it passes through, it doesn't."

Duration: 00:24:10
The Voices In Our Head
Apr 03, 2023

THE THREE-HEADED MAN begins this week's conversation by trying to quiet the Inner voices that disrupt the morning meditation. However, the inner voice that commands the other inner voices to silence themselves is complicated. Who or what are these various inner voices?

Are the voices in my head? Or are they from elsewhere?

Can one develop a fair observer or witness?

Duration: 00:25:36
Dying with Dignity
Mar 27, 2023

THE THREE-HEADED MAN recounts a request from an acquaintance who wants advice on his wish to end his life with assisted suicide. This experience leaves the boys questioning their own soon-to-be-a-reality death, and they ask: how can one die with dignity?

To understand death, THE THREE-HEADED MAN recalls the death of their fathers and grandfathers. The podcast ends with Phreddie's recollection about working in a funeral home.

Duration: 00:33:04
Frozen Organic Chickens And What's left over after we die?
Mar 20, 2023

The conversation begins with speculation and suicides and old-timers -- the chatter that surrounds our life. Boy, frozen organic chickens are expensive. Eventually THE THREE-HEADED MAN arrives at this week's topic: What will disappear when we go? What will be left over?

Duration: 00:36:21
AM I AI?
Mar 13, 2023

This week the THE THREE-HEADED MAN podcast explores the question "AM I AI?" by examining the concept of associative thinking and how it functions in the brain. They discuss various types of sorting, the meaning of artificial intelligence, and how one can make contact with intelligence outside of oneself. The conversation then turns to the concept of emotional intelligence (EQ) and how prompting both AI and human interactions is integral to communication. Lastly, the hosts look at how humans are currently in a transition between human and AI. Ultimately, the episode raises questions about the future of humanity, and...

Duration: 00:34:35
Change, Habits, and Blindspots
Mar 06, 2023

THE THREE-HEADED MAN begins by talking about the ability to change oneself or others. From there, they discuss rigid habits and the option to distinguish and accept what cannot be changed.

When we get riled up and our buttons are pushed, we jump on a train of inner-considerations and bad moods. Continuing on they stumble into a discussion of G.I. Gurdjieff's notions about being awake and asleep.

Duration: 00:31:04
Getting Better
Feb 27, 2023

What did our parents get better at as they aged? Jimmy inserts the idea of judgement and being stuck as we hold strongly to our beliefs.

THE THREE-HEADED MAN confronts his retirement, and he acknowledges that he is labeled as old.

Duration: 00:28:35
Mistakes
Feb 20, 2023

Phreddie retells a story where about a rebellious 11 year old student.

This week THE THREE-HEADED MAN wonders about mistakes. What is a mistake? What do we label as a mistake? Jimmy tells us that school and religion verify mistakes. What is the difference between "wrong" and a "mistake"?

Duration: 00:24:26
Process
Feb 13, 2023

How do you do it? We borrow from those have gone before. Jimmy tells us that process is a story. THE THREE-HEADED MAN recounts their work processes.

Jimmy explains building processes, Jazzy tells us about his painting and drawing processes, and Phreddie relays his teaching processes.

Eventually, THE THREE-HEADED MAN stumbles into recognition of group processes. Jimmy builds beautiful stairs and Phreddie puts posts in the ground.

Duration: 00:29:18
Help! (for the aged)
Feb 06, 2023

THE THREE-HEADED MAN confronts aging and death. Jimmy begins our conversation by calling for help. The help he calls out for is help to maintain an independent lifestyle as he confronts his aging body. Jimmy wants to downscale his life because he is beginning to feel helpless. While he says he has always been "one needle away from death", the reality of death affects his life.

Duration: 00:27:11
Cruisin' for Understanding
Jan 30, 2023

Jazzy returns from a week long Tai Chi cruise with a pair of new eyes.

Surprised by how his views of his life have changed after the cruise, Jazzy prods us with questions so that we can help him understand his experience that became a milometer of distance and just a little juxtaposition.

Is there a way to get a "milometer of distance" from ourselves without going on holiday?

Duration: 00:30:13
How do we learn?
Jan 23, 2023

Phreddie tells a story about trying to teach his primary students that time is relative, then he explains how he is trying to learn Spanish through immersion. After Phreddie's lengthy opening, THE THREE-HEADED MAN wonders: do we bring something from the outside,and it's incorporated on the inside or do we remember what we already know? How do we learn? What is a learning process? Repetition?

Duration: 00:25:45
Tweaking
Jan 16, 2023

Tweaking the direction of life? An advocate for change? Self-Improvement? To tweak or not to tweak?

THE THREE-HEADED MAN wonders about he can change anything in our life.

Striving to use time better? Striving for an idealized life? Somehow in the midst of talking about the possible changes that can be made in one's life, THE THREE-HEADED MAN stumbles into death. A frank discussion of dying ensues.

Duration: 00:26:59
Service
Jan 10, 2023

THE THREE-HEADED MAN talks service. Who do you service? What is service? Service is in the physical realm. Doing the dishes...???

Service industries...do we do the service for ourselves?

Earning merit.

Unseen service and Ego

Duration: 00:29:22
Practical Honesty
Jan 02, 2023

Jimmy starts us by talking about charging a local guy with assault. His lawyer tells him there's no liability in truth. Opinions and individual perspective. Community communication. Being honest and truthful. Inserting oneself into situations. The boys collectively explore the limits of honesty and lawlessness.

THE THREE-HEADED MAN wonders whether he should die on the cross of his opinion or negotiate and perform deferential behavior.

Duration: 00:31:18
"Other Beings" -- Season 3, Welcome back Jimmy...
Dec 26, 2022

Season Three begins with Jimmy's return....The Original Cast is reunited -- a hearty welcome to back to Jimmy.

"Other Beings" is inspired by Jimmy's and Jaswant's work in the Labyrinth's Readers Course. As they begin this course, Jimmy is reminded of the need to connect to and communicate with other beings, and this reminder prompted him to bring it to our weekly conversations.

All three cast members are well versed in the readings from the American Book of the Dead, and their conversation springs from this. The course the Jimmy and Jazzy are taking...

Duration: 00:32:00
Information about Information
Aug 14, 2022

This week's coversation begins with a 1990s recollection of Robert Anton Wilson and his ideas about information doubling. With the context established THE THREE-HEADED MAN explores the various types of information: technology, progress, overload, etc...

One could summarize this week's talk as "boomers talk about the immensity of the world" or "boy the internet has a lot of information".

Duration: 00:30:09
Quality
Aug 07, 2022

THE THREE-HEADED MAN attempts to understand, "what is quality?" It's another tarnished word, and its significance can be applied to God and to Toyota. On the other hand, one can ponder the quality of their life or extract quality from a moment.

Duration: 00:30:41
Who ya gonna call?
Jul 31, 2022

THE THREE-HEADED MAN ponders, "When wishing for something, who do you ask?"

Who do you pray to? Who ya gonna call? Who do we ask for help? And, when help or good luck has been received, who do you thank? Where do we send our gratitude?

Duration: 00:32:15
Jokes
Jul 24, 2022

THE THREE-HEADED MAN tells jokes. One-liners, stories, punchlines, and misses.

Duration: 00:29:55
Jinx
Jul 17, 2022

Can our words change what can happen and/or what could happen? Ordinary words create incantations.

Do we have the power to influence events?

Superstitions -- "Don't say that, or it will come true." Or the "Power of Positive Thinking."

THE THREE-HEADED MAN concludes with a few thoughts about remembering our existence.

Duration: 00:30:22
Punishment
Jul 10, 2022

THE THREE-HEADED MAN ponders punishment. "Does the punishment fit the crime?"

Consequences, Rehabilitation, and Benevolent Dictators.

"Gravity Happens"

Duration: 00:28:23
Expectations
Jul 03, 2022

The THREEE-HEADED MAN shares the misery of expectations.

To project the worst, then "Things can only get better..." or to expect people to act accordingly, then disappointment.

The color of expectations. Without expectations, we can enjoy the ride.

The expectation of waking up....what does one expect enlightenment to be?

Duration: 00:29:13
Marketing Religion
Jun 26, 2022

THE THREE-HEADED MAN ponders the marketing of spiritual ideas. He considers the ethics of marketing spirituality. Does it cheapen the journey? Selling ideas. Spiritual and religious stories that entice the imagination. Religious stories.

Duration: 00:31:41
Memory
Jun 19, 2022

Where are memories stored? Are they packed in the body in the form of knots and nodes and pain? The muscles' memory.

THE THREE-HEADED MAN recollects their earliest childhood memory. Rembering the memories with a story.

Duration: 00:33:23
Recapitulation
Jun 12, 2022

THE THREE-HEADED MAN tries to understand the concept of recapitulation or they try to Gather lost energy...they consider their last hour of life.

Why is reviewing one's life useful? To Recapitulate ... their dashed hopes.

Duration: 00:26:12
Comfort
Jun 05, 2022

THE THREE-HEADED MAN wonders about comfort and comfortable clothing and comfort food and personal comfort and familiar comfortable things...and then, sacrificing it all -- sacrificing comfort.

Duration: 00:29:36
Without
May 29, 2022

THE THREE-HEADED MAN wonders about doing without stuff and things. Autsterity. This leads to pondering the meaning and use of sacrifice. He concludes by distinguishing between choosing to do without and being forced to do without.

Duration: 00:33:13
Models
May 22, 2022

THE THREE-HEADED MAN says that models are real. Models are representations. The model of the thing is the thing itself.

"As above, so below"

Duration: 00:34:17
Imagination and Visualization
May 15, 2022

This week THE THREE-HEADED MAN discusses the tools of Imagination and Visualization. He ponders the relationship between the two concepts. In doing so, wonders about their use in reaching his life aims and goals. While Hans visualizes a Lamborghini, Jazzy recalls a story about Robert Anton Wilson's visualization of finding quarters on the city streets.

Are we limited by our imagination? What lies outside of the human imagination? We can visualize only what we can imagine.

Duration: 00:31:01
Motivation
May 08, 2022

Tricks and Tactics. THE THREE-HEADED MAN talk about rituals, procrastination, and perfection as he tries to maintain his daily practices.

Duration: 00:33:18
Women
May 01, 2022

THE THREE-HEADED MAN tries to see past his definitions, categories, and fears of women.

As the discussion continues, THE THREE-HEADED MAN confesses their fear of rejection; their questioning of traditional roles; and, the esoteric purposes of gender.

Duration: 00:26:59
Harmony
Apr 24, 2022

Do drummers think of harmony? What happens when someone who is out of tune doesn't know how they are out of tune?

THE THREE-HEADED MAN confesses that he feels out of tune with the world. They conclude by discussing the notions of resonace, shape-shifting, and role-playing.

Duration: 00:32:44
5 Minutes
Apr 17, 2022

THE THREE-HEADED MAN discuss the AMAZING tool of 5 Minutes. In 5 minutes, they can open doors to work with the infinite.

Duration: 00:25:58
Awe
Apr 10, 2022

This week THE THREE-HEADED MAN discusses AWE. They ponder brotherhood and the infinite. We are Individuals and galaxies that collide and coalesce.

Duration: 00:33:18
Attitude
Apr 03, 2022

This week THE THREE-HEADED MAN discusses ATTITUDE -- like having a good attitude in a game. The game that THE THREE-HEADED MAN plays needs a good attitude. In other words, how do we go through? How do we go through the situations we go through? The good times and the bad times.

For example, Phreddie goes through with the attitude of confidence.

Duration: 00:36:44
All Souls
Mar 27, 2022

This week THE-THREEHEADED MAN discuss ALL SOULS. Jazzy begins by retelling his preparations for his Taiichi school's All Souls shrine and alter.

He sorts fruit searching for blemishes and imperfections, which leads to a discussion of magic in the ordinary. Rescuing and sorting souls. They remember other sorting and recue exercises: coins, plush toys, people...and we are pulled out of circulation.

Duration: 00:27:24
Recurrence
Mar 20, 2022

This week THE THREE-HEADED MAN discusses RECURRENCE. Do I have to go through that again? And if I have to go through it again, "What can change?" Because, it's "Always the same day, Always the same room."

"One can't change what is." Watch your life as a filmmaker watches a film.

The Recurrence Talks / The Porch Discussion @ https://www.idhhb.com/

Duration: 00:33:58
Music
Mar 13, 2022

This week THE THREE-HEADED MAN discusses Music as a guiding influence. From childhood and David Cassidy to The Beatles and David Bowie and onward to Jazz and the harmonium. Listening parties and wormholes round out the conversation.

Duration: 00:31:23
Embarrassment
Mar 06, 2022

This week THE THREE-HEADED MAN discusses embarrassment. Embarrassment can be seen as an obstacle or a type of fear. It is especially visible in art and music making. Is it related to insecurity? Or vanity? Why do our behaviors change when we push the record button?

Duration: 00:32:15
Meditation
Feb 27, 2022

This week THE THREE-HEADED MAN explore the question: "What is meditation?" Phreddie begins by wondering about the commercialization of meditation. Both Phreddie and Jazzy recount their personal experiences of meditation practices. Within their conversation, they tell stories about J.G. Bennett's Claymont school in West Virginia, and Tai chi practices.

Duration: 00:26:34
Merit
Feb 20, 2022

Jazzy and Phreddie reflect upon a workshop they attended. A workshop about merit.

A question was posed: "If merit is not helping an old person across the street, then what is it?" What is the purpose of collecting merit? What is merit? Why is it important?

Together, they explore merit: its meaning, its usefullness, and its importance.

Duration: 00:32:10
Things We Carry
Feb 13, 2022

This week THE THREE-HEADED MAN welcomes back Hans from Michigan to talk about the things they carry.

Hans tells a story a story of recognition. Following Hans' story, THE THREE-HEADED MAN discusses Enlightened Karmic Weight Loss.

To conclude, they ponder making amends and repairing the past.

Duration: 00:32:27
Awareness
Feb 06, 2022

This week Hans from Michigan joins THE THREE-HEADED MAN. Hans is Phreddie's long-time friend and a member of the circle which ties Jazzy and Phreddie.

What if clones had self-awareness?

This week THE THREE-HEADED MAN discuss awareness, which leads to a discussion of one's Spirit nature and Animal nature.

What is presence?

The discussion wraps up THE THREE-HEADED MAN questioning if Art is a linage between instinct and thoughts and invocation.

Duration: 00:35:45
Certainty
Jan 30, 2022

Jazzy and Phreddie of THE THREE-HEADED MAN discuss "Perserveriance in the face of Uncertainty". In this episode the boys wonder about the focus upon results in their daily practices, and they joke about the storybook expectations of gaining amazing powers through spiritual exercises.

Duration: 00:27:08
Covid and Hitchhiking
Jan 23, 2022

A Hans, a new HEAD joins the podcast to retell our personal Covid-19 stories.

Phreddie encourages our new HEAD, Hans, to explain what makes him unique. His uniqueness is revealed in a story. Eventually, the THREE-HEADED MAN recall the early days of the pandemic, and Hans recalls his Covid hospitalization.

Hitchhiking, Covid, and "What's Next?"

Duration: 00:34:56
Enjoy Hiccups
Jan 16, 2022

Phreddie asks, "Do you enjoy your life?"

Rocketed by this question Jazzy and Phreddie discuss measuring enjoyment and window shopping other's pain. Later they remenisce about metaphysical workshops where they learned about "flipping the switch" and proceeding through life with high confidence and low self-esteem.

They wrap-up by speculating how they fall asleep.

Duration: 00:30:59
Paranoia
Jan 09, 2022

"The Paranoids After Me"

This week THE THREE-HEADED MAN discusses Paranoia. Jazzy claims that paranoia can save your life, and Phreddie tells a long tale about making decisions in a paranoid state.

Duration: 00:35:03
Season Two -- "Repetition"
Jan 02, 2022

AN ALMOST NEW SEASON OR INTERLUDE FOR THETHREE-HEADED MAN

Jazzy and Phreddie begin their new season as a temporary Two-Headed Man. We have no idea whether we want to add a third head, but we are stuck with ourname. To fulfill the commitment to our name, we will eventually add a third head. However, there is no hurry. Is there? We need to remove the old guy fromour graphic, don't we?

Jazzy and Phreddie discuss the relationship between Mantras & Fast Food Advertisements. The find a relationship between the repetition of mantras and advertisements. They continue...

Duration: 00:30:02
Season One Finale -- "Pain"
Oct 03, 2021

SEASON ONE FINALE

Jimmy begins by introducing the origins of his pain: cold, hunger, fear. Currently, he does not feel safe. He's feels his aging body and mind.

Following Jimmy's lead, Phreddie and Jazzy turn the conversation toward physical and emotional pain. THE THREE-HEADED MAN discovers and discusses his own experiences with pain.

Phreddie asks, "Is stress pain?" And, with this question THE THREE-HEADED MAN concludes season one.

Duration: 00:40:20
Discipline
Sep 26, 2021

This week THE THREE-HEADED MAN discusses discipline. Jazzy asks us about the relationship between discipline and disciple. Quickly, the three-heads move their conversation to self-discipline and responsibility. As the discussion continues, THE THREE-HEADED MAN lands upon the contrasts of internal discipline and external discipline.

Duration: 00:34:58
Communication
Sep 19, 2021

This week THE THREE-HEADED MAN discusses communication and things. Phreddie asserts that for a good connection he needs to go where they are at. Jazzy and Jimmy introduce the ideas of reception and reading people; in other words: listeners and talkers.

Jimmy worries explains that dishonoring others ends his willingness to communicate.

Duration: 00:38:42
Heart
Sep 12, 2021

Phreddie says, "you got heart, kid!"

THE THREE-HEADED MAN explore the heart. Along the way, they talk parents, nature, and singing. The heart is a transmitter and a receiver.

Duration: 00:37:42
Hardening Up the Plants
Sep 05, 2021

Episode 37: Jimmy introduces this week's conversation topic, "Hardening Up the Plants". The THREE-HEADED MAN talks gardening, raising children, and coming of age.

THE THREE-HEADED MAN draws analogies between gardening and the upbringing of children, and from there they explore their own childhood stories.

Duration: 00:36:12
Afghanistan and Skinheads
Aug 29, 2021

Jimmy leads Episode 36 with a story about Afghanistan on Christmas day. Jazzy follows with a skinhead story in London.

These and other stories are the shape of our perceptions.

Duration: 00:37:49
Attention
Aug 22, 2021

THE THREE-HEADED MAN probes what is meant by ATTENTION.

Is it participation? Attending? Observation?

Is it a place?

This week THE THREE-HEADED MAN explores their ATTENTION.

Duration: 00:31:21
Worry
Aug 15, 2021

Phreddie asks, "what is worry?" He never used to worry and now he does.

THE THREE-HEADED MAN discuss world and personal events that cause worry. From the conversation, Jazzy concludes, "Don't be a worrier, be a warrior."

Duration: 00:37:33
Sports
Aug 08, 2021

In episode 33, THE THREE-HEADED MAN talks sports. Jimmy asserts that uniforms change the game from fun to competition. He prefers scrub sports, kids playing, and inclusion. For him, winning becomes an issue.

Phreddie relates stories of playing American football. He enjoys the competition, and he learned to use his mind to overcome the limitations of his body.

Jazzy, as usual, is the bridge between these differing points-of-view.

Duration: 00:35:45
Story
Aug 01, 2021

Jazzy begins the discussion by telling us about his father's health. Phreddie immediately responds by reminding us of the film "Rashomon". Perspectives. Jimmy ask, "Is a painting a story?"

THE THREE-HEADED MAN concludes, "It's all a story..."

Phreddie adds a phrase that he learned from Robert Flaherty, sometimes we have to "lie to tell the truth".

THE HEADS ask, "How do we share our truth? And, they consider memory and it's relationship to story. Phreddie says, "My reality is a series of stories I've told myself."

Jimmy reminds us that storytelling...

Duration: 00:36:15
Weakness
Jul 25, 2021

Jazzy begins the conversation by wish to self-direct his time. Jimmy quickly turns the conversation toward taking advantage of one's weakness. How can one use their weakness? Or how can one strengthen their weakness?

Jazzy reminds the heads that a joke contains a shift in perception, and using the shift in perception contained in a joke one can see a perceived weakness from a positive vantage point. He then asks the heads about hard-wired and soft-wired weaknesses. Phreddie reviews the heads examples within this construct.

Duration: 00:36:45
Sort of Sorting
Jul 18, 2021

THE THREE-HEADED MAN are prompted by Jimmy to have a conversation about a phrase: "Sort of Sorting". The heads explore its obvious and subtle implications. Jimmy begins the exploration by wondering about certainty and messiness.

Phreddie replies by saying "sort of sorting" implies a process. We gather data and sort it. Jazzy reminds the other heads that we have begun investing and creating NFTs. We knew nothing a few weeks ago, but we have been working through a process of learning cryptocurrency and sorting it out.

From there, THE THREE-HEADED MAN investigates nature's process of...

Duration: 00:36:53
Coincidence
Jul 11, 2021

THE THREE-HEADED MAN has a conversation about COINCIDENCE.

Thy begin by discussing prompts for creativity, leading them to speak on randomity, limits and teleporting

Jimmy introduces the idea of data and connections, while Phreddie asks if a person can massage events to encourage good coincidences. Jazzy continues by adding story to the conversation, which births a conversation about fate and destiny..."surprising events that are seemingly planned."

The conversation wraps-up with questions about what is happening and how perceptions of what is happening color a person's reality, and Phreddie remembers stories about jumping...

Duration: 00:36:24
Belief
Jul 04, 2021

THE THREE-HEADED MAN discusses their ideas on the topic of belief.

Jazzy begins by explaining his mother's dementia. Jimmy reminds us of the definition of belief, which is expectation, faith, and trust.

Phreddie considers himself a science person, and THE THREE-HEADED MAN considers data, science, and belief, which leads them to the question, "What is faith?" and "What is certainty?"

Jazzy asks what is Maya? Jimmy responds by saying everyone pretends. We are pretending all the time. Story -- Everything is a story.

Duration: 00:36:18
Apathy
Jun 27, 2021

THE THREE-HEADED MAN discusses, "I don't wanna..."

Phreddie remembers bumper stickers -- "Just Say No Apathy"

They ask, "Is doing the enemy of apathy?"

Jimmy questions the relationship between apathy and depression. What are remedies for apathy? Inner tasks and outer tasks -- what others can see can be used as motivation.

Jimmy recalls something his father said, "Be good to yourself." Jimmy continues by saying not getting stuff done is self-torture.

Is apathy cheating yourself? "So much to do, so much to do," says Jazzy.

"Little...

Duration: 00:31:47
Crisis
Jun 20, 2021

Jimmy introduces our topic: Crisis. He relates it to an earlier conversation about "the cull", which we have yet to release because we believe the topic is insensitive to those who are currently suffering.

Crisis as a single event, which provides food for moving forward, says Jimmy.

Jazzy adds time and deadlines as factors in business to the crisis discussion. Phreddie questions, "What's a crisis look like in Riondel, BC?"

Jimmy feels the world in changing.

Jimmy asks, "What do we do in a crisis? "Action or eat it," says Phreddie.<...

Duration: 00:33:33
Mood
Jun 13, 2021

"Mood" is the prompt for this week's THREE-HEADED MAN conversation.

Jimmy begins the conversation by referring to himself as a stable actor -- he is stable, steady, simple -- tidy -- that's Jimmy, and he has an aim of "Zero Mood". Moodless.

Jazzy has an evil thought, and attempts to provoke Jimmy, "did Mary call you in the background?"

Phreddie asks, "Does a mood come from outside?"

What changes our mood and attitude?

The conversation advances, are we enslaved to mood? Moods work their way through me. Phreddie experiences "...

Duration: 00:34:56
Silence
Jun 06, 2021

This week THE THREE-HEADED MAN quietly discuss Silence

Jazzy is reading prayers for the passing of the Queen of Samadhi. He reads an invocation to the "divine silence of the soundless voice". Jazzy continues with the silence of the Sikh deities and listening. Miracles are obtained by listening.

Jimmy returns the conversation to more concrete experiences -- Silence and Sound -- and the everyday sounds.

Phreddie reminds that "In the beginning there was the word." He wonders whether sound is the first creation in the void of silence.

Jimmy introduces several...

Duration: 00:34:42
Lottery
May 30, 2021

Jazzy begins by saying, "A lottery could anything," and Jimmy adds, that "Lottery is a supreme performance."

"You gotta play to win."

Phreddie wonders, "Who is the luckiest?"

Jazzy defines Lottery as the manifestation of something that has tiny odds --

THE THREE-HEADED MAN continues to discuss luck. Luck is recognition. Jimmy says he is pretty good at recognition. He says the lottery is like a joy buzz. Phreddie and Jazzy talk about drops in a video game. "Why is Jazzy luckier than me?" asks Phreddie. What makes a person lucky?<...

Duration: 00:32:05
Gaming
May 23, 2021

Jazzy introduces the topic of gaming through the board game of "Monopoly." He learns t try something different to win.

Jimmy adds that games can become like war and that games are an illusion. Eliminating the war quality of games is how he views games. Jimmy continues by discussing teammates. He remembers creating equal teams when he played soccer. Jimmy desires competitive balance.

Strat-o-matic games. Phreddie talks of his lucky, and that he views gaming as way to spend time among friends.

"Art of War" -- Jazzy introduces deception. A Sucker Punch?

<...

Duration: 00:32:10
Exalted Spaces
May 16, 2021

This week's conversation is an exploration of exalted spaces. THE THREE-HEADED MAN chases and attempts to capture the wordless experiences of extraordinary experiences with words. Phreddie concludes his introduction of the topic by asking, "Why say anything in an exalted space?"

Jimmy thinks in partials. We are not in one or the other spot, exclusively.And he adds, "Churchy" -- Things get churchy in an exalted space.

Jazzy continues to chase by contributing the idea that there must be someone or something within us who recognizes it is an exalted space.

Jimmy introduces...

Duration: 00:39:38
Ruts
May 09, 2021

"A rut is a habit," says Jimmy, and "being in a rut with yourself is not so good," he adds. Jimmy has Ruts on his road, and he can work with those. A rut is a habit, a pattern.

Jazzy considers positive and negative ruts. A groove is a rut. Jazzy and Phreddie ponder getting into a groove with a group.

Is a personality a rut?

Language -- Jazzy speaks Punjabi and English. Each expresses language differently, and it could be argued that a language is a rut, which prompts Phreddie to ask, "...

Duration: 00:33:45
Hell with a "P"
May 02, 2021

Jazzy begins the conversation by commenting upon self-made folks, those who do it all by themselves.

Phreddie changes the direction by adding dividing help into receiving and giving. Helping others is not linear path. Do some suffocating others with help? Phreddie adds the adage: "Go where they're at."

Jimmy -- help is a state, and that help goes both ways. Joy, Love, and Help -- each are giving and receiving.

Then, they discuss too much help or inappropriate help -- "Let me help you be like me." Or, "From my perspective you need...

Duration: 00:35:31
Transitions -- Part Two
Apr 25, 2021

Transitions, Part Two

The THREE-HEADED MAN continues their conversation of transitions.

Moving -- Spacial Awareness as feedback.

Jimmy is better in motion.

Phreddie introduces the idea of Maintenance. The will to move. Where does the will to move come from? Taking out the garbage includes an awareness of the garbage, an acknowledgement of the family responsibility, and, of course, remembering to remove the garbage.

Transition to the topic of "Attention."

Phreddie ponders transitions in film. Is sleep a hard cut or a fade? Jazzy relates a story...

Duration: 00:22:51
Transitions
Apr 18, 2021

"Transitions" is a partial episode. The second part will be released next Sunday. The entire episode is near 45 minutes, so we decided to break it into two parts.

Jimmy calls the tune, and the song is in the key of transition. Jimmy goes on to explain and define transition. He says it insinuates coming from somewhere and going to somewhere.

Quickly, the conversation segues to death -- another Transit -- where it is written that the being is between lives.

Phreddie begins describing his transition from the USA to Spain, and he wonders...

Duration: 00:19:59
Marriage
Apr 11, 2021

Marriage

Phreddie asks, "What did marriage mean when you got married?" Jazzy asks, How is marriage defined?

Jazzy's marriage is arranged, and he discusses the boundaries between him and his wife -- yet, there is a family.

Jimmy recalls how he met Mary. Jimmy's father said Donald men are like geese -- they mate for life. Currently Mary and Jimmy are managing. It's a more difficult time -- Jimmy's dying -- they are not sure what they are doing. He's not building anymore. Curious time. Workin' it through. Jimmy looks at families to...

Duration: 00:33:31
Joy
Apr 04, 2021

The THREE-HEADED MAN'S conversation about Joy begins with Jazzy's account of the death of his friend -- His friend died of Covid-19. Jazzy continues by telling of his own Covid infection, and the death of his mother from the Covid-19 virus.

Jimmy says, "Joy is in between happy and love -- it's a state." He continues by saying happy is for the self -- Joy is more mature. It is shared.

Joy is a connector -- it spreads a light quality

Phreddie, like Jazzy begins with a disappointment that he summarizes in one...

Duration: 00:32:58
Home Too
Mar 28, 2021

Jimmy introduces this week's topic: the sanctity of home.

Jimmy recalls that THE THREE-HEADED MAN met himself, and when he met the other two heads, he was searching for a home, a metaphysical home, and Jazzy and Phreddie happened to be in the home he found on his search, a home of brothers and sisters and oddballs

Jazzy recollects his memories and recalls that a home needs a strong foundation -- The Book of Five Rings -- first ring, the foundation, is home.

Phreddie's explains his metaphysical foundation -- security.

The...

Duration: 00:31:26
Clutter
Mar 21, 2021

Jazzy leaves stuff out, stuff like his recorder, and his wife likes to dust and put things away. Jazzy uses clutter as a reminder, a reminder to do things. However, Jazzy's wife sees his recorder as clutter and puts it away in a drawer.

Phreddie asks, "Are tidy people, better people?" Jimmy adds that farmers move stuff around and leave stuff around because they will use it the next day. Farmers keep things in motion -- stuff can be left out if it is in motion and part of a project.

The Three-Headed man exclaims, "...

Duration: 00:19:03
Loss
Mar 14, 2021

In this episode, "Loss", the THREE-HEADED MAN, engages in a conversation about the death of their parents and grandparents. This conversation was recorded a few days after the death of Jazzy's mother.

While playing Diablo 3 with Phreddie, Jazzy receives a phone call, his mother has passed.

"Here you are, and there you go"

Phreddie tells a story about his own death. In this moment of realization, he touches his own death and discovers its terrifying qualities. He says something like, "I don't remember my past lives. What if I don't exist after I...

Duration: 00:30:52
Whatever
Mar 07, 2021

Jazzy titled the show, "whatever," because whenever he tries to involve his two boys in his projects, they reply, "whatever dad."

The conversation, as it usually does, meanders.

It begins with a question of doing, and Jimmy suggests that actions can be better understood through the lens of "Want v. Need."

Jazzy and Phreddie respond to Jimmy's categories by pondering the relationship of judging, guilt, and achieving. "We're in a stream," exclaims, Jimmy. He doesn't understand static.

The conversation flows into the idea of self-direction. Jazzy self-schedules, while Phreddie confesses that...

Duration: 00:31:43
Play
Feb 28, 2021

In Episode 10, Jimmy tells us he is a seeker of play -- he plays music, and he plays while digging holes. He searches for people with playful natures. Phreddie responds by saying he plays while he works, and he is serious while he plays.

Jimmy reminds us that play is what children do, while adults tell us that play is wasting time -- children are not serious.

Jazzy and Phreddie explore the relationship of art and play. "What if I want to make something 'good,'" asks Phreddie. The discussion starts a new thread: the...

Duration: 00:33:32
Connections
Feb 21, 2021

The Three-Headed Man explores connectedness. From this topic springs the topics of perception, permanent hurts, and death.

"They're alive too," says Jimmy. We know this when we connect. To give a concrete story to explain himself, Jimmy recounts a story of connecting to his dog, Skinny.

What level of connection is needed to connect to all living things? asks Jazzy. What is alive and perceiving things? Where does the thing that is perceiving things inside this body, where does it go after death?

"Perception is connection," says Jimmy.

When Jazzy moves...

Duration: 00:30:15
Headspace
Feb 14, 2021

"Headspace" could be misleading. It could be misconstrued. We apologize.

The Three-Headed Man recalls the books that led them to the place that began their friendship. This episode is about books and preparatory experiences. Phreddie directs Jimmy and Jazzy to consider the headspace that allowed the book to drop into their lives.

Duration: 00:33:13